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Marthe48

(19,321 posts)
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 12:24 PM Oct 9

Be nice to yourself

Try to balance what you have with what you might need. Don't keep waiting for the perfect moment, because it might never come. My lifelong friend waited, and now it's too late for her.



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Be nice to yourself (Original Post) Marthe48 Oct 9 OP
Great advice. Permanut Oct 9 #1
Words of wisdom. Thank You lucca18 Oct 9 #2
Beautiful words to keep close...thanks MiHale Oct 9 #3
It's also easier finding joy in smaller things as we "age" (mature). erronis Oct 9 #4
Wise words and I am so sorry about your friend. LoisB Oct 9 #5
Don't let perfection be the enemy of good /nt sdfernando Oct 9 #6

erronis

(17,174 posts)
4. It's also easier finding joy in smaller things as we "age" (mature).
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 03:23 PM
Oct 9

Too much of our lives are spent in trying to acquire, make money, afford housing and food and the middle-life needs. Too much time is spent trying to please others (spouses, parents, children, bosses).

With the knowledge that our lives are winding down - sometimes very quickly and sometimes not very nicely, it is good to accept the little gifts and pleasures. No need to go for the big splashy shit anymore!

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