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Im OBSESSED with (something).
Just stop, please.

Scrivener7
(54,515 posts)"That outfit is giving money."
The expression "it's giving" is giving "trying too hard."
johnp3907
(3,959 posts)
Skittles
(162,406 posts)but I never could stand "I just threw up in my mouth a little"
spooky3
(37,137 posts)electric_blue68
(20,237 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(53,035 posts)yorkster
(2,843 posts)awhile ago. Could never get why it was used so often for so long as it is so repulsive.
electric_blue68
(20,237 posts)LeftInTX
(32,712 posts)I swear it was a "made for TV" saying....
"Groovy man"...
gay texan
(2,952 posts)electric_blue68
(20,237 posts)Frasier Balzov
(4,056 posts)I'm on the lookout for it now.
When somebody says "Right?" in every other sentence, I began to devalue whatever else they have to say.
Maybe it's technically not a hip expression, but it aspires to be. More than the old verbal crutch of "ya know."
spooky3
(37,137 posts)electric_blue68
(20,237 posts)The latest dinner hack
Money saving hack etc
Hack it off now.
ProfessorGAC
(71,848 posts)I don't care for it either.
Never used it. I just use "tip".
Harker
(15,732 posts)That's cringey... which is also on my list.
Cone to think of it, if I say "pro tip" it's usually sarcastic. If we're on the golf course, and a guy block one into the woods I might say "Pro tip; hit it straighter." I did say that to our handyman whose 2 teenage kids are both guitar students. I told him that if they want any advice or pro tips I was available. But, I actually got paid to play music so it seemed appropriate.
Harker
(15,732 posts)My wife's eldest son (26) views me as a corny old man, as a lot of my terminology is outdated.
When I was eighteen in 1977, I was sure I'd always be hip.
ProfessorGAC
(71,848 posts)I'm 3 years older than you. And, I played in bands until i was 51.
Now, I'm just an older guy that used to play in bands!
Scrivener7
(54,515 posts)paleotn
(20,054 posts)hlthe2b
(108,333 posts)of the verb? It just sounds utterly ignorant to me. sigh...
Or to those still using "my bad..." Damn, this dates back twenty years at least.
yorkster
(2,843 posts)sudden, I started hearing it everywhere.
Ocelot II
(123,555 posts)For example, "Are you going along?" can be said "Skal du med?" in Norwegian - literally, "Shall you with"?
msongs
(70,765 posts)JoseBalow
(6,954 posts)Figuratively speaking...
spooky3
(37,137 posts)cloudbase
(5,914 posts)Awesome.
Epic.
spooky3
(37,137 posts)Different Drummer
(9,050 posts)If everything is "awesome" or "epic". then nothing is. Both have been overused to the point of becoming irrelevant.
nuxvomica
(13,182 posts)I first heard it Ireland in 2014 and every server or barista or hotel employee under the age of 30 used it, and it seemed quaint. Then I started hearing it over here, again, people in their twenties, as if the phrase "Don't worry about it" never existed. I used it myself recently in a text message and I felt like a sellout. Now I want to use it, but ironically.
Bernardo de La Paz
(53,035 posts)It's different from "Don't worry". That is a command to you. "No worries" means "I have no worries about the issue or event". It is meant to put the hearer at rest without COMMANDING them.
If you don't like "no worries", do you dislike "no problem"? Pretty much the same, except one is singular and the other plural. Two words each, same number of letters.
I don't worry about "no problem" and I have no problem with "no worries".
LeftInTX
(32,712 posts)If literally means "for nothing" and pre-dates "no worries" and "no problem" etc.
We learned it in Spanish class in 1968. We always thought it was a strange saying. It sounds like slang, but it isn't.
I think it was picked up in English in the 80's or something like that.
Hubby used "de nada" at work, but learned "no hay de que" (there's nothing to it) in school.
"No problema" is probably the most common informal/slange "you're welcome" in Spanish.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Spanish/comments/x1lcci/other_ways_to_say_youre_welcome_instead_of_de_nada/
https://spanishandgo.com/learn/15-different-ways-to-say-youre-welcome
https://en.amazingtalker.com/blog/en/spanish/64925/
dai13sy
(530 posts)WestMichRad
(2,119 posts)
Bernardo de La Paz
(53,035 posts)Like it is epicly overused, ya know. Like speakers think it is an awesome way to, like, avoid saying "uh" or "um" yaknow, but it is just as bad.
