Welcome to DU!
The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards.
Join the community:
Create a free account
Support DU (and get rid of ads!):
Become a Star Member
Latest Breaking News
Editorials & Other Articles
General Discussion
The DU Lounge
All Forums
Issue Forums
Culture Forums
Alliance Forums
Region Forums
Support Forums
Help & Search
Seniors
Related: About this forumBe nice to yourself
Try to balance what you have with what you might need. Don't keep waiting for the perfect moment, because it might never come. My lifelong friend waited, and now it's too late for her.
6 replies
= new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight:
NoneDon't highlight anything
5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Be nice to yourself (Original Post)
Marthe48
Oct 9
OP
Permanut
(6,714 posts)1. Great advice.
lucca18
(1,324 posts)2. Words of wisdom. Thank You
MiHale
(10,891 posts)3. Beautiful words to keep close...thanks
erronis
(17,174 posts)4. It's also easier finding joy in smaller things as we "age" (mature).
Too much of our lives are spent in trying to acquire, make money, afford housing and food and the middle-life needs. Too much time is spent trying to please others (spouses, parents, children, bosses).
With the knowledge that our lives are winding down - sometimes very quickly and sometimes not very nicely, it is good to accept the little gifts and pleasures. No need to go for the big splashy shit anymore!
LoisB
(9,020 posts)5. Wise words and I am so sorry about your friend.
sdfernando
(5,422 posts)6. Don't let perfection be the enemy of good /nt