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What do you remember about Friday 22 November 1963 (Original Post) irisblue Nov 21 OP
;-( elleng Nov 21 #1
Everything, madamesilverspurs Nov 21 #2
Ditto. flor-de-jasmim Nov 21 #5
Saw my Dad cry Figarosmom Nov 21 #3
Sent home from school endless summer Nov 21 #4
Friday afternoon BOSSHOG Nov 21 #6
I was a junior in high school and people were crying n I had no idea why..then I heard the news Deuxcents Nov 21 #7
Incredible sadness and fear. It was my senior year in highschool. Arkansas Granny Nov 21 #8
Memory MoonlightHillFarm Nov 21 #9
Sitting in HS class and the announcement came over the PA system. lynintenn Nov 21 #10
Probably most, if not every, thing. LoisB Nov 21 #11
Look Beck2 Nov 21 #12
Ohhh...woah. So focused on the approaching democracy crisis with drumphf that *today's* date *didn't* trigger the electric_blue68 Nov 21 #13
I remember like it was yesterday. KitFox Nov 21 #14
The school day kind of devolved into chaos, with everyone being sent home. Sogo Nov 21 #15
Heard it from my mom. It took her forever to get the first word out. hunter Nov 21 #16
I was working at JLHudsons in Northland Center, just outside Detroit, Michigan. Srkdqltr Nov 21 #17
Too much. 2naSalit Nov 21 #18
Being told the president had been killed, MacKasey Nov 21 #19
I was in 9 1/2, in 4th grade. We had an hour for lunch and I had walked home, ate, and walked back to school. rsdsharp Nov 21 #20
My sister says the same thing. She was also not quite 3 yellowdogintexas Nov 21 #22
Everything. I was 15 and in 5th period Biology Class yellowdogintexas Nov 21 #21
I was in an eighth grade study hall. Jeebo Nov 21 #23
Likewise, our second grade class heard an abrupt radio feed over the PA system. n/t John1956PA Nov 22 #35
What don't I remember? wryter2000 Nov 22 #24
I was in Junior High School. They sent us home early. I Emile Nov 22 #25
Fascinated by the answers. Kicking. Mike 03 Nov 22 #26
On NBC, newsman Bill Ryan interrupted Chet Huntley to read the newsflash a/b Kennedys' death irisblue Nov 22 #31
About radio in the Detroit area, where I grew up. the Canadian & American news sites over lapped irisblue Nov 22 #32
Chet Huntley anchored the all-day reporting on NBC. John1956PA Nov 22 #37
I was little. I mostly remember my father's being upset. LisaM Nov 22 #27
I don't remember anything nitpicked Nov 22 #28
Like many of us here I was in junior high school, and heard the news between classes standing by my locker. At first, I Walleye Nov 22 #29
I was 8. catbyte Nov 22 #30
Sitting in study hall when the announcement came over the intercom. Classes dismissed one period early ... marble falls Nov 22 #33
The whole weekend Jilly_in_VA Nov 22 #34
Some JFK Day Sentiment Music- MrWowWow Nov 22 #36
I was 11 Escape Nov 22 #38
At school lunchroom, I screamed this is a Republican lie! GreenWave Nov 22 #39
I was in class in 2nd grade 10 Turtle Day Nov 22 #40
Was Five and In First Grade RobinA Nov 22 #41
Wow, dismissed early w/o knowing why. I'm glad.. electric_blue68 Nov 23 #45
I was in elementary school. mike_c Nov 22 #42
From Bluesky & Beschloss, President & Mrs Kennedy at the Dallas airpoet irisblue Nov 22 #43
I wqas 5 and watching TV when the announcement came on ThoughtCriminal Nov 22 #44
I was in 3rd grade in Lexington, MA Nittersing Nov 23 #46
Like it was yesterday. Paladin Nov 23 #47
Home Sick ProfessorGAC Nov 23 #48

endless summer

(36 posts)
4. Sent home from school
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 08:40 PM
Nov 21

We were sent home from school early. I still have a vivid memory of the funeral and seeing Jack Ruby shoot Oswald on television. My parents cried and were inconsolable, my Dad had driven 60 miles to his home precinct to vote for JFK in 1960.

BOSSHOG

(40,280 posts)
6. Friday afternoon
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 08:42 PM
Nov 21

Sister Adrien Marie came into class, told us to lay our heads on our desk and say a prayer for the president. I was 9. I remember it like it was yesterday. Big Catholic Parish North Philly.

