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BigmanPigman

(52,356 posts)
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:49 AM May 2023

Is it a good idea for men in their 80s to become new fathers?

Recently I have read about Robert DeNiro and Al Pacino becoming fathers while hitting the age of 80 (plus). Experience, money, time may be factors but is it a good idea for the new to be raised by someone who is closer to being a great grandfather? Is this a "fad" for celebrities?

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Is it a good idea for men in their 80s to become new fathers? (Original Post) BigmanPigman May 2023 OP
No RandySF May 2023 #1
Probably not. But I don't want government to dictate it. jimfields33 May 2023 #2
Thanks elleng May 2023 #4
The quality of their sperm is probably not super great. diane in sf May 2023 #3
I recall reading something about that. yonder May 2023 #5
Not really. BlueTsunami2018 May 2023 #6
Hell, 6th grade graduation would be a gift ... yorkster May 2023 #14
Wow, that's some hot sex! tavernier May 2023 #7
No. nt SunSeeker May 2023 #8
No Rebl2 May 2023 #9
I wouldn't, but it seems to be a thing in Hollywood. TreasonousBastard May 2023 #10
The kid is guaranteed to have the father die when the kid is very young. Scrivener7 May 2023 #11
Good question. jaxexpat May 2023 #12
It's up to them Doc Sportello May 2023 #13

yonder

(10,008 posts)
5. I recall reading something about that.
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:53 AM
May 2023

The copies can be naturally degraded by age - something like that.

BlueTsunami2018

(4,070 posts)
6. Not really.
Wed May 31, 2023, 04:17 AM
May 2023

It’s unlikely that you’ll even see the kid graduate grade school. You have to wonder what they’re thinking.

yorkster

(2,515 posts)
14. Hell, 6th grade graduation would be a gift ...
Wed May 31, 2023, 08:38 AM
May 2023

by which time these poppas would be 92. Yoicks.

Scrivener7

(53,186 posts)
11. The kid is guaranteed to have the father die when the kid is very young.
Wed May 31, 2023, 05:31 AM
May 2023

It's stunningly selfish.

 

jaxexpat

(7,794 posts)
12. Good question.
Wed May 31, 2023, 05:37 AM
May 2023

I had a large mature tree in my backyard that engendered and nursed a sapling which, over a few years, replaced it. The sapling grew upward as the parent tree receded and died away. Now there is only a rotting stump alongside a 30' oak. It was/is a profound poetry.

But that was trees. Sheesh!

Doc Sportello

(7,962 posts)
13. It's up to them
Wed May 31, 2023, 08:27 AM
May 2023

And not anyone else's business. Depending on the circumstances it might not be good if the child can't be cared for. I'm sure their children will be well taken care of.

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