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hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 03:13 PM Oct 2014

US archbishop urges both sides to cool down at Vatican

Josephine McKenna

VATICAN CITY (RNS) After two days of fighting between happy liberals and angry conservatives, the Vatican on Wednesday (Oct. 15) dispatched a leading moderate from the U.S. church to tell both sides to temper their expectations about impending changes in church doctrine.

Archbishop Joseph Kurtz of Louisville, Ky., president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, stressed that a working document on family issues released on Monday (Oct. 13) is simply that — a draft document still subject to amendment by about 200 bishops and lay delegates meeting at Vatican City.

http://www.religionnews.com/2014/10/15/us-archbishop-urges-sides-cool-vatican/

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US archbishop urges both sides to cool down at Vatican (Original Post) hrmjustin Oct 2014 OP
There are a couple, okasha Oct 2014 #1
I would not be suprised if he becomes another Marcel Lefebvre. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #3
I wouldn't, either. okasha Oct 2014 #7
That's good advice. rug Oct 2014 #2
Of course i see some in the other room just want to pounce. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #4
They will never have a reasonable discussion about religion generally rug Oct 2014 #5
I understand the hesitation on their part but one has to admit this is exciting hrmjustin Oct 2014 #8
"it brought out a part of me I did not like" rug Oct 2014 #10
It felt like I was being tested. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #11
If that's what it was, you passed. rug Oct 2014 #12
Thanks. in the future when i go in there i must remind myself to always smile. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #13
You passed, with honors. okasha Oct 2014 #14
Thanks. i do feel burned by the room. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #15
I understand. okasha Oct 2014 #16
You are good at dealing with your detractors. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #17
Can you be more specific about who, precisely, issued a 'fatwa', and who is obeying it? AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #19
Sure I can. rug Oct 2014 #23
Except of course, there is none. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #24
Except, of course, history and evidence demonstrate there is. rug Oct 2014 #25
In post 23 you make a specific allegation about me/my knowledge. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #26
Oh, take it Religion. rug Oct 2014 #28
I agree it's no place for stupid games. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #29
Then stop playing them. rug Oct 2014 #31
Yes I read A&A AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #32
Roght in front of your nose. rug Oct 2014 #33
We've gone back and forth for ten posts now. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #34
I told you 6 posts ago I'm not playing your stupid games. rug Oct 2014 #35
I don't play games in this group. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #36
Bullshit. rug Oct 2014 #37
Again, appropriate venue. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #38
It's not here. Come on over where it is. It will be my pleasure. rug Oct 2014 #39
I am not baiting you. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #40
If you want to complain about hosts, I suggest you start at A&A. rug Oct 2014 #41
I raised a couple threads about tone and meta in that venue. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #42
Certain posters seem not to understand-- okasha Oct 2014 #6
Well said! hrmjustin Oct 2014 #9
We understand and acknowledge. AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #18
Well i understand your being hesitant but i think this new thing is rather exciting. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #20
And on the other issues? AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #21
We will continue to oppose them on those issue. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #22
Will we continue to castigate agitators for change? AtheistCrusader Oct 2014 #27
I don't see castigation here in this thread. hrmjustin Oct 2014 #30

okasha

(11,573 posts)
1. There are a couple,
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 07:07 PM
Oct 2014

Burke, for example, who would be greatly improved by a bucket of ice water.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
4. Of course i see some in the other room just want to pounce.
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 08:53 PM
Oct 2014

These things take time.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
5. They will never have a reasonable discussion about religion generally
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 09:31 PM
Oct 2014

or Catholicism specifically. The fatwa has been issued and obeyed.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
8. I understand the hesitation on their part but one has to admit this is exciting
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 10:01 PM
Oct 2014

and filled with possibility. But of course some won't.

For the record i stopped posting there because it brought out a part of me I did not like, I got sick of answering the same questions all the time, i got sick of the insultsand bullying, and the big reason is that the religious privilege on DU debate went places here that was infuriating, insulting, and dishonest.

Just for the record i say these things. I will come back but not anytime soon.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
10. "it brought out a part of me I did not like"
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 10:12 PM
Oct 2014

Indeed. And the worse part is that it was intentional. What healthy person does that?

okasha

(11,573 posts)
16. I understand.
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 11:02 PM
Oct 2014

I have only one person on ignore, but there are several I only skim or pass over entirely and a few to whom I simply won't respond. I added another to the "no response" list a couple nights ago. It makes the air in the room a shade less toxic.


AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
19. Can you be more specific about who, precisely, issued a 'fatwa', and who is obeying it?
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:02 AM
Oct 2014

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
26. In post 23 you make a specific allegation about me/my knowledge.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:20 PM
Oct 2014

Feel free to trot out your evidence. Otherwise, I'd ask you to retract that, as it amounts to a personal attack.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
29. I agree it's no place for stupid games.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:32 PM
Oct 2014

Which is why I am keeping my responses here material and clean. Different groups, different rules.

I await actual evidence of some sort of coordinated effort to which I am a party.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
31. Then stop playing them.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:47 PM
Oct 2014

And read more carefully before popping off in offense. I take it you read A&A.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
36. I don't play games in this group.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 09:34 PM
Oct 2014

Let alone stupid games.

So, you're going to pretend you didn't just make a very specific allegation, and then to cover the fact you can't point to an individual/core leadership issuing orders to a group to do XYZ (presumably coordinated disruption/attack), you're just going to point to another group full of bitter veterans, that are unarguably posting not-nice things about religion/people of faith in yet a different group, as if that were somehow the same thing. (Not even close)

Meanwhile, grossly misusing and trivializing a function of a major faith.

Being something of an angry, bitter internet debate/yelling vet myself, that's something I might do as well, to be perfectly honest. But I would do it in a different venue. One in which you could, at the very least, return fire.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
37. Bullshit.
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 11:16 PM
Oct 2014

In 23 you said a made a specific allegation about you.

Now you say I made a very specific allegation - - about an "individual/core leadership".

Of course you're playing games. Not to mention this crap has nothing to do with the OP or the SoP of this safe haven group.

Yes, you're playing games. Grow the fuck up and sling this hash elsewhere. In Religion, as usual, or go whine about it in A&A. I'm sure you'll get a sympathetic ear.

Oh, and, Mr. Sky Daddy, don't talk to me about "trivializing a function of a major faith", with or without Wikipedia. Mention that the next time there's a discussion of teapots or unicorns. You know where those discussions are held. Hypocrisy doesn't fly in any religion. Or in any community that has a semblance of integrity. I hope you find one.

You have your answer.

If you want to "return fire", you know where to find me.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
38. Again, appropriate venue.
Sat Oct 18, 2014, 12:15 AM
Oct 2014

Yes, you did make an allegation about me in post 23. That was true.
You ALSO made an allegation about the group, with the fatwa 'line' in post 5 about leadership/marching orders. I am not confused, nor attempting sleight of hand.

You did BOTH. I am not casually substituting one for the other. Both posts exist.


"Grow the fuck up and sling this hash elsewhere"
Hash was slung in post 5. I was pointing it out when I asked you to elaborate/give specifics. I do not, and will not 'sling hash' in this venue.


"Oh, and, Mr. Sky Daddy, don't talk to me about "trivializing a function of a major faith", with or without Wikipedia."

As I already mentioned, I play that game. You bet. I make no apologies for it. And I've gotten as good as I give. But I do it where the rules allow for it. It is expressly forbidden by the rules of this group. (A rule I have abided by, whenever posting here.)

(I have, to my knowledge and to the best of google's search function, never used that particular phrase, but I have certainly used other language along those lines, so I won't deny the sentiment, even though I never apparently said that.)

"teapots or unicorns"

A useful rhetorical tool in analyzing any unsupported claim. Where I imagine it comes across as vicious, would be in the recent abrasive delivery in the A&A or Religion venues, not the actual comparison. Bertrand Russell was no petty/crude cynic or comedian. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bertrand_Russell

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
39. It's not here. Come on over where it is. It will be my pleasure.
Sat Oct 18, 2014, 12:26 AM
Oct 2014

I'm not going to respond to your past bullshit, or the present bullshit, in here.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
40. I am not baiting you.
Sat Oct 18, 2014, 12:39 AM
Oct 2014

I have been fully open, frank, and honest with you in this venue. I am genuinely concerned about the content of post five, and, while I didn't state it at the time, also concerned that the content of that post was not only not rebuked by any of the hosts, it was commiserated with by a host.