Different Drummer
(9,050 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(53,035 posts)ArnoldLayne
(2,196 posts)Figarosmom
(4,728 posts)Last edited Fri Dec 27, 2024, 08:58 PM - Edit history (1)
Of people copying Mathew McConahay's "alright, alright, alright"
Iggo
(48,730 posts)Just stop.
KitFox
(232 posts)Im tired of hearing this non descriptive phrase for a specific situation. There are so many other possibilities for words of encouragement
Strikes me as patronizing.
Oh, please. I dont need to be told I can handle something, especially by (patronizer).
yorkster
(2,843 posts)Especially when heard in dialog from a film or series depicting events of many decades earlier. It just jumps out.
Bernardo de La Paz
(53,035 posts)It is popular among women and some men to use the vocal rise on statements, voicing them as questions. It should be dropped immediately because it projects insecurity, being unsure about the statement, or needing affirmation from the listener because of a lack of confidence.
Usually the person using the vocal rise is pretty confident about what they are saying but somehow it is a habit, a popular affectation that devalues what the person is saying.
Vocal fry, also popular among mostly women, is a seductive voicing that communicates intimacy and late night drowsiness. When it is applied in conversation and interviews the speaker is almost never trying to be seductive. But it comes across as like "Come on over to my place at night." It's another affectation that sabotages the speaker's intent.
Fortunately vocal fry is finally receding from its fadishness. Though vocal rise is slowly declining it still plagues many speakers.
WestMichRad
(2,119 posts)Makes me immediately question the competence of the speaker. Makes them sound like they have no conviction in what they are saying. Arrrgh!!
Different Drummer
(9,050 posts)Think Christina Hall in those Jacuzzi Bath Remodels commercials.
yorkster
(2,843 posts)the speaker was only going to expend a very small amount of energy while speaking. Too cool to make an effort, as in
I'm going to just barely speak or respond to you.
There is also, of course the effect of drowsiness/intimacy that you mentioned.
Bernardo de La Paz
(53,035 posts)Remember how the FM DJs had their bedroom voice: soft, low, not going to wake anybody up.
yorkster
(2,843 posts)as opposed to the braying, adenoidal pitchman style of some am djs.
WGBH in Boston had two of the best voices at one point. Ron Della Chiesa
had a jazz program in the pm and Robert J. Lurtsema was the classical fm voice in the early am.
Both quite mellifluous in very different ways..
GoneOffShore
(17,735 posts)He was an excellent broadcaster and just died this May.
yorkster
(2,843 posts)Dave Maynard and Jefferson Kay (Kaye?).
The latter used to have a folk show and I think he used the word hootenany on occasion. I was 16 or 17, liked rock and follk, but hated the word hootenany...
When I was a kid, Carl de Suze was the voice of authority on the radio, Boston wise anyhoo.
Mike Nelson
(10,501 posts)Walleye
(38,622 posts)When really it is the speaker that needs something not the subject. He needs to be fired , for example
Ocelot II
(123,555 posts)Wingus Dingus
(8,825 posts)hlthe2b
(108,333 posts)Different Drummer
(9,050 posts)
chicoescuela
(1,875 posts)and about things that happened very recently. Sounds dumb.
bif
(24,811 posts)bif
(24,811 posts)Redleg
(6,380 posts)People use this to explain why they act or think a certain way, as though it is carved in stone.
Clouds Passing
(4,001 posts)Sorry its a current expression, but pet peeve!!!!! It is annoying!!
Why do so many people think that every single thing they say has to be validated by who theyre speaking to?! Its as if they are so wracked with self doubt they must announce it frequently, right?!
pandr32
(12,713 posts).
hatrack
(61,961 posts)Really? Sounds great for six-year-olds, I guess.
Bernardo de La Paz
(53,035 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(53,035 posts)When people deploy that phrase, there is nothing particular or noteworthy about the face. It is simply a call to violence because they don't like the person. It's the language of bullies.
It is a little disgusting how many erstwhile "progressives" use this expression, as if violence or vigilantism or appearance shaming are some kind of liberal value. People who think it is funny are easily amused and don't realize how words mold thinking and actions.
"But I'm not a violent person!": prove it by not praising it. Prove it by not introducing it into respectable discourse.
"But it is just a joke!" That's what right-wingers say to get around their racist statements when they get called on it. Let's not employ the same underhanded ways to get around advocating assault and battery. This is not high school.
Is there not too much violence in the world already?