Deuxcents

(20,151 posts)
7. I was a junior in high school and people were crying n I had no idea why..then I heard the news
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 08:46 PM
Nov 21

I was in shock and scared and kept wondering if the world was gonna come to an end. Little did I know it was far from over. I will never forget

Arkansas Granny

(31,869 posts)
8. Incredible sadness and fear. It was my senior year in highschool.
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 08:52 PM
Nov 21

School let out early and everyone was glued to the TV for days. When John-John saluted the casket as it passed by, we all lost it. Thinking about it still makes me cry.

9. Memory
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 08:56 PM
Nov 21

I was 15. The rumor swept the hallway on the way to class. Someone behind us saw d she was glad if he got shot. The friend I was walking with whipped around and slapped her. I got to class and teacher said this is geometry, not current events and we had to work on math. Halfway through the class, the school flag was lowered to half staff. Then I knew.

I was devastated. I had worked on his campaign in 1960. I was the only one in my school with a Kennedy bumper sticker on my notebook.

I watched everything on tv. Ruby getting shot, the funeral. Everything. My patents were very distressed but didn’t say too much.

That was my first political trauma. Then came MLK and RFK. That’s when I lost all hope.

Beck2

(16 posts)
12. Look
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 09:09 PM
Nov 21

Started around 10 o'clock in the morning. Our teacher who was a Catholic made us put our head down and pray we weren't Catholic. And then he told us that our dear President had died and we need to pray for his soul. We all did then they dismissed school early and I walked home and my mom had the television on. She never had the TV on during the day.and then I watched TV for three days and my brain popped out of my head when the man that killed him was shot by Jack Ruby. I remember it like it was yesterday.

electric_blue68

(18,724 posts)
13. Ohhh...woah. So focused on the approaching democracy crisis with drumphf that *today's* date *didn't* trigger the
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 09:10 PM
Nov 21
proximity of Nov 22, 1963. Wow!

Teacher I pretty much hated called out of classroom, came back ashened faced. Shocking!
Then, she told us about the shooting.
About ?30 mins later the Principal made the final announcement via our newish PA system. Sent home.

I honestly don't remember my parents reactions. They were Democrats on the liberal side. When we visited relatives just outside of DC in '64, we visited his temporary grave w the iconic White Picket Fence & Enternal Flame. Maaaybe they held back. I was 10, my sis 6.
Watched the funeral.

The Pall esp in a place like NYC was palpitable.

I was sad, bc you don't do that kind of thing! It would be years till I got more of what his loss was.

KitFox

(77 posts)
14. I remember like it was yesterday.
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 09:12 PM
Nov 21

I was a freshman in high school in Algebra class. The principal came over the loudspeaker and broke the news. My teacher was writing on the board and he froze and dropped the chalk which shattered on the floor. They set up the tv in the cafeteria and the whole school watched until we were dismissed shortly after. Everyone was either crying or in a state of shock. When we were getting ready for church Sunday morning we had the tv on and saw Jack Ruby shoot Oswald. I remember bursting into tears watching Jackie standing next to Johnson on the plane when he was sworn in and during the funeral when they had the riderless horse and Jackie leaned down and had John John salute when the coffin passed by.

Sogo

(5,843 posts)
15. The school day kind of devolved into chaos, with everyone being sent home.
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 09:17 PM
Nov 21

I don't remember knowing why we were being sent home until on the school bus someone said that Kennedy had been shot.

When I arrived home, went right in to turn on the TV (which stayed on for days, it seemed),and then saw the events as they unfolded in real time. The things I remember that stood out are Walter Cronkite announcing that Kennedy had died, Jackie at the airport with her blood stained skirt, Oswald being led down a hall and claiming he was a "patsy," Oswald being shot by Jack Ruby.

In later days, I watched the funeral march, remember Jackie in her black coat and veil, John-John's salute when the flag-draped coffin passed by, the eternal flame being lit at Arlington....

Sad times....

hunter

(39,061 posts)
16. Heard it from my mom. It took her forever to get the first word out.
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 09:20 PM
Nov 21

I knew it wasn't some family tragedy, I'd seen that, so I, ever the pessimist, instantly jumped to the conclusion that nuclear missiles had been launched.

Beyond that JFK existed outside my autistic spectrum universe. I only hated seeing my parents upset.

I don't think we had a working television then.

Srkdqltr

(7,780 posts)
17. I was working at JLHudsons in Northland Center, just outside Detroit, Michigan.
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 09:31 PM
Nov 21

I worked near the TV department. I stood in front of the TV there to see Cronkite make the announcement. We were shocked. People shopping left . After an hour or so the store was empty. Workers had to stay until 5, but there were no customers. The store was closed until Monday. Then Sunday morning we saw Jack Ruby shoot Oswald. Altogether a shocking time.

