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JMCKUSICK

(598 posts)
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:05 PM Dec 10

Does anyone know how to set up a GoFundMe?

I've had 4 lumbar back surgeries since October of 2021 with no success.
So I filed for Social Security disability in August of 23.
My first appointment with them is set for January 7th after 17 months wait. Yes I used an attorney from the start.
I started having chest pains a couple of months ago and today I had a nuclear stress test done with the bad news that the left side of my heart has "moderate to severe blood flow blockage.
Living in rural Illinois means a medical desert so I can't get a heart catheterization til January 27th even though the left side is the bad one.
This will only delay my case further as I can't even schedule a Functional Ability Assessment until my cardiac issues are resolved. (Chest pain from simple walks etc).
My finances were never good to begin with and this is making things so much worse. I'm seriously afraid that the stress of trying to find a way to pay my modest bills will kill me alone.
My monthly expenses run about $1200 a month if I make only the minimum payment on my Credit cards that I used to get by for the first several months. That debt total about $5500.00
I'm trying to survive into the summer as that seems like what would be a reasonable time frame for a decision knowing my first appointment with a SS Dr is January 7th.
I can't begin to describe the despondent feelings that are now overwhelming with this new news and I know I won't survive the agony of trying to get something paid each month when I have no idea where the money will come from.
Does anyone have any suggestions or tips that I can learn just to alleviate the near panic and anxiety that I experience more and more every month?
I get food stamps and have Medicaid but I also live in Illinois, one of the states that have trigger laws for the ACA expansion should the funding for that end.
I will be happy to share my contact information should the need arise to discuss by phone etc.
Several people have negatively commented on my writing so I apologize in advance if this is hard to read.

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Does anyone know how to set up a GoFundMe? (Original Post) JMCKUSICK Dec 10 OP
I'm so sorry to hear this XanaDUer2 Dec 10 #1
I'm a technology stooge, how do I cross post? JMCKUSICK Dec 10 #3
You can copy and paste into The Lounge XanaDUer2 Dec 10 #6
I've never actually helped anybody set up a gofundme, but I have helped promote them Omaha Steve Dec 10 #9
Thanks! XanaDUer2 Dec 10 #11
I'm sorry to hear of your problems Dennis Donovan Dec 10 #2
Thank you Dennis. JMCKUSICK Dec 10 #5
You really don't need the financial stress on top of your physical problems. brer cat Dec 10 #4
Thank you Brer Cat JMCKUSICK Dec 10 #7
Aww XanaDUer2 Dec 10 #8
One stress relief technique is controlled breathing biophile Dec 10 #10
Don't be concerned about how other people view your writing. Clouds Passing Dec 10 #12
Thank you for your kind words and I love your user name. JMCKUSICK Dec 10 #13
💚😁 Clouds Passing Dec 10 #14

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)
1. I'm so sorry to hear this
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:09 PM
Dec 10

Can Omaha Steve help with this? Make sure you post in the lounge, too and have ppl share it

XanaDUer2

(14,602 posts)
6. You can copy and paste into The Lounge
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:14 PM
Dec 10

I'm old fashioned too. Maybe pm omaha steve bc i think he's set up others' gfm

Omaha Steve

(103,776 posts)
9. I've never actually helped anybody set up a gofundme, but I have helped promote them
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:35 PM
Dec 10

The video below looks like it would be a big help with the process.

OS

Dennis Donovan

(27,401 posts)
2. I'm sorry to hear of your problems
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:12 PM
Dec 10

Here's a video on how to start a Go Fund Me page:



Again, I'm sorry and hope for the best for you.

brer cat

(26,493 posts)
4. You really don't need the financial stress on top of your physical problems.
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:13 PM
Dec 10

I don't know anything about setting up a gofundme account, but once it's done, please post here so we can contribute.

JMCKUSICK

(598 posts)
7. Thank you Brer Cat
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:17 PM
Dec 10

Honestly, my 14 y/o Petunia (cat) is the only reason I haven't just given up.

biophile

(444 posts)
10. One stress relief technique is controlled breathing
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:35 PM
Dec 10

When you are feeling particularly stressed, breathe in to a count of four, hold it for a count of four, breathe out for a count of eight and then hold for a count of four. Repeat a few times to calm your mind. The count for breathing out should be about twice the count for breathing in.
Unfortunately, conscious breathing doesn’t make your problems go away but it can help relieve some of the panic.

Clouds Passing

(2,697 posts)
12. Don't be concerned about how other people view your writing.
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 07:51 PM
Dec 10

Your post is well written.

I wish I had answers for you. Lack of health insurance and a potentially fatal autoimmune disease almost killed me. I was an angry afraid mess during that time. How I came out of it alive is perplexing.

Sending you energies of healing and well being. Prayers for your situation to improve. Much love and compassion,
Clouds Passing

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