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CTyankee

(65,290 posts)
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 04:38 PM Nov 23

Do you have your groceries delivered to your house?

We did for a few months (daughter ordered them, I called her with my list every week). But I didn't like it and the extra tip was an extra I felt we could save if I just did it myself. I would ALWAYS tip the delivery person, tho. Also, I liked visiting food and picking out what I wanted.

I just returned exhausted from a shopping trip. I thought it would all be okay if I made several small shoppings a week but this hasn't worked out so well.

I might go back to having my daughter order once a week and I would go for any extras during the week.

If you order groceries are you happy with not going to the grocery store?

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Do you have your groceries delivered to your house? (Original Post) CTyankee Nov 23 OP
I do it myself, when I need to do so; elleng Nov 23 #1
I know, mine too. But it's frustrating, too. Even tho we have developed a system that groups all the items in separate CTyankee Nov 23 #4
We are not happy. I like to browse while shopping and it gets me out of the house. SWBTATTReg Nov 23 #2
Yes! Lunabell Nov 23 #3
Never! LoisB Nov 23 #5
Absolutely snowybirdie Nov 23 #6
Never. AltairIV Nov 23 #7
I order and pick up usually... JT45242 Nov 23 #8
My store is just under a mile from my house so it is very accessible. CTyankee Nov 23 #10
I prefer to do my own grocery shopping but... QED Nov 23 #9
I do a pickup at Giant so badhair77 Nov 23 #11
I wish I had an attendant to do that. My store doesn't have a lot of staff people. Most of their employees are out of CTyankee Nov 23 #13
That's disappointing. badhair77 Nov 23 #22
Brilliant! I tell my elderly neighbors to do that and it helps them so much. jimfields33 Nov 23 #16
Never. We buy OTC drugs online because they are 30% less than in the stores here. Runningdawg Nov 23 #12
that sounds like a good system... CTyankee Nov 23 #15
Only during Covid. I go to the grocery store now. jimfields33 Nov 23 #14
We did, during the early days of covid. It was like Forrest Gump's box of chocolates: rsdsharp Nov 23 #17
I was staying at my parents' house the first few months of covid happybird Nov 23 #38
We have most of our groceries delivered, especially heavy items. brer cat Nov 23 #18
I go to Publix early in the morning and pick out what I need. They are not busy at 8am. TommieMommy Nov 23 #19
I do Walmart pickup Vegan4life Nov 23 #20
I do groceries delivery with instacart. 99.9% have been excellent . Any problems have been addresses. Srkdqltr Nov 23 #21
About canned goods claudette Nov 23 #32
Ill have to check Target. Srkdqltr Nov 23 #34
I often order online and then do pickup. Big Blue Marble Nov 23 #23
I did pick up during the height of Covid MissB Nov 23 #24
I work at a grocery store happybird Nov 23 #25
About half of them. Iggo Nov 23 #26
We all have to pay higher prices for food to provide that service. nt doc03 Nov 23 #27
Nope Jilly_in_VA Nov 23 #28
Online pickup: Order what you want, drive up and they'll put it in your trunk splat Nov 23 #29
Yes and I ❤️ It claudette Nov 23 #30
Yes MaryMagdaline Nov 23 #31
Yes. I love it. I do it through Safeway and have been Polly Hennessey Nov 23 #33
Yes! I have always hated shopping. MotownPgh Nov 24 #44
I did during the pandemic, now only on rare occasions Ocelot II Nov 23 #35
Half and half... FirstLight Nov 23 #36
I have on occasion but I prefer shopping in person Freddie Nov 23 #37
Nope. Dulcinea Nov 23 #39
CTyankee........ Upthevibe Nov 24 #40
I never have ordered groceries on delivery, but I may have to start because of Sogo Nov 24 #41
Yes. madamesilverspurs Nov 24 #42
Yes. I get my groceries delivered from Walmart. milestogo Nov 24 #43
Yes mvd Nov 25 #45
Never done it. sinkingfeeling Nov 25 #46
no delivery of anything to my house Kali Nov 26 #47

CTyankee

(65,290 posts)
4. I know, mine too. But it's frustrating, too. Even tho we have developed a system that groups all the items in separate
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 04:47 PM
Nov 23

sections on a master list we develop each week after consulting the sale specials flyer we get delivered with our newspaper every Thursday. It's hard on my back, where I have arthritis in my lower spine. I recover and hubby puts the groceries away for me. Then I'm fine.