At the very least, the misuse/trivialization of "fatwa" should have warranted a friendly caution by fair and objective hosts, per the rules of this venue.

I strongly suspect that were I to misuse that or a similar term, in the same way, it would not go unnoticed.


I have no doubt that we will tangle or 'sling hash' in Religion again. Fine. However, it will not be about *this* thread, because to engage in meta on this thread in another venue would make me a liar. I came here for a specific, legitimate purpose.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
42. I raised a couple threads about tone and meta in that venue.
Sat Oct 18, 2014, 12:45 AM
Oct 2014

They did not go as I had planned. (and, I myself have succumbed, at times.)
Consider it a work in progress.

Changing tone of an ongoing conversation, when tensions/negativity have been as strong (on both sides) as they have been for so long, means an uphill battle getting everyone to reset diplomatic ties.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
6. Certain posters seem not to understand--
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 09:59 PM
Oct 2014

or maybe they do understand but won't acknowledge-- that what we've seen is only the bare beginning of a process involving at least a year of deliberations and a following implementation that may take equally long. And either or both stages may take longer.Maybe not, though. Look how equal marriage is snowballing in secular law.

In the meantime it's been A WHOLE WEEK and NOTHING HAS HAPPENED!!! POPE FRRRRAAAANNNKKK!

Some folks could use a Valium.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
18. We understand and acknowledge.
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 11:58 PM
Oct 2014

That's not the problem.

Some of us were not quiet, were not patient, voiced frustration, and will not forget or forgive the effort and the journey required just to bring around a political party on this issue (among others). Government wields enormous power over the recognition, or protection of our civil liberties. Any entity with such power can reasonably expect backlash when it is not wielding that power in a humane or effective manner.

Some of us were met with political backlash here on this site, for pushing too hard, expecting too much, demanding change too quickly. Nihil sub sole novum.

This is hardly the first issue I have, in my personal life, had to expend effort and politically fight this particular church over. The fact that I'm an atheist is actually irrelevant. Keep that in mind, this isn't just about religion, this is politics. This church is a major player in the political realm, on many issues. Reproductive freedom. Marriage. End of life decisions. Millions of dollars in lobbying efforts. Lobbying for things that have negatively impacted my life, and I am not a catholic. Lawsuits that have stalled and delayed aspects of the ACA.

So, while you lament other posters not 'seeming to understand', please consider some of us take a much bigger picture, and longer term view of the church in question's political positions. Their policy on 'The Family' is just one issue, but it has enormous political implications for the civil rights of not just American citizens, but people worldwide.

Every day, people live, and they die. People with civil rights curtailed. People who will never know redress for things our government hasn't changed, that were lobbied for by members and elements of this church, based on church doctrine.

I don't have it in me to be patient. I believe it is unreasonable for you to expect me to. If that church existed in a bubble, separate from US and even world politics, that would be one thing. But that's not the world we live in. It has made itself a political entity in the US and elsewhere in the world. This is a politics site, predicated upon a political platform that is at odds with this church on many political issues.

That must needs give rise to friction between some of us, and the policies/doctrine/lobbying of said church.

Every minute a civil right is curtailed is a minute too long, and I, and others will not become inured to current conditions in hope of maybe sorta some change down the line someday based on nebulous hints and indicators today.

You can ask me to be patient, but I can say 'no', and I doubt there's a jury on DU that would take issue with me for it.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
20. Well i understand your being hesitant but i think this new thing is rather exciting.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:22 AM
Oct 2014

Yes it will be painfully slow but it will happen.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
21. And on the other issues?
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:32 AM
Oct 2014

Reproductive freedom, running the gamut from abortion, to legal challenges to the ACA on contraception? End of life freedom?

I don't mean to minimize the marriage issue (Which also has implications for divorced couples today), but it's not the only political problem on the table, that is inimical to the Democratic Platform or progressivism.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
22. We will continue to oppose them on those issue.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 12:43 AM
Oct 2014

We will continue to stand up for what we think is right. And Catholics on the left will fight for their church to changes in thise issues.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
27. Will we continue to castigate agitators for change?
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 09:22 PM
Oct 2014

Because on every civil rights issue in recent memory, the agitators in the end, turned out to be completely right.

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