Sorry to hear of your trials, cliffordu,

and glad judge gave you what s/he did.

(THanks for replying; just got back here!)

Same: Should have taken 90 days.

2 judges encouraged settlement through ADR, clearly didn't want trial, and their calendars didn't allow for playing with trials, so after we got agreement in principle, we were backing and forthing with language, due to his b.s., and 'husb' missed couple court dates. Had I known the p.o.s. would delay as he did, would never have 'agreed' to such fair terms, would have insisted on 'interest pending litigation,' and attorney's fees.

Awaiting $ now, trying to figure out where to park it, and hoping to heal.

Right, never again; still married (due to his health insurance available to me,) and surely wouldn't do it again!