but talk to Apple and see what they say

You likely were not specifically targeted. As long as you didn't go to the link and provide them info, there is no harm. Just block the number if you can.

credit card number and my husband’s SS number and my driver’s license number.

and closing accounts. I have a permanent notification on my drivers license that tells the cop that there are two licenses like mine! Was told to carry several forms of identification so as not to end up in the backseat of a cop car. Fun

But what a hassle!!

I have received notices from AT&T that my number was stolen from hackers.

I'm sure there are lists of people's private info all over (Dark Web?) for a price.

Too many to list.

One may have had your phone number in its stolen data. I recall various breaches at ATT and Verizon.

Many companies use your email address or phone number as logins. As a techie, I can’t begin to tell you how dumb as a brick this is.

And as others have noted, some spray-dial or email.

Worse, some companies you deal with sell your data to data aggregators.

Just don’t open anything you don’t recognize, and/or mark it as spam or junk and delete.