MacKasey

(1,242 posts)
19. Being told the president had been killed,
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 09:47 PM
Nov 21

I was in the sixth grade and a classmate I was sitting close to burst into tears

It was a strange time after that.

rsdsharp

(10,290 posts)
20. I was in 9 1/2, in 4th grade. We had an hour for lunch and I had walked home, ate, and walked back to school.
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 10:19 PM
Nov 21

We didn’t have the TV on for lunch, and only turned the radio on if there were sirens, so I was unaware of what happened. I briefly watched a kickball game which was incongruously going on in Iowa in late November.

My classmate, David Grundemeir, told me the President had been shot. This was probably within 15 minutes of the shooting. It was the age of TV westerns, so i asked, “Where did he get it, the arm?” Realty was about to obliterate fantasy when it came to gunshot wounds.

The bell rang soon after, and we trooped into the classroom. Mrs. Sogard had been teaching for nearly 40 years. She was too experienced, and too empathetic, to try to return to her lesson plan. There was one TV in the school. The 6th graders used it to watch a weekly show on Iowa history. It was kept in the principal’s office, and he was using it to monitor the situation.

I don’t know, for sure, but I think when he got the news from Walter Cronkite at 1:38 PM, he informed the 6th grade classroom, walked through it to the 5th grade room, and then around the corner and down the hall to tell my class, at 1:41 PM, that the President was dead.

Most of the next few minutes are lost to my memory, but school was dismissed at about 2 PM. I walked home with Pat Barrett and Joan Nelson. I recall that there was a dusting of snow on the ground, which hadn’t been there when we came in from lunch.

The next three days were a TV marathon culminating in the funeral. My little sister was not yet three, but she says she remembers that weekend clearly.

yellowdogintexas

(22,819 posts)
22. My sister says the same thing. She was also not quite 3
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 11:06 PM
Nov 21

She mostly remembers everyone being very sad and the TV being on.

yellowdogintexas

(22,819 posts)
21. Everything. I was 15 and in 5th period Biology Class
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 11:00 PM
Nov 21

I can still hear Walter Cronkite's voice announcing the death of the president.

We were glued to the TV for the entire weekend. It was a terrible sad time.

Jeebo

(2,315 posts)
23. I was in an eighth grade study hall.
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 11:24 PM
Nov 21

Suddenly there was a scratchy, staticy sound coming from the loudspeaker on the wall, the one they used for announcements. After a moment the static resolved itself into a radio news report. Somebody in the principal's office had put a table radio next to the loudspeaker microphone. There were a few kids jumping around in the school halls, whooping it up and celebrating. I was not one of them.

They sent us home early that day. It was a Friday and for the whole weekend, there was nothing on TV except assassination and funeral coverage. LBJ being sworn in. Lee Harvey Oswald and Jack Ruby and the Texas School Book Depository building. A teary Jackie Kennedy still in her pink outfit. A 61-year-old memory of a blur of those kinds of images during those several days.

That's what I remember, y'all.

— Ron

Emile

(30,808 posts)
25. I was in Junior High School. They sent us home early. I
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 05:34 AM
Nov 22

remember walking into the house and seeing my father watching the black and white TV with tears running down his cheeks.

Mike 03

(17,379 posts)
26. Fascinated by the answers. Kicking.
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 05:45 AM
Nov 22

I hope I get this right. My father worked as a reporter at the Modesto Bee. He recalled that they had a news wire of some kind that would ring once if there was a major breaking story. He said that around midday the wire began to ring and it just kept ringing, over and over again, and that's how he found out. My parents watched TV but I can't remember if they had their own TV or watched with neighbors.

I have more questions than answers.

Did most businesses shut down for a day or two? Did they give their employees time off to watch and grieve?

Did most Americans have television by that point?

Was Cronkite the only newsman live on air that day, or did other networks cover it too?

Was the coverage 24 hours a day, live day and night?

Did anyone listen to the radio? Did they have "all news radio" in 1963? Did some people glue themselves to radio the way they glued themselves to tv?

