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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsInspired by True Dough (no poll) what kind of travels across the USA have you done. Especially, say, 500 miles or...
..and how did you travel? What did you want to see. Whom did you want to visit? Or was it work travel?
🚨This is long! I love reading details of trips, and encourage you to share.
My first big trip was w my sister, and one cousin as a ?16 yr old was to see the Cherry Blossoms by the Tidal Basin in DC! Glorious!
I don't remember anything else about it, other than we had a good time, but I had a photo of my sis, and cousin sitting on the grass in our coats, and tossing a rolled up aluminum "ball" ?from lunch to each other.
By train bc I just remembered I had to read a book for 😑 English class, and I was behind! There I was on the train - resentfully reading. I didn't like very many of "The Classics" much for school. I devoured SF, and certain science books at home.
FYI:
Waaaay more recently DC itself puts out a on line dedicated map of all the different types of flowering cherry trees, where, and a general idea of their blossoming cycle that year. It's really cool!
Next big trip was to Georgia by plane. We flew down through a storm to land in a rainy Atlanta airport. Visited a friend. Saw the creeping kudzu(!!!) from 'Lanta to Athens, etc. LIke a Sci Fi movie! Saw Stone Mountain from a distance, but didn't yet know it's infamous reputation to many of us Northerners, and probably almost all Black people who know of it.
My sis and I went to Boston for 2 days by train, and back by bus. In late October. We were cold in our coats, while Bostonians some strolled by the Charles River in shorts and tees! Visited a lot of sights. Passed by a famous Publishing House, ?Little Brown & Co. .And ?Havard grounds. Saw plaques of the Underground Railroad.
This may have been when we also went up to get tix the night The Who were playing at the Biston Garden! Or that was a separate trip.
I finally at 26 after watching a PBS special about our National Parks in '79, and how encroaching suburbanization & industry posdibly would bring trouble- I "mentally jumped up", and thought I have go there now"!!
This was Feb?
I planned , and went by bus. This was a 2 week bus pass: off & on as many times as you wanted! Slept overnight in the bus, or later in hotels. Going westward at night The Big Dipper hung in the sky.
I made enough good money to save up to visit the high desert of The Navajo & Hopi Nations w a friend I met up with in Flagstaff, and we rented a car for 2 days, went to Canyon de Chelly the next day, and got to Monument Valley by mid afternoon. Took the 17 miles self tour. It was so astonishingly beautiful. We slept overnight in our sleeping bags, and saw The Milky Way bc the moon had set by 3AM when we both happen to wake up! In thst landscapevit arced over likec2/3rds of the sky! We returned after sunrise, and parted ways back in Flagstaff.
I headed to San Francisco. What a wonderful city! Had so much fun. Saw so many different areas, and sights I researched to see! Of course, rode the trolley several times!! Ate dim sum in their Chinatown. Stood outside a Punk Music Club bc I think couldn't get in to hear a band. This was '79 in full punk/new wave swing across the country by now. Could still hear them from outside.
The funniest thing was visiting that famous park where the big Art Museums were. At one The King Tut exhibit was on display. You know there had to be Crowds for that! 😄 I'd seen it already at our crowded Metropolitan Museum of Art. So at the other museum was "5,000 years of Korean Art". That one didn't have many visitors so it was easy to spend time looking at all the beautiful items. Bought the exhibit book, too.
Yes, I was nervous a bit about earthquakes before I decided to plan it in my itinerary; but the (hopefully only, and last ) earthquakes I've ever felt were here in NYC! Go figure. 😄
Visited my cousin in LA, no big wish, I think to visit it other than to see her, she drove me around to see things which was fun. Caught a sweet little lizard one morning in the bathroom sink to gently take it outside (and luckily it didn't loose it's tail).
On one of our drives we passed by one edge of Echo Park. About a block distance away for measure there was a pond with the tallest kind 4 ft high of lotuses 35+ bright shell-pink of them in full bloom. I fell in love w them as a tween from a picture in a science book. This was a glimpse of Heaven!
I went back to Arizona to visit The Grand Canyon from Flagstaff by bus, but couldn't stay overnight (had to book fairly far in advance). Disappointed at first when I arrived. WHY?! How could I be?
Well, at noon the light was flat, except for the beige sand ground, and nearest next level dull reddish rock formations below us - everything was in shades of blues, purples, pale blues, grays and whites.
Where were our glorious warm, glowing colors??!
Ohhhh, well once the sun got to a relatively lower angle about 3PM then they emerged! We had leave at 4PM but at least I had some time seeing them. So magnificent!
Took a tour by Grayline back in Flagstaff. Visited the Hopi's Homegoing Ceremony for The Kachinas. Then two different looking canyons.
Visited my dad's friend's in Alberquerque.
They took me to Old Town. Saw the Native American outdoor craft market place.
Then finally back home to NYC.
