Bereavement
Related: About this forumMy mum passed away today.
I'm bewildered, overwhelmed, depressed and numb, confused and uncertain.
I'm going to leave this here with my DU family and go to bed. It has been a long day.
Thank you for being here.
I'm going to need some help over the next few days and DU has been my rock since shrub stole the election.
I love you guys.
uppityperson
(115,995 posts)MFM008
(20,042 posts)my mom left us Jan 1 2019.
Peace.
nocoincidences
(2,464 posts)So sorry...you have support here.
Skittles
(169,571 posts)OAITW r.2.0
(31,497 posts)Lost my Mom in 1999 to ALD. My Dad in 1976 to a MI. No replacing them. And then we are up to the plate.
littlemissmartypants
(31,645 posts)Stay strong.
❤
babylonsister
(172,578 posts)sincere condolences.
MontanaMama
(24,615 posts)Theres no preparation for this loss. My folks have been gone for many years and while I miss them terribly, it does get easier with time. Im thinking of you and holding you and yours in my heart.
Joinfortmill
(20,073 posts)Maraya1969
(23,418 posts)blm
(114,430 posts)sheshe2
(95,901 posts)My heart goes out to you and yours.
MLAA
(19,669 posts)I am sending you and your loved ones 💕💕💕💖💖💖💞💞💖💕💖💖💞💞💖
Phoenix61
(18,702 posts)Youre right. Theres always someone here at DU.
3Hotdogs
(15,032 posts)We are here with you.
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)This is my biggest fear.
luckone
(21,646 posts)Delmette2.0
(4,470 posts)I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.
UpInArms
(54,072 posts)It is a hard time ...
58Sunliner
(6,273 posts)RestoreAmerica2020
(3,471 posts)alwaysinasnit
(5,549 posts)((bluecollar2))
applegrove
(130,278 posts)3catwoman3
(28,587 posts)...hole. They loved us before they knew us.
My moms spirit was liberated on Dec 12, 2020, and the permanence of this is only now feeling real. She made it to 98, and was doing well until the last 3 weeks, when she got the covid virus.
When someone gets to 98, its hard to feel cheated, but still...
VarryOn
(2,343 posts)Often today in prayer.
momta
(4,190 posts)back in 1979. The overwhelming feeling I remember having that day was "Why are there commercials on TV right now? Why is someone trying to sell me cereal? Don't they know my mom just died?"
It wasn't rational, but it was very strong.
Sending love and strength your way. Take care.
StarryNite
(11,972 posts)TalenaGor
(1,207 posts)I lost my mom to covid in dec - I feel your pain
irisblue
(36,799 posts)BigmanPigman
(54,570 posts)I still cry all the time since I miss my dad and my little girl. Time isn't helping either.
SheltieLover
(76,806 posts)Ka-Dinh Oy
(11,686 posts)Hamlette
(15,556 posts)people
(830 posts)That is going to be very hard for a while. Give yourself time to feel however you are feeling. Your mom stays with you always, even though she has passed away. Would it work for you to sit down and write and write about your mom?
FuzzyRabbit
(2,199 posts)ancianita
(42,896 posts)pnwest
(3,422 posts)is so strange. Weve known them our entire lives, its hard to imagine existing in the world without them in it. Our parents are eternal, invincible, the most constant presence weve known. Sending prayers for comfort for your family, may you find solace in your memories.
P.C.L.D.
(45 posts)I lost my mother on Feb 8th and I am still in shock and I wake up everyday thinking this is just a nightmare. I will be praying for you and your family.
Laurelin
(768 posts)I was 14 when I lost my parents and I still miss them. It does get better though.
Be kind to yourself. I have always found that going for a walk is the best way to cope. Talking to people who understand also helps, though animals are sometimes more understanding than people.
I guess the good part is that we loved them enough that losing them is painful.
ms liberty
(10,970 posts)You don't really ever get over it, you just get used to it. The wound is still there, but the scab doesn't rip off as easily.
sinkingfeeling
(57,226 posts)brer cat
(27,357 posts)It will take time to overcome your feelings. Allow yourself the time to grieve.
live love laugh
(16,201 posts)JudyM
(29,568 posts)Wishing you moments of comfort in the midst of it all.... know that the love you shared will continue permeating your life.
BComplex
(9,748 posts)And a big hug for you.