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FirstLight

(14,826 posts)
Tue Nov 12, 2024, 02:24 AM Nov 2024

They fkin released her from the Mental hospital!!! 😩

I only suspected something when the amazon and alexa started bugging...

She apparently has her phone and started changing passwords...
I opened her laptop and saw a venmo from a mutual friend at 6pm....
So I texted said friend and they said she was at a homeless shelter in Reno but planning on contacting the sheriff to come here to take "her" car. They sent her 25 for food.
Im now on high alert.
Called the sheriff and they won't do anything unless she shows up and violates the restraining order.

The car is now in the divorce paperwork, so she can get a lawyer and fight me. Bitch.

Im livid. And scared.
The only thing that makes me feel the slightest bit safe, is knowing there's 5 in of snow on the ground outside, so her getting up here from Reno is pretty far fetched. But I wouldn't put it past her to steal money or do something else nefarious to get a ride...

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They fkin released her from the Mental hospital!!! 😩 (Original Post) FirstLight Nov 2024 OP
Be safe. LoisB Nov 2024 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author JohnnyRingo Nov 2024 #2
Sounds manipulative XanaDUer2 Nov 2024 #3
slept in fits & starts since 330...to now, 830... FirstLight Nov 2024 #4
Wretched divorces suck. Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #5
Both of us have grown kids, so no... FirstLight Nov 2024 #6
That is good. Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #7
She drove them away, I got one outta 2 back... FirstLight Nov 2024 #8
Abusers push family and friends away. Patience and kindness will bring them back. Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #9
yeah, she accused them of all the shit she was doing...like projection-mentality they do... FirstLight Nov 2024 #10
Give yourself time to grieve the loss of the relationship, work on stability. Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #11
yes! got a really good one through my college.. FirstLight Nov 2024 #12
PS Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #13

Response to FirstLight (Original post)

FirstLight

(14,826 posts)
4. slept in fits & starts since 330...to now, 830...
Tue Nov 12, 2024, 12:44 PM
Nov 2024

waiting for my lawyer to call,

The Sheriff will call me first if she wants a standby, I'll tell them she can call my lawyer since divorce is now in play.

I feel nauseaous and horrible...

Calling my friend to come help me put the bins in the4 garage, then she is not allowed to come in the house. I will park the car elsewhere if I have to...

I'll keep you all updated. send all the good juju for mprotection, etc..thanks

Clouds Passing

(4,239 posts)
5. Wretched divorces suck.
Tue Nov 12, 2024, 02:05 PM
Nov 2024

I hope no children are involved. They always get the worst of it. The rage, the insane behavior, the vengeance gets old quick, it’s also exhausting. Sending you protection and healing light.

FirstLight

(14,826 posts)
8. She drove them away, I got one outta 2 back...
Tue Nov 12, 2024, 07:23 PM
Nov 2024

So at least parts of the brokenness are coming back together...

Clouds Passing

(4,239 posts)
9. Abusers push family and friends away. Patience and kindness will bring them back.
Tue Nov 12, 2024, 07:29 PM
Nov 2024

Gratitude you have one back!

FirstLight

(14,826 posts)
10. yeah, she accused them of all the shit she was doing...like projection-mentality they do...
Tue Nov 12, 2024, 07:48 PM
Nov 2024

The second kid must have had an inkling cuz he messaged my olf school bestie to ask if I was ok. I got a little update...but he has some issues too and I'm not going to invite him back into my life/space until I am more stable.

The one who "came back" literally called me the second my bestie called them...they called and asked omg momma are you ok? I'm so glad to have them back !

Clouds Passing

(4,239 posts)
11. Give yourself time to grieve the loss of the relationship, work on stability.
Tue Nov 12, 2024, 07:54 PM
Nov 2024

Seek good therapy. Gratitude check-ins frequently. Pat yourself on the back for surviving and waking up.

FirstLight

(14,826 posts)
12. yes! got a really good one through my college..
Tue Nov 12, 2024, 07:56 PM
Nov 2024

and the women's center has trauma group every wed, I just got signed up.

Every day I am taking a piece of my SELF and my home back. I am not grieving, just angry... but that will come out in therapy

Thanks for the support, DU is my other home

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