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Related: About this forum'Stripped of all humanity': Ex-IDF mental health chief on the trauma of Hamas's hostages
Tatsa-Laur described how the IDF didn't have much experience in treating hostages before November 2023, when around 100 hostages were freed from Gaza as part of a ceasefire deal. What they did know did not adequately prepare them for the mental state the freed hostages would be in when they returned, shaped by the traumatic experiences they suffered since October 7.
"It's very, very difficult, but I will try to be a descriptive about what the state of mind of somebody who has been held hostage is," Tatsa-Laur explained. "He is stripped of all his humanity and all of his being. You need to try to imagine that from somebody who [feels they are] worth something and has meaning life, you are reduced to somebody whose life could end in a flinch. You could say something, you could do something - actually, you could do anything, and your life is over. It's worth nothing. And if you add to that that you are detached from all the people that that you know, and you are starved, and you are also manipulated psychologically and physically... You're in very, very deprived state, which I don't think we can really understand.
"It's like being reduced to nothing at all. And I think that one of the most difficult challenges as a psychiatrist or a psychologist, is to get somebody who was reduced to nothing and all and making him human again."
I've seen a few posts here on DU excusing hostage taking, but only in the context of the Gaza war.
Unladen Swallow
(491 posts)WhiteTara
(30,262 posts)Gazans.
Beastly Boy
(11,473 posts)But this is not the first thought that would come to my mind when Hamas hostages are mentioned.
WhiteTara
(30,262 posts)the whole thing is a travesty. I'm sorry for all of them.
Beastly Boy
(11,473 posts)But feeling bad about all of them kind of makes up for getting confused.
WhiteTara
(30,262 posts)So much hatred
Beastly Boy
(11,473 posts)WhiteTara
(30,262 posts)We are far removed (physically) and have no power to make real world changes. I fret and cry.
Beastly Boy
(11,473 posts)When I see anti-Israel bias, especially when I suspect it to be thinly disguised antisemitic bias, I do not hesitate to speak up against the misinformation I detect. I also contribute to the causes that aim to do something concrete to assist the victims. There are only four organizations to which I contribute regularly. Three of them, World Central Kitchen, Doctors Without Borders and Magen David Adom (Israel's equivalent to Red Cross) are known for not discriminating against who they help; not in Israel, not in the occupied territories, not anywhere else in the world. They don't spend their money on idle talk, they help first and ask questions later.
I like people who help first and ask questions later.