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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhat advice would you give your 10 year old self.? Don't follow anyone blindly. Get your facts first.
Basso8vb
(1,230 posts)And will try to tear you down.
debm55
(55,703 posts)RoadRunner
(4,710 posts)It makes you look silly.
debm55
(55,703 posts)sop
(17,407 posts)debm55
(55,703 posts)Easterncedar
(5,529 posts)Be kinder
debm55
(55,703 posts)hlthe2b
(112,805 posts)debm55
(55,703 posts)some_of_us_are_sane
(2,768 posts)Always, always... dig deeper.
debm55
(55,703 posts)hunter
(40,367 posts)Why would I pay any attention to my future self?
Had to learn everything the hard way.
debm55
(55,703 posts)Totally on my own. Without any help from my family or relatives,
PoindexterOglethorpe
(28,454 posts)I realized I could graduate a year early by taking two summer school classes, one in English, the other in Social Studies. So I did just that.
I got a job and left home shortly after I turned 17. Always independent.
debm55
(55,703 posts)advice or love . I left my home at 17 to become a nun at a convent. Then I left after a year. I was the black sheep of my family not because of my behavior. But because I was resented.for being independent and smart.
Clouds Passing
(6,985 posts)debm55
(55,703 posts)after leaving the convent . Got pregnant to the abuser. Miscarried and we split.He was an abuser. Then went to Penn State on a scholarship, When I left to go to PS all of my artwork was thrown out. I wish I had someone to encourage me. Sorry for the rant,
Clouds Passing
(6,985 posts)I lost all of my artwork too. I used to win blue ribbons. Trauma robs us. Finding Self heals us.
debm55
(55,703 posts)Mad_Dem_X
(10,129 posts)After that rough period, things will get so much better!
debm55
(55,703 posts)who may had my life and need a bit of sunshine. I was always like that. I saw the sunshine in the darkness.
Mad_Dem_X
(10,129 posts)beemerphill
(599 posts)People lie. Act like you believe them, but check before you do anything based on what they told you.
debm55
(55,703 posts)to nominate me for teacher of the year because of that. She left and I won the award and was awarded 5000 dollars. But thinking back it still makes my face burn.
beemerphill
(599 posts)When I was young, I was naive and socially inept. (I still am at times.) However, I eventually figured some things out and realized that , if you let them, some people will take advantage of you. After I woke up to this fact, I understood many things in life that I had missed before. It was a simple lesson, but it had to be learned by living life and putting the pieces together myself.
debm55
(55,703 posts)Hassler
(4,762 posts)Use your lawn mowing money, buy and hold.
debm55
(55,703 posts)biophile
(1,202 posts)You have zero chance of success if you dont even try- just because you were afraid of looking silly or that you might not succeed.
It took me nearly 40 years to overcome self doubt and insecurity. By then, many opportunities had passed. Ive had a great life! But Ill never know what might have been- its a question for all time, isnt it? And one without answer!
debm55
(55,703 posts)Dorothy V
(460 posts)1. Learn what true friendship is.
2. Watch out! Something could be sneaking up on you.
3. The first time it's their fault. The second time it is my fault.
4. Laugh and enjoy the little things in life.
debm55
(55,703 posts)Native
(7,294 posts)safer, healthier, and contribute to your overall happiness and well-being.
debm55
(55,703 posts)Xavier Breath
(6,471 posts)The things you'll end up regretting are the things that you didn't even try, not the times you failed when you did.
debm55
(55,703 posts)3catwoman3
(28,579 posts)If something makes you uncomfortable, don't agree to it because you think it would make someone else happy.
Earl_from_PA
(294 posts)Take good/better care of your teeth...