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Cancer Support

onethatcares

(16,966 posts) Sun Jan 11, 2026, 10:04 AM Yesterday

this just doesn't seem right

my wife passed due to 14 yrs of suffering from this horror and we had the same oncologist for that entire time.
I just received a card from him saying that he made a donation in her name to himself.

Is that self serving ? Or just weird?

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this just doesn't seem right (Original Post) onethatcares Yesterday OP

On it's face it sounds like tax fraud but there might be more to it. I can't walkingman Yesterday #1

Its' a horrible situation, personally for you on both your and your ex-wife's behalf, RockCreek Yesterday #2

Seems weird to me surfered Yesterday #3

Definitely weird. 3catwoman3 Yesterday #4

That just doesn't seem right. TommieMommy Yesterday #5

walkingman

(10,359 posts)

1. On it's face it sounds like tax fraud but there might be more to it. I can't

Reply to onethatcares (Original post)

Sun Jan 11, 2026, 10:09 AM

Yesterday

see why someone would not just say they made a "donation in her memory" and leave out the "to himself" - it does sound weird.

RockCreek

(1,325 posts)

2. Its' a horrible situation, personally for you on both your and your ex-wife's behalf,

Reply to onethatcares (Original post)

Sun Jan 11, 2026, 10:14 AM

Yesterday

and that you are even spending an ounce if your energy to think about it.

That said, said seriously but a little tongue in cheek, is he MAGA?
It might just be him "trying to keep up with the Jones" in that case.