I LOVE reading all your recollections! It is so interesting.

irisblue

(34,414 posts)
31. On NBC, newsman Bill Ryan interrupted Chet Huntley to read the newsflash a/b Kennedys' death
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 06:26 AM
Nov 22
https://www.nbcnews.com/now/video/from-the-archives-jfk-assassinated-56-years-ago-73916997670



On ABC from Google AI overview
Overview

ABC News reported on the assassination of President John F. Kennedy in 1963 in several ways, including:
Prematurely displaying a photo
ABC displayed a photo of the President with the words "JOHN F. KENNEDY – 1917–1963" on the screen, even though the report was unconfirmed.
Ron Cochran's report
Cochran, the anchor of ABC's evening news program, received an incorrect report that the President had died at 1:35 PM CST. He then received further information and announced that the President was dead.
Gardiner's report on ABC Radio
Gardiner reported the news on ABC Radio, but did not say whether it was official.




irisblue

(34,414 posts)
32. About radio in the Detroit area, where I grew up. the Canadian & American news sites over lapped
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 06:36 AM
Nov 22
https://mcrfb.com/archives/111894


I listen to the BBC history broadcasts

https://www.bbc.com/historyofthebbc/breaking-news


Kennedys' murder was global news

John1956PA

(3,437 posts)
37. Chet Huntley anchored the all-day reporting on NBC.
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 09:35 AM
Nov 22

Mr. Huntley commented on the field reports as they came in. About ten years ago, I accessed web archived videos of the NBC telecast.

Shortly after 1:30 PM EST, a radio feed was relayed to our second grade class via the public address speaker. We heard that the President had been shot while riding in a motorcade in Dallas, Texas, and that he was rushed to a hospital where was reported to be in critical condition. About a half hour later, the radio news feed stated that the president had died.

LisaM

(28,749 posts)
27. I was little. I mostly remember my father's being upset.
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 05:50 AM
Nov 22

After that he kept a photo of JFK on his desk until the day he died (I have it now, it's very aged, it was clipped out of a magazine). My dad had heard JFK speak in Ann Arbor when he announced the idea of the Peace Corps, and since my father was Irish Catholic, that added to the devastation.

After that, JFK was essentially worshipped in our house for years. We all have pictures of him still up, and my sister has a whole Kennedy section on her bookshelf. When I went to college orientation many years later in the 1970s, I took along a JFK bio for the three days.

All that is to say that it had a profound effect on our family. I don't know that our young family was ever the same; some bitterness had set in. It took me until the 1990s not to tear up on the anniversary.

nitpicked

(866 posts)
28. I don't remember anything
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 05:51 AM
Nov 22

Because the parents hid newspapers from me.

When I got taken to Runnymede almost a couple of years later, it was "tribute to a past president".

(I was overseas. The first big tv event I recall was Churchill's funeral.)

Walleye

(36,439 posts)
29. Like many of us here I was in junior high school, and heard the news between classes standing by my locker. At first, I
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 05:52 AM
Nov 22

At first, I thought it was a joke. Soon Found out it was a tragic and frightening situation. I remember the whole thing four days nonstop coverage on TV Oswald being shot. Everything burned deep in my 12 year old brain.

catbyte

(35,990 posts)
30. I was 8.
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 06:00 AM
Nov 22

I went to a one-room school from K-6th grade. I was in the library painting a table green and listening to the transistor radio when the announcement came. I told my teacher and we spent the rest of the day listening to the radio. Everybody was crying. A high school play we were supposed to attend that evening was canceled and we spent the next three days glued to the TV and I saw my first murder on live TV a couple of days later. End of innocence.

marble falls

(62,526 posts)
33. Sitting in study hall when the announcement came over the intercom. Classes dismissed one period early ...
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 07:18 AM
Nov 22

... walking home with some friends across the golf course and discussing the tortures we'd like to submit the assassin to.

Watching TV for three days. Seeing Oswald murdered on TV live - the first time I ever saw death happen. "Ruby, you son of a bitch!", first swear I ever heard on TV. It was cloudy in Akron for those three days.

Very clear memories. I remember the seat I sat in during that study hall, A seat I never sat at before in my three years at Simon Perkins Jr High.

Jilly_in_VA

(11,113 posts)
34. The whole weekend
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 08:08 AM
Nov 22

I was in the shower because I was getting ready to go spend the weekend with my friend's family on their farm. My mom came into the bathroom, yanked the shower curtain back, and said, "The President's been shot!" I couldn't believe it. I was in a state of total shock and just stood there in the shower until it started to run out of hot water. Then I got out, started to dry my hair, and went downstairs. The TV was on and my mother had maid coffee. We just sat there in silence watching Walter Cronkite and Dan Rather. Then my friend showed up and she was crying her eyes out. Mom gave her a hug and a cup of coffee and sat her down and told her she couldn't drive until she stopped crying. Finally we got underway and drove the 45 miles to her home. Her family, normally so loud and boisterous, was somber, and just like at my house, the TV was on, even during dinner. Everywhere we went, that was the case---people were quiet, talked in hushed tones, and TVs were on. When we went back to Madison, I remember going to a service at the University on Bascom Hill. It was unbelievably quiet. Later I read that there were 10,000 people there. On Monday TVs were on everywhere as everyone watched the funeral. After that, life resumed but I don't think anyone or anything was quite ever the same.

