Do you get along with your sister in law hugs to you all.
And if you can get in touch with your county office of aging inquire about handicap housing.

setup for emergency spending.
That makes me afraid we will lose the house not to mention they never put her name on the deed so I am also worried that the CC company as well as the hospitals will go after the house forcing us out. That would hurt us bad as the rents in this area are high as its a military town.

The house would automatically go to her upon his death wouldn’t it.

Wishing you well exploring your options, cstanleytech.

SOME OPTIONS TO START YOU OUT:
https://aging.georgia.gov/programs-and-services/home-community-based-services

https://aging.georgia.gov/locations

https://aging.georgia.gov/programs-and-services

https://dhs.georgia.gov/

This is what I did professionally when I worked with people with disabilities needing assistance in Minnesota, but it works for other states if you know where to start. There is hope out there, but it takes a little work. Computers and phones are great helps.

I so sorry about the loss of your brother. I hope you can find the emotional space to grieve, despite your worries about the path forward.

Condolences to you and SIL.

It's hard enough to lose a sibling but to now be unsure of your own housing because of it isn't helpful. I hope that everything works out in a good way for both of you.

lots of love, hope, and friendship. Message me anytime. I check in a few times a day.

Big hugs.

and for the uncertainty about your future that this loss has created. I hope you will consider calling 211, which is a clearinghouse for multiple agencies which may be able to answer some of your practical questions and offer assistance.

http://211online.unitedwayatlanta.org/

Its scary. Hoping you're both OK