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PinkTiger

(2,593 posts)
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 12:24 PM Jul 2014

I need prayers, vibes, whatever.

My farm has been under contract since last November, and two closing dates have come and gone, with extensions every time. It is becoming a financial burden, as I'm not living there and paying two mortgages.
The closing date is set for July 30.
I know nothing from my Realtor at the moment, even though he has tried to get the other Realtor to communicate. It's a three way thing - the buyer is selling a piece of property to a builder, and the buyer, a developer, is needing that to close so he can buy my farm.
Please help! Any light would be especially appreciated.

Brenda in Missouri

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I need prayers, vibes, whatever. (Original Post) PinkTiger Jul 2014 OP
VIBING! elleng Jul 2014 #1
Sending all good thoughts and vibes your way! woodsprite Jul 2014 #2
Thanks - much appreciated. PinkTiger Jul 2014 #3
Going through what you are Delphinus Jul 2014 #4
Sending good vibes Sienna86 Jul 2014 #5
One thing's for sure PinkTiger Jul 2014 #6
Sending prayers and vibes Sanity Claws Jul 2014 #7
Of course! PinkTiger Jul 2014 #10
Sending! Digit Jul 2014 #8
more good vibes headed your way... magical thyme Jul 2014 #9
Hoping that things will be resolved by the closing date. Sending positive japple Jul 2014 #11
Thank you all so much! PinkTiger Jul 2014 #12
Hope it is sorting out Tsiyu Jul 2014 #13
We are still waiting. PinkTiger Sep 2014 #14
I find that sometimes that sort of mindset change... magical thyme Sep 2014 #15
Wow Tsiyu Sep 2014 #16
My life there was over. PinkTiger Oct 2014 #18
Finally! PinkTiger Oct 2014 #17
Yay! Tsiyu Oct 2014 #19
Ha! I told you your new mindset with backplan might give it the nudge it needed!!!! ;) magical thyme Oct 2014 #20
Yes, you were so right! PinkTiger Oct 2014 #21

elleng

(136,839 posts)
1. VIBING!
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 12:33 PM
Jul 2014

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woodsprite

(12,247 posts)
2. Sending all good thoughts and vibes your way!
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 12:57 PM
Jul 2014

I definitely understand what you're going through.

PinkTiger

(2,593 posts)
3. Thanks - much appreciated.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 02:54 PM
Jul 2014

I'm trying to stay calm and realize that the Universe will take care of it. One way or another. LOL

Delphinus

(12,159 posts)
4. Going through what you are
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 06:14 PM
Jul 2014

Sending light and love and prayers that this is finished quickly.

Digit

(6,163 posts)
8. Sending!
Wed Jul 23, 2014, 02:20 PM
Jul 2014

I am sorry to hear you are going through this. Sending positive vibes your way for a speedy and advantageous resolution!

japple

(10,388 posts)
11. Hoping that things will be resolved by the closing date. Sending positive
Thu Jul 24, 2014, 06:15 PM
Jul 2014

energies your way, Pink Tiger. May your log-jam be pushed into the downhill stream~~

Bless you and thanks for keeping us in your thoughts.

PinkTiger

(2,593 posts)
12. Thank you all so much!
Sat Jul 26, 2014, 09:53 PM
Jul 2014

This group has kept me sane for the last two and a half years since my husband died.
I was very fortunate and found a new love, and we were married last December, on the 21st, at 11 AM Central. Yes, the solstice.
LOL.
We are so happy. But we are paying two mortgages and it has put a financial strain on us. We are handling it fine, but I long to have this resolved.
I appreciate all of your kind thoughts.

Brenda

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
13. Hope it is sorting out
Wed Jul 30, 2014, 11:16 AM
Jul 2014

and that you are soon free of that burden.

It will surely feel like a weight has been lifted.

Congratulations on the nuptials; great way to remember them every year

PinkTiger

(2,593 posts)
14. We are still waiting.
Wed Sep 24, 2014, 01:52 AM
Sep 2014

Now the closing date is Oct. 3.
Mercury goes retro on the 5th. I am getting nervous.
LOL
Not really. We have decided that if it does not close, we are not extending.
We would rather rent the property to someone and keep it.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
15. I find that sometimes that sort of mindset change...
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 12:24 PM
Sep 2014

stopping hoping for one outcome, drawing line in sand, and making backup plan, is all it takes to nudge things forward.

Hopefully that will work for you too, or that the perfect tenant will show up on time.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
16. Wow
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 03:40 AM
Sep 2014

We had a farm that took 2 years to sell. It was rough at times.

But if you really love the place after all, maybe you aren't meant to sell.

I hope for the very best outcome for all concerned.


Have a wonderful Sunday, Pink Tiger.




PinkTiger

(2,593 posts)
18. My life there was over.
Wed Oct 15, 2014, 09:45 AM
Oct 2014

It was my late husband's farm, and it became mine after he died.
It was all I had from him, and I could not really move on until it sold.
Now that it is sold, I feel 100 percent better.
My new life, with a new husband and a stepdaughter, is wonderful. I am blessed.
Thanks for your good wishes.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
20. Ha! I told you your new mindset with backplan might give it the nudge it needed!!!! ;)
Sat Oct 18, 2014, 05:38 PM
Oct 2014

It rarely fails! Yay freedom!!!!! Congratulations

PinkTiger

(2,593 posts)
21. Yes, you were so right!
Wed Oct 29, 2014, 01:33 PM
Oct 2014

I have to learn to trust my instincts more.
I did something last week, though, based on my instincts - and today I feel very sad about doing it.
Even tho I know it was the best thing.
I began a job in early September and quit last week because the office atmosphere was poison.
One woman screamed and yelled and slammed things for an hour in her office because I told her "no."
And this wasn't the first time.
And the other lady really hated me because when I was hired she felt she had been "demoted."
I decided that since I didn't need the money anyway, to quit.
And now I'm home and feeling a bit sorry. LOL.
I can't win.

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