Lunabell

(7,064 posts)
3. Yes!
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 04:44 PM
Nov 23

I need two new knees, and shopping is a pain! Even with the motor carts,(if they have one charged up in good working condition) they just don't hold enough. We go through a huge bag of dog and cat food each week. I sometimes do pick up, which doesn't have a tip involved. But, delivery is so convenient and lets me be free to work on other stuff and spend my time more efficiently. Plus, I don't impulse buy and can keep a rolling tab on my money.

snowybirdie

(5,688 posts)
6. Absolutely
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 04:50 PM
Nov 23

Use delivery for regular staple items. The other day I needed something and went into store. Had to walk at least a block and back to get my item, and then wait in line for 15 minutes or so to check out. Brought home how much a convenience delivery is. Old bones and aches and pains made it clear. Not that fussy anymore.

JT45242

(2,995 posts)
8. I order and pick up usually...
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 04:54 PM
Nov 23

It's easy. Convenient. And I don't impulse shop.

Started during covid.

Only issue is they don't always pick great produce.

Other than that, it works great.

Grocery store is 1 mile from house and can schedule times around coming home from work or other errands.

CTyankee

(65,290 posts)
10. My store is just under a mile from my house so it is very accessible.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 04:57 PM
Nov 23

And I don't mind making several trips as long as the weather is decent. Unloading groceries in the pouring rain is awful.

QED

(2,979 posts)
9. I prefer to do my own grocery shopping but...
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 04:57 PM
Nov 23

I've had items delivered when my shoulder was messed up - I just couldn't carry a 40# bag of dog food.

And now I'm dealing with a pinched nerve and I can only walk a few steps before the pain sets in so I'm having groceries delivered. I'm scheduled for the nerve block on 12/2 and I can't wait. This sucks.

badhair77

(4,664 posts)
11. I do a pickup at Giant so
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 04:58 PM
Nov 23

I do have to carry it from the car to the house. Frozen and cold foods go in first but sometimes I leave other products to be be brought in later if I’m struggling. I had a knee surgery that didn’t go the way it should have, which led to back issues, so walking through the store is difficult. I love it. I order online, often with extra online sale prices, and the attendant puts everything in the car. No extra charges and I actually save money.

CTyankee

(65,290 posts)
13. I wish I had an attendant to do that. My store doesn't have a lot of staff people. Most of their employees are out of
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:01 PM
Nov 23

sight. And they seem annoyed by having to answer my questions about where to get a specific item.

badhair77

(4,664 posts)
22. That's disappointing.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:22 PM
Nov 23

Is there a chance you could speak to a manager and set up something? You’d be surprised at how cooperative they can be if they know there’s a need. Also, maybe there’s another store near you that offers pick up. If you want to choose your own produce you could do an order of basics and just go in the store for those few items. I hope something works for you. It’s miserable to walk all those steps and load groceries.

jimfields33

(19,320 posts)
16. Brilliant! I tell my elderly neighbors to do that and it helps them so much.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:07 PM
Nov 23

They take good rests between getting the rest throughout the day. If they still aren’t done by 5:30 and I get home, I bring in the rest. I hope others do this across the world. It just makes so much sense.

