Now my aunt isn't doing well.

My aunt isn't doing all that great. She's been in the hospital and in nursing homes. Yesterday my mom and my other aunt who is this aunt's caretaker went around cancelling all her stuff - phone, tv, internet, etc and letting the apartment complex she was living in know she probably wouldn't be coming back. Plus setting up with the funeral home my aunt wants and getting a monument ordered for when she does pass. (And no it will not just be a stone with her initials - one time she was all worked up about how if she had her name and date of birth and death on her stone her identity would get stolen after she passed and said she would just have a stone with her initials on it). They're getting all that now while she still has the assets to do so before she has to give all those up.

Hopefully she'll improve once she has the care she needs. I hope she doesn't go this year. We've had deaths in my immediate family the past three years so I'd kind of like to get through this year without one of those, seeing as how 2016 has been a crap hole of a year otherwise.