History of Feminism
Related: About this forumI saw "Philomena" yesterday. I'm still angry.
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It is a true story. What happened to Philomena in that Magdalen home was so incredibly cruel and heartless it stayed with me all night. Probably the hardest to take was the scene where she is forced to endure excruciating pain, a breech birth (overseen by the nuns) with no help and no pain medication, so as to punish her for her sin of fornication. Plus, the continuation of cover-up and lies of the convent, even as she searches, 50 years later, for her child. They weren't even sorry! They just continued the cover-up!
If you think you can take the pain and the sorrow in this film, it is worth seeing. Judy Dench is superb as is Steve Coogan who plays the cynical journalist who sees what is going on and really lets loose on the congregation of nuns who devised such a cruel system for young poor women who had no place else to turn when they got pregnant out of wedlock.
See the movie if you can. But be prepared for some real outrage.
cinnabonbon
(860 posts)I think I'll try to watch it. Even if it'll be painful, it's important to support movies when they shed light on history like this.
BainsBane
(55,033 posts)I haven't, but from what I've heard it deals with the long-standing abuse in that convent.
JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)First thing I thought of when I read this OP
Julie
CTyankee
(65,432 posts)Hope it comes back to a local theatre...we have such crappy movies at our cineplexes. Philomena has been relegated to a kind of art movie theatre where there is access to daytime showings only on the weekend. The audience I sat with yesterday was uniformly older, both men and women. So many of us left the theatre quietly shaken...we all lived through this era, though not in the U.K. It was incredibly moving to this crowd...
niyad
(121,031 posts)niyad
(121,031 posts)a pretty decent article:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magdalene_asylum
rdharma
(6,057 posts)dipsydoodle
(42,239 posts)as opposed to Philip Cooledge ?
CTyankee
(65,432 posts)He is so good...
PassingFair
(22,437 posts)TexasProgresive
(12,343 posts)CTyankee
(65,432 posts)I'm going to try to find it...
TexasProgresive
(12,343 posts)Ireland finally admits state collusion in Magdalene Laundry system
Taoiseach Enda Kenny fails to formally apologise for involvement over female enslavement causing more outrage
Henry McDonald in Dublin
The Guardian, Tuesday 5 February 2013 15.50 EST
After more than seven decades of exploitation and a 10-year struggle for justice, Ireland on Tuesday admitted its role in the enslavement of thousands of women and girls in the notorious Magdalene Laundry system, but stopped short of issuing a formal apology from the government.
A long-awaited report headed by Senator Martin McAleese said there was "significant state involvement" in how the laundries were run a reversal of the official state line for years, which insisted the institutions were privately controlled and run by nuns.
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/feb/05/ireland-magdalene-laundry-system-apology
Auggie
(31,964 posts)CTyankee
(65,432 posts)Both movies are hard to take but very revealing.
dipsydoodle
(42,239 posts)The film really upset him and his girlfriend too.
Auggie
(31,964 posts)like The Deer Hunter. Saw it once. Never again.
niyad
(121,031 posts)when people try to dismiss it, or say that their suffering is less than that of other groups.
Auggie
(31,964 posts)Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)One of the best TV comedies of all time is his 'I'm Alan Partridge'. Seek it out and enjoy. He's one of my long time favorites.
CTyankee
(65,432 posts)So many American actors could learn LOTS from those two!
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)Saxondale,another good Coogan series.
mountain grammy
(27,433 posts)It was creepy and awful. She was lucky to have an uncle who was a well known physician at the Catholic hospital in Hartford, so when she went into a difficult labor, they took her to the hospital. Everything was secret. My friend and I lost touch about 20 years ago, but at that time she had had no luck in finding her daughter.
I haven't seen the movie yet, but I will, and if it's what I think it is, I will be sure my 25 year old daughter and her friends see it too. They must see and understand where the religious right wants to take us. We've been there before.
CTyankee
(65,432 posts)'80s. She told me that in her private practice she saw lots of women who suffered greatly from having to have their babies and then give them up. Every year at their birthdays these women grieved terribly way after Roe.
solara
(3,873 posts)She tells the story and then sings her song.. the song itself starts at about 2:30
mountain grammy
(27,433 posts)solara
(3,873 posts)I really love that Joni was moved to write a song about this terrible experience
Lately, it sure seems like consciousness is being raised about the misuse and abuse of power, especially in organized religions
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)niyad
(121,031 posts)of restitution.
Demo_Chris
(6,234 posts)niyad
(121,031 posts)laundries" by bill donohue (remember him??)
nowhere does he even mention the mass grave found in 1993, just to mention one point.
http://www.catholicleague.org/myths-of-the-magdalene-laundries/
CTyankee
(65,432 posts)on the grounds of the convent and finds a cemetary of the young women, one as young as 14, and ones where both the woman and the baby died. It was untended and overgrown. He had to clear weeds away to read the inscriptions on the markers. It was pretty devastating...
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)No point in using obscene language to describe him, because he is an obscenity.
niyad
(121,031 posts)worry for my garden with all that toxicity.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)niyad
(121,031 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)PatSeg
(49,755 posts)These are stories we rarely hear because the mothers don't talk about them. They were shamed, belittled, and humiliated in ways that affect them the rest of their lives. Added to the humiliation is the intense pain of losing one's child, to never know what happened to him/her. The mothers were not entitled to express their loss and grief, because of their "sins", however.
We all know many women who lived this nightmare, but it is a rare woman who will discuss it. The system that stole babies from their mothers did a really good job of silencing them. I've been involved in adoption groups and I don't think there is a story I haven't heard. There was one woman who was told her baby had died. She never had any other children. The baby girl who DIDN'T die found her 25 years later.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Personally I think they should be committed to psychiatric care, but how do you do that with millions?
PatSeg
(49,755 posts)People who want to create a society that is the way they visualize it - Donna Reed or the Cleavers. No single mothers in public, they are just to be used as breeders for those who are more worthy, and then cast aside when they've served their purpose.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)instinctively. I remember, back then, thinking something along the lines of, "They're against abortion because the fetus might be a boy!"
PatSeg
(49,755 posts)but it does ring true.
For a long time, I really thought I understood people's opposition to abortion, but as these 'pro-lifers' gained more and more ground, I realized it was more anti-women than it was pro-life. Suppress and humiliate them wherever possible.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)It's the proverbial give them an inch, they take a mile.
DonCoquixote
(13,746 posts)You want some of the cred you are seeking.
CONDEMN the order that did this! Scatter the order to other orders, but forbid this order from ever forming again!
CTyankee
(65,432 posts)acting all sorrowful for what Philomena went thru...
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)He really should. Especially if he wants the anti-woman stuff to be considered "less of a priority" as he's suggested.
marew
(1,588 posts)It was so terribly sad and horrific. I did see the movie also.
In reality, one girl was sent there only because she was 'too pretty' and might invite male attention. A number were not pregnant but had "sinned." The last Magdalene home was closed only in the 1990s. It was 20th century slavery.
ismnotwasm
(42,486 posts)I can read the book though.
CTyankee
(65,432 posts)And since I love Dench and love to see her work, I was persuaded to go. If I had known how hard that scene was to take, I probably wouldn't have. From now on, I am going to read a few more reviews before I make my decision.
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)very interesting thread knowing I'll never be able to watch this movie.