Runningdawg

(4,630 posts)
12. Never. We buy OTC drugs online because they are 30% less than in the stores here.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:00 PM
Nov 23

I shop in my neighborhood, in a small Hispanic market. Their produce turns over several times a day not once a week. Its cut or weighed to order at the meat case, nothing touches Styrofoam or plastic. Dairy is higher but lucky us, there is a real dairy a mile away. Cleaning supplies are bought at the hardware store and animal food at the feed store. I pass all of those on the way to the market.

rsdsharp

(10,290 posts)
17. We did, during the early days of covid. It was like Forrest Gump's box of chocolates:
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:08 PM
Nov 23

You never knew what you’d get. About six weeks in, the store announced what we dubbed “geezer hour.” The reserved an hour early in the morning solely for people over 65. My wife started going then (masked), and still does. There aren’t many people in the store, she can make her own decisions, and all the staff know her now.

happybird

(5,192 posts)
38. I was staying at my parents' house the first few months of covid
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 09:22 PM
Nov 23

and we quickly learned to check the “No Substitutions” button when doing curbside orders. We got some weird stuff in the bags before doing that. You really never did know what you’d get, lol.

brer cat

(26,503 posts)
18. We have most of our groceries delivered, especially heavy items.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:09 PM
Nov 23

I make quick trips between times to pick up items we didn't plan to use or that are a good price at other stores.

I have a very bad back and can only do about one aisle before the pain becomes too intense. I prefer to select my produce and meat, but I have had good experiences with the shoppers' selection.

TommieMommy

(1,222 posts)
19. I go to Publix early in the morning and pick out what I need. They are not busy at 8am.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:10 PM
Nov 23

Good walking exercise. Going to shop for myself as long as I can 👍

Vegan4life

(17 posts)
20. I do Walmart pickup
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:11 PM
Nov 23

I have a leg injury that, due to complications, is taking a long time to rehab from. I can walk very short distances, but stores are out.

I've been pleased with the service. So pleased, I plan to continue using it when I'm back to fighting trim.

I also order all cat supplies from Chewy.com, and they're delivered to my porch.

Srkdqltr

(7,780 posts)
21. I do groceries delivery with instacart. 99.9% have been excellent . Any problems have been addresses.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:20 PM
Nov 23

I do my own picking on my phone app. They do a great job and I don't have to go to a grocery store. I hate shopping. Yes you do tip.
I do go to a local farm market once or twice a month just to see if there is anything different. If you have good delivery in your area go for it.
I would start with canned stuff and other hard goods, household items.

claudette

(4,672 posts)
32. About canned goods
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:47 PM
Nov 23

and non perishables - I order them from Target. An account with them gives 5% discount and free shipping on $35 or more. Some items are free shipping charge even under $35. I love Target!!

Big Blue Marble

(5,487 posts)
23. I often order online and then do pickup.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:23 PM
Nov 23

It is a fast and free service that saves me a lot of time and energy.

MissB

(16,120 posts)
24. I did pick up during the height of Covid
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:27 PM
Nov 23

But I didn’t like folks picking out my produce or meat.

I usually go to the store at 6 am on Saturdays. No one is really around at that hour, so I can casually stroll thru or zoom along if needed.

happybird

(5,192 posts)
25. I work at a grocery store
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:27 PM
Nov 23

and can say the employees who do the shopping take their jobs very seriously and are picky about the items they choose. It's a highly coveted job among the rest of us and hard to get moved up to.

I'm sure that may vary by individual store location.

splat

(2,335 posts)
29. Online pickup: Order what you want, drive up and they'll put it in your trunk
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:31 PM
Nov 23

I like choosing items from the inventory online, with nutrition and reviews, prices and coupons for each item, the weekly ads and search. I get coupons, discounts, etc., pick substitutions if items aren't available.
And I don't have to huff and puff around the aisles. I pick a time, show up then and they put it in my trunk. Cheaper than delivery, usually.

claudette

(4,672 posts)
30. Yes and I ❤️ It
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:42 PM
Nov 23

Saves me time and is so convenient. I started during COVID and it has been a pleasure. I do miss having a snack at the cafeteria sometimes but now even those items are on the list at Wegmans

MaryMagdaline

(7,919 posts)
31. Yes
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:44 PM
Nov 23

One of the greatest pleasures of life.

I will have to quit this luxury when I retire, but for now, I love it.

Polly Hennessey

(7,532 posts)
33. Yes. I love it. I do it through Safeway and have been
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:56 PM
Nov 23

happy. Is it always perfect, no. Saves me going through the whole shopping 🛒 experience. I don’t mind the tip. It’s worth all the other aggravation. 😉

MotownPgh

(373 posts)
44. Yes! I have always hated shopping.
Sun Nov 24, 2024, 07:33 PM
Nov 24

I don't mind the few mistakes if it saves me from ever going into a store. I'm in heaven!

