Loners
Related: About this forumLaffy Kat
(16,530 posts)Although I can exert myself when it's called for; it doesn't bother me.
no_hypocrisy
(49,193 posts)I prefer my solitary company to that of others. I'm not antisocial as much as I've just about had enough of "People" after decades of giving them a chance.
applegrove
(123,606 posts)or when i used to drink and you would not know it. But very introverted otherwise.
dameatball
(7,603 posts)dweller
(25,242 posts)and am happy that way
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OAITW r.2.0
(28,656 posts)and I can find enough to keep me busy at my place. Just got the 1st shot and waiting to get the 2nd....it will be nice to have a higher level of security, although I will be wearing my masks for the foreseeable future.
paleotn
(19,529 posts)But usually I enjoy the company of a few close friends. Large groups exhaust me. So yes, I'm a bit of an introvert.
blueinredohio
(6,797 posts)I can do public if I have to but I'd rather not.
Lord Ludd
(585 posts)Same as it ever was & ever will be
"All human evil comes from a single cause: Man's inability to sit still in a room."
-- Blaise Pascal (1623-1662)
Dreampuff
(778 posts)I will have to write that one down in my scrapbook.
WyLoochka
(1,639 posts)Has been constant over the years.
Can go for two decades or so and think that my "type" may have morphed with age and various life experiences, then check in only to find it's still INTP.
Refresher on MBT: INTP introverted, intuitive, thinking, perceiving.
Warpy
(113,131 posts)not that it makes much of a difference at this point, it just explains a lot.
Buckeye_Democrat
(15,069 posts)Marie Marie
(10,025 posts)wendyb-NC
(3,883 posts)PoindexterOglethorpe
(26,840 posts)I always used to describe myself as a shy person. People would fall on the floor laughing. Apparently, my perception of myself and how others saw me were very different thing.
Nay
(12,051 posts)LizBeth
(10,892 posts)Not a person I have met I cannot have a conversation with. But I isolate. I dont think I like being around people often. If I say hi to a couple people when I walk my dog I feel like Ive had my people time. And then I dont need to be around people the rest of the day. I live alone. I like that. I have pondered if Im an introvert but I dont feel like it. But I dont need people either.
yonder
(10,008 posts)Really interesting answers.
I believe that I was born as an introvert, like my dad was, but for years it was not socially acceptable so between school and my extroverted mother and brother, I had to come out of my shell. Outwardly, I was able to cope my way through school and the life of work. I don't think many people knew that I really treasured my alone time and was worn out from social activity.
Yet I think the change I had to make left me less centered then I should be. At times I get too chatty and I think it is to calm my uneasiness in social situations. I feel very tense and crowds and public speaking horrifies me.
I am finally at the time in my life where I can spend as little time as I want out with others. I can totally relate to the person who said chatting with others while they are out walking their dog is enough social interaction.
Irish_Dem
(59,687 posts)A rare MB typecode.
I know that I don't fit in with the rest of the world. But I do my best.