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XanaDUer2

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Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:21 AM Nov 26

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This message was self-deleted by its author (Original Post) XanaDUer2 Nov 26 OP
Your "partner" is full of crap. Ocelot II Nov 26 #1
I'm so sick of him XanaDUer2 Nov 26 #2
Partner? I thought partners supported us ... marble falls Nov 26 #3
I hate him a lot XanaDUer2 Nov 26 #4
I've never been in a situation like yours. But I do know you are the most important person in your life ... marble falls Nov 26 #5
I'm so scared XanaDUer2 Nov 26 #7
This injury happened about 3 mos ago XanaDUer2 Nov 26 #8
He's 72 and won't leave XanaDUer2 Nov 26 #6
Get a lawyer, get a restaining order. Evict him. Save your life and get this thorn out of your side ... marble falls Nov 26 #9
I am sadly XanaDUer2 Nov 26 #10

Ocelot II

(121,473 posts)
1. Your "partner" is full of crap.
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:22 AM
Nov 26

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)
2. I'm so sick of him
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:26 AM
Nov 26

But I'm stuck. I get zero sympathy. I'm terrified. He's in constant pain and says he nvr talks about it. I asked my dr yesterday is it possible the skull can be pushed out of alignment? But it was my jaw pushed back. My ear will go stuffy and I'll have vertigo.

All he does is sit arguing politics all day with strangers on his phone insulting them. I was wrrd he was going to be doxxed.

marble falls

(62,518 posts)
3. Partner? I thought partners supported us ...
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:34 AM
Nov 26

My SiL's sister went to a dentist for a filling in a molar. Came out with pain that increased to the point in a week sleep was impossible. the dentist was truly non sympathetic and accused her of looking for narcotics. After close to a month she got x-rays from another Dentist. The first dentist had drilled through her tooth and into he jawbone and put filling all the way down into the bone and didn't pick that up when she had gone back to him to figure out her pain.

There was a lawsuit, and a lot of work to fix the problem.

If you have pain, there is a reason. Meanwhile, I'd take a hard look at my "partner" and decide if there is any value in his being there.

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)
4. I hate him a lot
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:40 AM
Nov 26

He's paying bills since i became disabled. I'd been supporting him over 20 yrs. He's been on disability since the 90s. I wish i didn't have to wait so long to c the ent. I sit here waiting for my face to go numb and stay sagging. I don't know what to do.

I tell this mother fucker that i was perfectly fine until my jaw was very aggresively pusjhed back to apply a piece of plastic. I was shocked by how hard it was. I was disyressed and said I'm not comfortable with that much pressure on my jaw. He sat back looked at me said the push wasn't hard enough and the jaw is stable. Yet here I am with pain and headaches and nose tingling and ear pain.

marble falls

(62,518 posts)
5. I've never been in a situation like yours. But I do know you are the most important person in your life ...
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:49 AM
Nov 26

... please take care of yourself before giving him any consideration at all. His taking care of you is not going any extra mile, it's what a partner does. It's what you did for him, too. He's happy with his stew, but you do not have to swallow it.

Save yourself.

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)
7. I'm so scared
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:53 AM
Nov 26

Now my eye site seems blurry. If this dentist destroyed me neorologically that's it. I'm checking out for good. I'm not being blind. Fuckface is out smoking. All he cares about is politics. I just told him stfu and leave me alone i don't feel well.

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)
8. This injury happened about 3 mos ago
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:58 AM
Nov 26

I kept hoping it would resolve like the dentist said. Now i wish it was just jaw pain. I nvr dreamed it could spread. Its like the nerves were compressed or moved or damaged or something.

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)
6. He's 72 and won't leave
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 11:50 AM
Nov 26

He paying bills for a place he lives in too. He did give me 7k. He brings up money constantly. I keep offering to pay him back but he won't take it. I asked him in the car for support in this night mare and he said "money"? I said no, emotional support. Why do you bring money up constantly and take your fucking 7k back. He refuses to do so. I've offered ten times.

marble falls

(62,518 posts)
9. Get a lawyer, get a restaining order. Evict him. Save your life and get this thorn out of your side ...
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 12:52 PM
Nov 26

... your health is most important. He's not dependent on you and it seems you are not dependent on him.

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)
10. I am sadly
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 12:55 PM
Nov 26

I feel my eye now teitching he comes out taking politics to me its like taking to a sociopath. I'm telling him how

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