also why are we allowing transphobia in our forum? I thought this was a safe space?

It's happened 3 or 4 times over the last few months. More and more, the transphobes are feeling emboldened to march on into here and "debate" us.

I sent the link to a host.

Meanwhile, the admins are going to have to step it up. Because the transphobia is getting worse, and some of us are about done keeping our cool.

I'm curious

However, that member was banned because they were a zombie. This "member" only had three posts. Sadly, I didn't save the post, but it was pushing back against the first post, now deleted and WAS transphobic.

I'm sick of these fucking troglodytes

She and the other two have been blocked from this group. At this moment, I am the only active host for the GLBT group. Many of the members have long left or have never returned after the last incident. I have to consult a friend about something, but I am hoping I can make an announcement by tomorrow about some of the issues facing this group. I apologize for the slow reaction time.

I think myself and Ingrid are tired of the constant transphobic behavior here on DU. Anytime I see a thread about Lia or just anything to do with transgender people. I know its gonna be loaded with a lot of transphobic remarks. Like I feel we are becoming boogeywomen here now because of us being used as the current GQP scapegoats. So of course its okay to cast us aside for the sake of us winning like we don't matter or our feelings matter

I'm glad for the most part people have kept quiet on the Texas and Florida shit, and most of the "hormones for trans teens" and "bathroom" stuff has died down. But every post about trans athletes anymore feels like a ticking time bomb... And it almost seems like a guarantee that shit will hit the fan the moment the name "Lia Thomas" is said around here. Honestly, I think there are people here who hate Lia more than Trump.

I do feel like all of us are being setup to be the boogeywomen and scapegoats. Some of them don't hide the fact that they think supporting us "will cost us the midterms!" and are all set to blame us in 7 months if the midterms don't go how they want.

So, yeah. It's tiring and infuriating to feel like there's plenty of hate coming from the left.. And we all know there's nothing but hatred from the right as it is.

If we get blamed if we lose the midterms. I'm gonna rage and leave. I'm not gonna be the fucking scapegoat for why we lost if it happens. They can blame the real things, not the red meat they are using.

Blamed for 2004... Accused of "pissing on our parade" in 2008... Blamed in 2010... Blamed in 2014... Blamed in 2016... Nope. No more blame. I'm not anyone's scapegoat - here or anywhere else.

Both for looking into this, and the upcoming announcement. And, yeah, I'd noticed from looking through the hosts list that a lot of them aren't active at this time - you're the one around the most.

I do anticipate the announcement and hope it'll be good news, because some people have felt it's okay to come into here and post this stuff lately.

By the time I checked here today and saw this thread, a number of posts (1, 2, 4 and 6) had already been removed. However, a few posts still remain... The usual nonsense about "7.5% taller" and "Bio.female has no chance". Because, apparently, they think it's okay to come debate in our faces in what is clearly marked as a safe space for us.

(I'd like to add that I'm onto one of the above. They think I don't realize they like to play the "kiss kiss, slap slap" game - one minute they're a friend, the next they're targeted the trans community. I may be blonde, but I'm not a dumb blonde...)

So, I'm not sure what was said in those 4 removed posts. Just the ones still visible at this time. But judging by some of the still visible replies, and what FreeState said in post 8? I'm guessing at least one of those posts was quite transphobic... Like I'm shocked.

Par for the course here anymore.

I feel a rant thread coming soon if this doesn't stop soon. I'm extremely vocal about my feelings and I don't care if I get banned.

And I'll admit I may wind up typing up a lengthy post if it keeps up.

…. Long wing span, larger hands, larger feet are alll huge advantage in swimming

Bio female.has no chance

Meanwhile, in response to other posts on this thread: What the everloving fuck? Since when is transphobia allowed here? What's with all the fucking "debate" on the issue here? I have to fucking come here and read "Bio female has no chance" and the like?!

This is supposed to be an LGBT safe space! Some of us are fucking sick enough of the goddamned transphobia and "debate" and "I'm just asking questions" and "Lia Thomas is Satan" shit elsewhere on DU... But in the LGBT group? What part of "safe space" isn't getting through? Or have we gone full-on alt-right and decided "Fuck your safe space!"?

Paging the hosts... Paging any host...

I've said it LOUD AND FUCKING clear. We don't matter. But whatever people wanna fight us. Fine. I got all fucking day

that I posted this because I am an ally. I do not have any trans persons in my family. I know one personally who has had to hide from his family most of his life. I have had gay friends all my life and I have a gay granddaughter. The transphobes and homophobes make me furious and I'm not sure what to do about them other than ban the hell outta them, but they sure do not belong here. I don't want to talk to them because you can't reason with them. You just can't. So I hope you won't yell at me for posting this. I did it because it made me so damn mad.

My thoughts and comments in reply #9 were aimed at those who used your post as an excuse to take potshots at us. We know you're on our side, we know you posts these articles with sincere intentions, and we appreciate all you say and do. So thank you.

The only ones I felt anger toward were those who barged into a safe space with unsafe intentions.

I just get so mad at those other folks I want to pull their hair out. In that respect I guess I'm like you guys.

We thank you for your support and empathy. And totally get the frustration.