I did a partly similar trip the next summer '80. Different start. I headed by bus to South Dakota via going north from Alberquerque through New Mexico (lovely mountains) for a special Environmental and Native Rights gathering that took place on a farmers ranch for several days. I had been involved a bit with it previously. I went for the 2nd to last day. Stayed in Rapid City. Took a tour of The Black Hills.
Then visited Colorado Springs. You could see Pike's Peak right from one of the main streets! Took a tour of the Air Force Academy, and Garden of The Gods: beautiful rock formations.
I visited my cousin studying in Denver, CO. Bc his roommate took the car, and after he tested my ability to handle being on a motorcycle, by making a short trip to the bank with me, we had lunch, and headed off to The Rocky Mountains! 😮 A mix (especially heading back down the mountains) of thrills, and fear!
First we stopped at Red Rocks ampithearter! What beautiful formations. Amazing place for music. Then Golden, an old time mining town.
We were actually looking for the Coors "Red Zinger" annual bike race but we never found it.
We went to a lake about 10,000+ ft up. Looking south west we saw Mt Evans still capped with some snow. Wow.
But more amazing, to our north west "blued" by distance was a line of snow capped peaks. This was the
Continental Divide where all rivers from that area run either West, or East. Majestic!
Finally he took me higher up where we stopped to see a narrow at the top, broadening outward into a triangular shape a vast valley. It was roadless, and filled with thousands of pine trees! So wild, literally, seeing nature like that. A "deep carpet" of greenery.
Then back down to his house.
I went back to Flagstaff, and took the Grayline tours again. Visited my dad's friend's again, and then home to NYC. I left at night. From the bus window in the south distance; lightening danced.
A few visits to Phillidelphia when my sis was at University. I liked it enough that we went back a couple of times after she returned to NYC. Of course m, I did have a Philly Cheesesteak at least once.
Since then a few trips to East Lansing for a convention by bus. Many trips to DC for Marches, rallies, and others for pure fun.
I'll feel extra lucky if I get to Chicago, a city I've wanted to visit but income loss 30 yrs ago hampered bigger trips than DC.
We'll see.
2naSalit
(94,012 posts)I have a life of travel around the US and a little in Mexico, Canada and England. My dad was in the military so we moved every three years, pretty much every three years. Then I grew up to be a professional driver for a while so I was on the road for a couple decades in total. Still travel a little. I have to write a book, though, it'll be big or have numerous volumes.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)Looks like you got some fun trips in, too.
If you stayed 3 years like clockwork, I guess you could settle in for a time knowing you'd be off again at a certain time. Hope it wasn't too disorienting!
2naSalit
(94,012 posts)A constant disruption, every trip, every day. The only constant was that you knew you were going to be someplace else by the end of the day or night. I had my scares but had a lot of triumphs and unique experiences too. Being one of a small population of women in the trade at the time had its ups and downs but nearly every day was a unique adventure. I also had a lot of personal freedom most women didn't have during that time, a major thing in the 1970s and 1980s in America. When it stopped being a positive lifestyle, no more growth possible, I bailed and did something entirely different, which could be just about anything, really.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)See the country? Become a truck driver!
Interesting comment on women's personal freedoms back then.
I don't know how common it was for women to travel solo even in '79, though I'm sure more did by then. Took a 2 week cross country trip by bus. Fabulous time!
Of course, I was aware of sexism, and it could, and did affect women. Not sure if in my then profession of paste ups and mechanicals; the traditional kind pre-computers was effected by a gender inbalance. Thinking more of your iindustry, carpentry, construction, hmmm, electricians, etc.
2naSalit
(94,012 posts)Somewhere in the late 1980s that I started seeing a significant number of women running solo. Before that, if you were a female driver, you were probably some guy's wife or girlfriend and hardly anyone would hire a woman to run solo. I started out as an owner/operator because I married into a small company. When I left the marriage, I did pretty well for myself for some time. Supported two sisters and their kids while they got divorced, not simultaneously. But before I could recover my savings after that, I got hurt and was out of the game permanently, so I went to college, the rest is history.
I was in the publishing trade for a little while too but the transportation industry was where I could make money.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)2naSalit
(94,012 posts)And was quite fit but I'm paying for it now with arthritis and other physical issues.
As for my sisters, it's a family thing. One of the ex hubbies was all wadded up shorts about it, couldn't handle that I drove, that I made good money and especially because I used it to help my sister get away form him, she would have had a real hard time if I hadn't stepped in. Long story like other ugly divorces.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)physical, mental, emotional, financial reasons.
So I mean in those cases imho a family member isn't reputation wise obligated to help. If you care, and can help then that's an honorable action.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)2naSalit
(94,012 posts)To do when I went in or when I got out. I graduated 30 days before 9/11. There was no real recovery from that blow for a lot of us who graduated during that time, jobs dried up and by the time they came back, they paid 1/3 what they did prior and many of us were 'out of the loop' after 18 months of not being involved. It was kind of like the pandemic only a million people didn't die and we weren't all confined to our homes but the vibe was similar.
