Bereavement

BlueKota

(4,184 posts) Mon Mar 3, 2025, 10:51 PM Mar 3

My cousin Cathy died today

I mentioned her in the post about her brother dying on Thursday. I feel so bad for my Aunt and there 2 brothers and one sister. Just so hard to process them both passing away within a few days of each other.

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My cousin Cathy died today (Original Post) BlueKota Mar 3 OP

So sad to hear this..my condolences to you and your family 💐 Deuxcents Mar 3 #1

Thank you BlueKota Mar 3 #2

Always tough... hang in there and may you find peace. InAbLuEsTaTe Mar 3 #3

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #13

Oh dear. 2naSalit Mar 3 #4

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #14

Sending kind thoughts to you and Cathy's family and loved ones. MLAA Mar 3 #5

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #15

Deepest condolences to you & yours SheltieLover Mar 3 #6

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #16

Goodness, that's a tough blow. My condolences to you and your family. I can't even LoisB Mar 3 #7

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #17

I'm so sorry to hear that. That's so hard for your whole family, your aunt especially. summer_in_TX Mar 4 #8

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #18

Wow that really sucks, and I'm very sorry. benfranklin1776 Mar 4 #9

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #19

🫂 benfranklin1776 Mar 5 #24

I'm so very sorry for your family's loss. StarryNite Mar 4 #10

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #20

It sounds like this was unexpected. Imagine having to deal with grief along Karadeniz Mar 4 #11

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #21

When health ins cuts come, a lot of us will be hearing such news. With my Karadeniz Mar 4 #23

Cathy Clouds Passing Mar 4 #12

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 4 #22

I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Mar 7 #25

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 7 #27

My sympathy to you and the family. It's so sad to livetohike Mar 7 #26

Thank you! BlueKota Mar 7 #28

I'm so sorry. That's tough Diamond_Dog Mar 7 #29

Deuxcents

(21,728 posts)

1. So sad to hear this..my condolences to you and your family 💐

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2025, 10:53 PM

Mar 3

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

2. Thank you

Reply to Deuxcents (Reply #1)

Mon Mar 3, 2025, 10:54 PM

Mar 3

InAbLuEsTaTe

(25,063 posts)

3. Always tough... hang in there and may you find peace.

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2025, 10:58 PM

Mar 3

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

13. Thank you!

Reply to InAbLuEsTaTe (Reply #3)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:09 PM

Mar 4

2naSalit

(96,353 posts)

4. Oh dear.

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2025, 10:59 PM

Mar 3

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

14. Thank you!

Reply to 2naSalit (Reply #4)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:09 PM

Mar 4

MLAA

(19,096 posts)

5. Sending kind thoughts to you and Cathy's family and loved ones.

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2025, 11:00 PM

Mar 3

🩷💫✨🩷

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

15. Thank you!

Reply to MLAA (Reply #5)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:09 PM

Mar 4

SheltieLover

(66,269 posts)

6. Deepest condolences to you & yours

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2025, 11:15 PM

Mar 3

Healing vibes on the way to you & your family.

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

16. Thank you!

Reply to SheltieLover (Reply #6)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:09 PM

Mar 4

LoisB

(10,090 posts)

7. Goodness, that's a tough blow. My condolences to you and your family. I can't even

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2025, 11:46 PM

Mar 3

imagine your Aunt's pain. Losing a child is a gut punch, losing two within days of each other is heartbreaking.

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

17. Thank you!

Reply to LoisB (Reply #7)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:10 PM

Mar 4

summer_in_TX

(3,542 posts)

8. I'm so sorry to hear that. That's so hard for your whole family, your aunt especially.

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 01:36 AM

Mar 4

Sending you all

Wishing each of you love and strength and a community of support.

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

18. Thank you!

Reply to summer_in_TX (Reply #8)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:10 PM

Mar 4

benfranklin1776

(6,807 posts)

9. Wow that really sucks, and I'm very sorry.

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 01:40 AM

Mar 4

That’s a terrible one two gut punch for you. Sending deepest condolences and positive energy for strength in this difficult time.

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

19. Thank you!

Reply to benfranklin1776 (Reply #9)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:11 PM

Mar 4

benfranklin1776

(6,807 posts)

24. 🫂

Reply to BlueKota (Reply #19)

Wed Mar 5, 2025, 03:00 AM

Mar 5

You’re welcome.

StarryNite

(11,490 posts)

10. I'm so very sorry for your family's loss.

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 01:50 AM

Mar 4

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

20. Thank you!

Reply to StarryNite (Reply #10)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:11 PM

Mar 4

Karadeniz

(24,134 posts)

11. It sounds like this was unexpected. Imagine having to deal with grief along

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 01:59 AM

Mar 4

with all the depressing news. Pray that they can cope....

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

21. Thank you!

Reply to Karadeniz (Reply #11)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:15 PM

Mar 4

It was unexpected with Cathy. We knew it was coming with Ron. He actually lived longer than the doctors had expected. We didn't expect it with Cathy. The doctors had just told her the chemotherapy wasn't working, and she was gone a few days after that.

Karadeniz

(24,134 posts)

23. When health ins cuts come, a lot of us will be hearing such news. With my

Reply to BlueKota (Reply #21)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:27 PM

Mar 4

Pernicious anemia, I need blood transfusions about every 8 weeks. Hopefully, douchebag won't think to cancel blood banks!!!

Clouds Passing

(4,325 posts)

12. Cathy

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:47 AM

Mar 4

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

22. Thank you!

Reply to Clouds Passing (Reply #12)

Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:16 PM

Mar 4

XanaDUer2

(15,725 posts)

25. I'm sorry

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Fri Mar 7, 2025, 09:33 PM

Mar 7

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

27. Thank you!

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Reply #25)

Fri Mar 7, 2025, 10:16 PM

Mar 7

livetohike

(23,375 posts)

26. My sympathy to you and the family. It's so sad to

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Fri Mar 7, 2025, 09:39 PM

Mar 7

lose family members, especially siblings so close together. May your good memories of your cousins comfort you and wishing peace to all especially to your Aunt .

BlueKota

(4,184 posts)

28. Thank you!

Reply to livetohike (Reply #26)

Fri Mar 7, 2025, 10:17 PM

Mar 7

Diamond_Dog

(36,570 posts)

29. I'm so sorry. That's tough

Reply to BlueKota (Original post)

Fri Mar 7, 2025, 11:27 PM

Mar 7

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