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cbayer

(146,218 posts)
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 03:52 AM Aug 2014

A Bead And An [Interfaith] Prayer

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/rebariley/2014/08/a-bead-and-an-interfaith-prayer/

August 11, 2014 by Reba Riley



This sweet little book arrived in my mail the week I was working on final memoir edits. Its arrival wasn’t only significant because all authors could use prayer beads during final edits–though I could argue this point!—but because throughout my journey through thirty religions before I turned thirty, I saw prayer beads everywhere.

I don’t know how I survived nearly three decades of life thinking that only Catholics used prayer beads, but I was both surprised and pleased to discover the japa mala (108 beads–Hinduism, Buddhism), misbaḥah (99 or 33 beads–Islam), and sikh mala (108 beads–Sikhism). The Catholics had the rosary, of course, and the Eastern Orthodox Church used a knotted prayer rope. Some of my Baha’i friends used a strand of 95 prayer beads, and I even met a Wiccan Priestess who carried a homemade set in her purse!

I always found myself a little jealous as I watched the devout grasp each smooth bead in contemplation. The practice looked so peaceful, as if one could actively move faith with their fingers. Each bead seemed a place to rest a worry. It reminded me of a miniature version of walking a labyrinth, where you can leave what troubles you at the center when you walk out.

Near the end of my 30 religions project, I decided I wanted my own set of prayer beads. But after I searching “interfaith prayer beads” to no avail (though you can now find a set here), I decided I would have to make my own. I bought silver- pressed cross for the project…and promptly forgot about it. For two years and three months the cross lived at the bottom of my jewelry box, the idea of interfaith prayer beads all but abandoned.

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Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
1. I was educated in a Catholic high school
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 06:41 AM
Aug 2014

Run by an order called the Society of Mary. We had the rosary every single day, and it served more as aversion therapy than anything else. Fifty years later, and I still cannot pray the rosary without getting a severe case of the fidgets.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
2. I think for some, it serves as a method to encourage meditation or contemplation.
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 06:42 AM
Aug 2014

Clearly, that is not the case for you, lol.

No Vested Interest

(5,208 posts)
3. Sad to say, I don't do well with the rosary either.
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 03:28 PM
Aug 2014

The mind wanders, I'm not really paying attention to the words I'm saying.

My thought is that the rosary is more of a Middle Eastern culture thing, where beads etc. are routinely used .

I do much better with individual prayers, or best with my ad hominem intercessions to whomever I wish to communicate with at that given time.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
5. Instead of the Hail Mary I say the Jesus prayer with my Rosary.
Fri Aug 15, 2014, 10:36 PM
Aug 2014

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Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, the sinner.

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jesus_Prayer

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
7. Yes and instead of the Hail Holy Queen I say the Hail Mary and ask her to put in a good word.
Fri Aug 15, 2014, 11:46 PM
Aug 2014

No Vested Interest

(5,208 posts)
8. I believe that "good word" is sent, and received.
Fri Aug 15, 2014, 11:54 PM
Aug 2014

Her Son heeded her "good word" at Cana, even though His time had not yet come.

Union Scribe

(7,099 posts)
4. That's cool that so many paths use beads or knots to pray.
Fri Aug 15, 2014, 10:21 PM
Aug 2014

After reading The Way of a Pilgrim in college I made a crude prayer rope to meditate using the Jesus Prayer from that text. I still find it a reliable method, with or without beads or knots, to slow my breathing and alleviate anxiety.

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