Ocelot II

(121,502 posts)
35. I did during the pandemic, now only on rare occasions
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:57 PM
Nov 23

when I find myself too busy or too tired to go out and shop.

FirstLight

(14,311 posts)
36. Half and half...
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 06:46 PM
Nov 23

I usually only do it when I am stuck from the weather or sick... Im also re-learning how to shop for only me. My ex was horribly controlling and ran the kitchen so I had no say for the past 3 years.
Re learning how to do basic stuff is part of healing after abuse, so they say

Freddie

(9,744 posts)
37. I have on occasion but I prefer shopping in person
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 07:15 PM
Nov 23

And I will unless my health no longer permits it. Good exercise, gets me out of the house and I actually enjoy food shopping most of the time.

Dulcinea

(7,603 posts)
39. Nope.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 09:51 PM
Nov 23

I like doing my own shopping. I'd gladly outsource the housecleaning, though, but it's not in the budget.

Upthevibe

(9,251 posts)
40. CTyankee........
Sun Nov 24, 2024, 12:59 PM
Nov 24

I did when I was in Dallas (working with/for a friend for about 1 1/2 years - 12/22 - 6/24 -approximately).

We worked from her home since that's where her small business is. We ordered a few times and they messed it up pretty bad as a rule. I remember one time the smell of weed on the delivery person almost gave us a contact high.

Here at home in L.A. I never order. I have my routine. I normally go to two or three stores after work on Friday afternoon. I want to get my errands over with so they won't be hanging over me during the weekend.

Sogo

(5,843 posts)
41. I never have ordered groceries on delivery, but I may have to start because of
Sun Nov 24, 2024, 01:44 PM
Nov 24

an injury on one of my feet. It's hard and painful to get out and around for any length of time, and with winter weather on the way, I don' t want to chance a fall.

Will see if my health prevails before the winter sets in, but I'm not averse to ordering in groceries if needed.

madamesilverspurs

(16,082 posts)
42. Yes.
Sun Nov 24, 2024, 02:42 PM
Nov 24

In my case, it started to become necessary before the pandemic. My ability to do the shopping was becoming more difficult, what with my advancing health issues; between the oxygen and the walker, getting the groceries into the house brought new challenges. When the pandemic expanded the delivery options, Walmart was the only store in my area to offer delivery to SNAP households. Much as I don't care for their business model, I have appreciated the delivery option. I miss selecting my own produce, but I can cruise the fruits and veggies at the Safeway where I get my prescriptions. In the main, however, I don't see myself straying from the deliveries from Walmart -- unless some other store provides a reasonable alternative.


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milestogo

(18,275 posts)
43. Yes. I get my groceries delivered from Walmart.
Sun Nov 24, 2024, 03:18 PM
Nov 24

At first I used to order them and pick them up, but I got sick of waiting around a parking lot for them to bring my groceries out. I changed to delivery, and I try to keep it to 3 deliveries per month. I give a 5% tip. It does make my life easier.

Edit: I'm physically capable of doing it, but honestly its easier to find things online than in the store and I'm much less likely to impulse buy. Plus the ice cream doesn't melt.

mvd

(65,531 posts)
45. Yes
Mon Nov 25, 2024, 12:53 PM
Nov 25

I use Instacart as we have no car and it is not walkable here. I would like to find a different way and not have these extra delivery costs.

Kali

(55,877 posts)
47. no delivery of anything to my house
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 01:09 AM
Nov 26

unless it is ups or fedex. if I could do grocery delivery I would do it for sure, as is most of my shopping is online or with app for curbside pick up. I freaking LOVE it and once I worked out the kinks of knowing how to set the right substitutions or not, and write clear notes for the shoppers I have been so happy. they do really well on produce and meat for me, just rarely for some expensive cut of meat I will go in to make sure. otherwise it is so convenient. plus I can have son or husband pick up with out the types of mistakes and extras they always tried to get away with.

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