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XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts) Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:12 PM Dec 15

The 30-yr old food-sink thing broke

I'm scared to tell my partner. Sure enough, he first calmly said ok. Then went bonkers. Brought out a plunger trying to fix it. We pay rent for maintenance..yelling that I put potato down there, which I didn't.

Screaming the fixers will "yell at him" they dont. They come fix and leave. Finally screamed I can't take this anymore and I want to move out.

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The 30-yr old food-sink thing broke (Original Post) XanaDUer2 Dec 15 OP

If you are talking about a garbage disposal they usually get clogged and not hard to fix - just google on youtube walkingman Dec 15 #1

I'm not telling him anything XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #2

Life is too short for that - begin planning for an escape route. Good Luck ☮ walkingman Dec 15 #3

I was the one who helped him in the past XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #4

Potato's don't normally present a problem for these units. But I guess, you must be OK with OAITW r.2.0 Dec 15 #5

He won't leave XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #6

He has nothing to offer.... OAITW r.2.0 Dec 15 #7

Bc I'm disabled XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #8

Sad. I'd be exploring other options if I were you. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 15 #10

Ty XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #11

It's just a fancy can, use the garbage can now. Think. Again. Dec 15 #9

I put eggshells down the other day XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #12

there is a button under the sink if its jamed. somebody let a piece of glass down the hole. also had to manually move pansypoo53219 Dec 16 #13

Thanks XanaDUer2 Dec 16 #14

walkingman

(8,545 posts)

1. If you are talking about a garbage disposal they usually get clogged and not hard to fix - just google on youtube

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Original post)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:15 PM

Dec 15

for easy fixes. Unless it actually has burnt out a clog is no big deal.

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)

2. I'm not telling him anything

Reply to walkingman (Reply #1)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:20 PM

Dec 15

He's crazy abusive monster. I pay rent for maintenance n things here are very old. Thank you though

walkingman

(8,545 posts)

3. Life is too short for that - begin planning for an escape route. Good Luck ☮

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Reply #2)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:24 PM

Dec 15

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)

4. I was the one who helped him in the past

Reply to walkingman (Reply #3)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:29 PM

Dec 15

Now he paid rent, i pay water and groceries n car insurance . But he lives here too. He's paying rent but lives here. Uses the internet all day. Its not like he's paying for me to have a seperate place. He's a vile pos and its getting to the point i don't care about the pension..

I'm under a lot of stress due to a dental injury he is completely indifferent to. He's 72, smokes drinks eats shit n abuses his meds so maybe the trash will take itself out soon. I used to express my concern n got screamed at. He's snorting something right. Now. I don't care.

OAITW r.2.0

(28,656 posts)

5. Potato's don't normally present a problem for these units. But I guess, you must be OK with

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Original post)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:30 PM

Dec 15

your partner's decision to move out? He was the big problem in your life, no?

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)

6. He won't leave

Reply to OAITW r.2.0 (Reply #5)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:35 PM

Dec 15

He's a big loser. Things used to be OK but since i became disabled he promised to pay rent and some bills and its just pissing him off
But he has nothing to offer. Hes repulsive, argumentative, know it all, smells, constant back problems, i mean why would anyone want to be around him? He's constantly being blocked on fb due to tone deaf mansplaining. He's explaining something about gov processes to a terrified trans in SC.

they couldn't take him anymore. His 25-paragraph fb posts. They apologize to me i say block the ducker idc. I can't stand him

OAITW r.2.0

(28,656 posts)

7. He has nothing to offer....

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Reply #6)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:40 PM

Dec 15

yet you still live with him. Why?

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)

8. Bc I'm disabled

Reply to OAITW r.2.0 (Reply #7)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:42 PM

Dec 15

And all my cash disappeared into my mouth. I'm. Not ending up sitting on dirty pavement begging homeless. I have the right to live here. I just want him to leave me alone.

OAITW r.2.0

(28,656 posts)

10. Sad. I'd be exploring other options if I were you.

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Reply #8)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:50 PM

Dec 15

But I hope your present situation has a happy ending for you.

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)

11. Ty

Reply to OAITW r.2.0 (Reply #10)

Sun Dec 15, 2024, 06:56 PM

Dec 15

Closest relative won't invite me into her spacious maid-, cleaned home. Thought about domestic violence shelters but their tough places. I know from my job. Can't afford even a room in a house. Try to cope by ignoring him but i had to tell him about the broken thing. Like i said his health habits are dangerous so...