I managed to get some work near the area I was aiming for but not close enough to make it all that worthwhile in the end, I retired poor anyway and that's what I went to college to avoid. A lifetime disappointment to say the least. My goal was somewhere in government like the SES but I never found anything above GS. None of it was easy.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)What's SES?
I know someone who's family was in the FS.
2naSalit
(94,012 posts)Executive Service, high level government employees who work as department heads and higher level clearances. I would have been working in DC for at least a little while.
GS refers to General Schedule, when you see or hear of a GS5 or such level opening, that's a worker bee designation with the Office of Personnel Management.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)Thought it meant Government Service.
LuckyCharms
(19,302 posts)Business travel (via plane):
Boston, MA
Dayton OH
Houston TX
Orlando FL
Other than business travel (via auto unless noted):
States:
New York
Pennsylvania
Vermont
New Hampshire
Maine
Massachusetts
Connecticut
Rhode Island
New Jersey
Virginia
West Virginia
Kentucky
Florida (plane)
California (Los Angeles area via plane)
Washington, DC
Maryland
Michigan
Delaware
Texas
Ohio
Also: Several trips to Canada to go fishing and see concerts.
Many of the road trips were to see Grateful Dead concerts. A few were for vacations: Marco Island, St. Petersburg, Tampa, Orlando, Los Angeles, etc.
I used to drive my truck SILLY to see the Grateful Dead. I saw them wherever I could afford to drive to.
Took busses to NYC and trains to Buffalo several times as a kid. About a 200 mile one way trip for each.
Went to Disneyland and Hollywood area with this woman I was dating.
Many many trips to NYC (Bronx, Manhattan, Brooklyn). Major cities include LA, Philly, NYC, Detroit, Norfolk, Buffalo, Rochester, Pittsburgh, Houston, Baltimore, Louisville).
I've always lived in upstate NY.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)While way less, my sis and I traveled outside of NYC, and next door north NJ to see The Who, so I relate!
We had our "Bicentennial Who Tour Trip". We did include our Nov '75 trip to Philadelphia in this; which me and a friend traveled down to Philly to stay overnight on line to get tixs next morning. Then it was NYC, Boston Gardens (finding sellers up there), and the arena right outside of DC in ?Maryland later that summer.
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Thst one we also had tix for. However, when we got there our seats (?20+ row) were part of those displaced by the sound board. Arg!
Only we ended up placed in the 10th row instead, aha! Since they were one of our favorite bands getting close was a goal if possible.
Good times!
Upper and central NYS have lovely countryside!
ProfessorGAC
(70,950 posts)...as long as I can remember we took major trips.
Denver when I was 7, California when I was 9, Niagara Falls at 10, D.C. when I was 11, NYC when I was 12, and so on. So basically every year until I was 17.
For work, we had sites in 9 states, and I worked with customers & suppliers in 6 others.
I've been to every state but Alaska.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)I remember my dad saying something about having experiences, and not always things
We went mostly to NYS, and the New
England ones through my mid teens. Two trips to Canada; one a wedding, the other Montreal, and Expo '67. We loved World Fairs.
At all we always stayed in the countryside, no cities, or towns.
We did however fly to Florida when I was 5! That was to a city area. I still remember a lot of that trip.
ProfessorGAC
(70,950 posts)..we popped for an Alaskan cruise so my parents could get to 50 states in their life.
So, they had one more than me! My dad died only a few years later, so our timing was pretty good.
LudwigPastorius
(11,245 posts)I didn't do this alone, though. Had another driver, but went straight there without stopping for the night.
No way I could do that now. Too much pain after a couple of hours sitting in a car.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)Interesting, too, in terms of different geography. Especially a land locked city to one by the ocean.
jmowreader
(51,685 posts)Let's see here:
In 1984 I was assigned to the 101st Airborne Division at Fort Campbell, KY, and was reassigned to Korea. I needed to get my motorcycle home, so I rode it to Idaho. I don't remember the exact route but I know I went through Nebraska on my way to South Dakota, then jumped on I-90 and rode in.
I've been down Interstate 90 from the east coast to Idaho several times.
I drove from Watertown, NY to Fayetteville, NC.
Next year I MAY, if I can get the schedule to work out, drive from Idaho to San Francisco. It turns out the NASCAR race at Sonoma is the same weekend the Dodgers are playing the Giants at Oracle Park, so I can see a race AND Ohtani play baseball on the same trip. I'll probably go down through Idaho until I can get to Interstate 80 then go straight into San Francisco.
electric_blue68
(19,091 posts)your race and baseball game!
And I just had fun learning how in general the US Highway system works. A good you tube video.
