He asked me if I had child-care lined up for my small child. I said would you ask that question of a man? And I got up and walked out. They called me and wanted me back but I'd soured on them.

There are so many women in the world who don't fit the ideal "look" for a man's wife. Why rub it in? She worked her butt off to succeed in her life. Why go after the one area where she would be doesn't fit the preferred criteria?

Totally lacking in basic decency to ask about that.

She's a big girl and she worked damn hard at her craft. "Throwing shit" (as all those sports are collectively referred to in my family) is not easy. I have a granddaughter who throws shot and discus and she would be very offended if someone asked her that, even though she's currently only a senior in high school.