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Foolacious

(517 posts)
Mon Mar 29, 2021, 09:41 PM Mar 2021

Vent/rant about unclear speech

When I cannot understand someone speaking to me -- usually but not always over the phone -- and I ask them to (1) slow down, or (2) speak louder, or (3) speak more clearly, why is it impossible for some of said folks to do any of those three things? This happens both with English (my native language) and with Spanish (I live in Mexico). Clearly, it's not universally impossible, since many people are indeed able to adjust appropriately. What I don't get is why this ability isn't universal. I think I have observed this disability most frequently in adolescents and young adults, but I haven't actually kept careful statistics.

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Vent/rant about unclear speech (Original Post) Foolacious Mar 2021 OP
Slow down!... PoliticAverse Mar 2021 #1
I've noticed that young people often speak too fast and fail to enunciate their words clearly. Binkie The Clown Mar 2021 #2
I have no problem asking people to slow down. murielm99 Mar 2021 #3

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
2. I've noticed that young people often speak too fast and fail to enunciate their words clearly.
Mon Mar 29, 2021, 09:50 PM
Mar 2021

I find it annoying. Yes, I'm an old codger (75) but my hearing is perfect and I still quite often have trouble understanding younger people. Oddly, Spanish speakers, in my experience, seem to be more willing to slow down a little for this Gringo, but then the ones I speak to know I've only been studying Spanish for 4 or 5 years so they tend to be patient with me.

murielm99

(31,520 posts)
3. I have no problem asking people to slow down.
Tue Mar 30, 2021, 01:41 AM
Mar 2021

It happens most on the phone. If I call about a service or a problem, I expect to be able to understand what the person is saying. I have exasperated some people by insisting they speak slowly and clearly. I am not talking about people who speak with accented English. Most of them seem willing to slow down, speak up, or whatever is necessary.

I think that many people who provide telephone customer service get used to saying the same things over and over. They hurry though their usual speeches.

You have a right to ask people to make themselves clear.

BTW, my hearing is perfect as well. I have been tested recently.

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