Right now too tired to catch all of the smaller details of what the 3 digit numbers mean in relationship to the bigger routes, but interesting just the same
So thanks, I wouldn't have done that otherwise.
catbyte
(36,102 posts)Drove to D.C. for the cherry blossoms, so lovely.
Drove my dad's cat to North Dakota where he was working as an engineer after retiring from the police force (what a trip -- we thought we lost Maui the Siamese cat at a rest area in Minnesota, scariest moment of my life, lol, but he was just under a bush, relaxing.)
Drove out to South Dakota, Wyoming, and Montana, including Badlands National Park, the Black Hills, Mt. Rushmore, the Crazy Horse Monument in progress, and Yellowstone. Amazing.
Drove to Glacier National Park and Banff for my honeymoon and it was unforgettable.
Flew to Oklahoma City to see my folks (dad was transferred there from ND) and went through a couple of wild thunderstorms.
Flew to Houston and drove to Galveston which was fun.
Flew to Maui 15 times mainly to watch Humpback whales in the winter and early spring. Napili is my heart place.
Flew to Arizona twice, once to stay in Flagstaff to see a Native American interpretation of Star Wars but the museum flooded so it was pretty much of a bust. But Sedona was gorgeous. The next time was to go to the 2022 Fiesta Bowl in Gilbert which was also a bust because Michigan lost. But I did have the best cheese enchiladas I've ever had in Phoenix. I still think about them, lol.
When I was 12, my grandma and I rode on the California Zephyr train from Chicago to visit relatives in Lodi, California. It was quite an adventure.
My soon-to-be-husband and I drove to Washington DC for the 25th anniversary of MLK's "I Have a Dream" speech.
I drove to NYC 3 times, flew once, took the train from Philly once.
Flew to Atlanta, lovely city.
I drove to the Berkshires in western Massachusetts.
Drove to Chicago many times.
Drove to Philadelphia, PA where my dad was transferred again.
Flew to Seattle to visit my best friend and goddaughter, so fun. I loved Seattle.
That's all I can think of right now.
LogDog75
(212 posts)My father was in the Navy in the 50s and 60s, stationed mainly on the East coast so he drove us to and from his assignments in Florida, Virginia, Rhode Island, Connecticut, Tennessee, and then to San Diego from retirement.
I've driven from the East Coast (Myrtle Beach) to San Diego; Sacramento to Florida; Eastern New Mexico to San Diego; and San Diego to Reno, NV. The trip to Reno was in 2023 for a bowling tournament. I drove my bowling partner and myself from San Diego to Reno going through Lake Tahoe and Carson City. It was the first time in two decades I had driven in snow. On the way back, we decided to take an alternate route recommended by a teammate. We drove that route and other than a few very small towns it was desolate. No cell phone connection or internet connection to my phone's GPS couldn't work. If we had broken down, we would have had to walk a couple of miles to a farm house to call for help. Fortunately, we made it okay. The highlight of the return trip was stopping at Schat's Bakkery in Bishop, Ca. Good sandwiches and I bought a loaf of sour dough bread.
GreatGazoo
(4,020 posts)Backwards = from San Bernardino to St Louis.
Stayed in some classic Route 66 towns -- Flagstaff, Winslow, Tucumcari. Had almost everything I owned in the car. Kept getting ear-wormed by songs that have Route 66 towns in their lyrics:
"I was standing on the corner in Winslow Arizona, such a fine sight to see..."
Made a side trip to Hannibal MO and was pleasantly surprised. Walked in Samuel Clemens' footsteps along the Mississippi and up a hill at nightfall. Crickets and fireflies. "I heard an owl, away off, who-whooing about somebody that was dead, and a whippowill and a dog crying about somebody that was going to die; and the wind was trying to whisper something to me, and I couldnt make out what it was." Better than a theme park because it was real and humble.
randr
(12,504 posts)Americanme
(98 posts)Most of my vacations have been in and around Michigan. Chicago, Fort Wayne, Lake Michigan, Mackinac Island, the UP, Detroit. I did fly to Scottsdale, AZ with my first wife for a vacation, and drove to Anadarko, OK, for her Kiowa grandfather's funeral. With my second wife, I had several trips in 2024. Flew to Montego Bay, JA, for a delayed honeymoon, flew to Anchorage, AK, to visit her son, who is stationed up there. Drove to DC to visit my middle child, saw all the sights there. Drove to Ithaca, NY to move my oldest to her new home. Nice town, found a nice running path, she ran 8 miles with me the day after we moved her in. Hope to do much more traveling. So much I want to see.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(26,914 posts)When my sons were growing up we often took long driving trips over spring and summer breaks. Couldn't begin to enumerate them.
CanonRay
(14,965 posts)from the Law Enforcement Training Center in Brunswick, GA to Denver. I was anxious to get home.