Escape

(72 posts)
38. I was 11
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 09:39 AM
Nov 22

Heard it on the intercom in our class room in my tiny Kansas hometown.
Still makes me kind of sick, all these years later..

My grandfather had died a few months prior and when I got home from school that day, my tough, strong little grandmother was curled up in a chair in front of the TV, sobbing.

10 Turtle Day

(512 posts)
40. I was in class in 2nd grade
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 12:07 PM
Nov 22

Another teacher came to our class and whispered the news to our teacher. We could tell by their faces that something was very wrong. Our teacher told us the news with tears streaming down her face, stammering to get out the words. I don’t remember if school was let out for the day but when I got home my mom was very upset and her face and eyes were red and swollen from crying. She had the TV on and we watched the news in silence.

My dad was a Marine and he worked with a couple guys who had been in the same outfit as Oswald. They told my dad that Oswald was too stupid to pull it off by himself. My dad maintained that Oswald was a patsy the rest of his life.

I often think of how much better our country would be if JFK, RFK, and MLK Jr. had lived to fulfill their legacies. Those assassinations set us back decades and changed the trajectory of our nation. Now we’re overrun by MAGAts. Makes me weep like I did in 1963.

RobinA

(10,197 posts)
41. Was Five and In First Grade
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 12:35 PM
Nov 22

Midafternoon we were told we were being dismissed to go home. No reason given. So we go through the dismissal routine and the buses are outside waiting just like usual. It was a big mystery, because back in the day we NEVER had early dismissal or days off in the middle of the school year, and it wasn't a holiday. Outside I saw the flag at half staff and asked a teacher why the flag was only half up. She told me that it meant someone important had died and to ask my parents. I immediately assumed it was my Grandparents who died, because they were important. And old (probably in their late 50's at the time). Got on the bus upset that my Grandparents died and heard from another kid that President Kennedy had died. My parents were Republicans, so I was afraid they would be glad he died. I didn't say anything when I got home because I didn't want to hear that they were glad. They weren't. They never really talked about around us (I was 5 and my sister was 3). Later that year I learned to read and I was obsessed with everything Kennedy. They could tear Life Magazine out of my cold, dead hands. Especially Caroline and John-John, who were my age and my sister's age. I couldn't imagine what it was like to have your father die at the age I was then.

electric_blue68

(18,724 posts)
45. Wow, dismissed early w/o knowing why. I'm glad..
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 05:17 AM
Nov 23

your Republican parents were not glad!

As for

"They could tear Life Magazine out of my cold, dead hands."

Oh, that's funny! But I understand completely!

mike_c

(36,392 posts)
42. I was in elementary school.
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 02:55 PM
Nov 22

I remember my teacher crying as she told us the president was dead. Then the school sent us home early. The assassination was the only thing on TV, of course.

irisblue

(34,414 posts)
43. From Bluesky & Beschloss, President & Mrs Kennedy at the Dallas airpoet
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 04:25 PM
Nov 22

You have to open the web addy to see the image. II do not yet know how to bring an image from Bluesky to here on my cheap little.phone



https://bsky.app/profile/beschlossdc1776.bsky.social/post/3lbkkxzy6ak2l

ThoughtCriminal

(14,351 posts)
44. I wqas 5 and watching TV when the announcement came on
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 07:20 PM
Nov 22

I remember going to tell my mother, but not much after that.

Nittersing

(6,921 posts)
46. I was in 3rd grade in Lexington, MA
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 09:38 AM
Nov 23

I remember being sent home early from school. I remember breaking an Allen Sherman album in half because it had (I guess) a parody song about JFK.

But my most vivid memory came years later when I saw a replay of the funeral and the sound of the horses hoofs clopping on the ground stopped me in my tracks.

Paladin

(28,977 posts)
47. Like it was yesterday.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 11:37 AM
Nov 23

I remember one of my 9th-grade friends coming up to me in the lunch room and giving me the news of what had just happened in Dallas. Like it was yesterday...

ProfessorGAC

(70,625 posts)
48. Home Sick
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 07:07 PM
Nov 23

I was in second grade.
My mom was on the phone with her best friend, and asked me to turn on channel 2 because her show was starting. (As The World Turns).
Just after I switched it, they broke in with the bulletin.
My mom, still on the phone, asks "What did they so?" I repeated what I heard and she told her friend "I have to go." hung up and ran into the TV room.
We watched it until my dad got home from work. Then we watched some more.
I remember it in detail, but I honestly can't remember if we ate that day.

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