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Are you right handed, left handed , or both, I am right handed (Original Post) debm55 Nov 3 OP
Right. LoisB Nov 3 #1
Thank you LoisB debm55 Nov 3 #2
I'm, what's the word? Ambivalent. rsdsharp Nov 3 #3
okay debm55 Nov 3 #5
Amphibious? rsdsharp Nov 3 #8
The word is ambidextrous, which basically means both right hands, which is exactly the wrong word for it unblock Nov 3 #28
Thank you unblock debm55 Nov 3 #44
No shit. I give up on attempts at humor. rsdsharp Nov 3 #47
I was amused. Would have been my response if you hadn't beaten me to it. Probatim Nov 3 #57
Thanks. Brooks Robinson was like you. He was totally left handed except throwing and batting. rsdsharp Nov 3 #60
He was quite a few years older than me but the nuns I had were all in their 200s - so maybe they taught him too... Probatim Nov 3 #61
Curious on computer mouse and gamepad sticks. DiamondShark Nov 4 #63
Mouse and game controllers are both right handed. Probatim Nov 4 #98
Always thought NotANeocon Nov 4 #107
Right handed, left footed, right eyed WheelWalker Nov 3 #4
thank you debm55 Nov 3 #6
Right handed, except for sports lapfog_1 Nov 3 #7
Thank you lapfog_1 debm55 Nov 3 #10
Same. OldBaldy1701E Nov 4 #67
It is actually quite rare for someone to be absolutely, totally, PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 3 #9
Thank you for your interesting post, PoindexterOdlethorpe Very helpful debm55 Nov 3 #12
Right handed but if..fish..had..wings Nov 3 #11
Very unique, Thank you, debm55 Nov 3 #13
Definitely left handed CanonRay Nov 3 #14
Thank you CanonRay debm55 Nov 3 #15
I am in my right mind. North Shore Chicago Nov 3 #16
okay debm55 Nov 3 #17
I'm strongly right-handed, but both my kids are lefties.... Foolacious Nov 3 #18
Thank you Foolacious. That's different debm55 Nov 3 #24
Ambi-nondextrous chowmama Nov 3 #19
I am so glad that parents and teachers, just let let it be and not force it. otherwise, Thank you and much love, debbie debm55 Nov 3 #25
Left. chouchou Nov 3 #20
Thank you chouchou debm55 Nov 3 #35
debm55 .............. Upthevibe Nov 3 #21
Upthevibe, i am sorry that happened to you.I guess at the time that was what it was, But it wasn't anything wrong with debm55 Nov 3 #34
Right Handed ProfessorGAC Nov 3 #22
Thank you ProfessorGAC debm55 Nov 3 #29
I have a dominant hand and a smart hand sanatanadharma Nov 3 #23
Thank you sanatanadharma debm55 Nov 3 #26
Left Handed, BUT BOSSHOG Nov 3 #27
Thank you BOSSHOG, I will have to try that debm55 Nov 3 #41
It can be aggravating BOSSHOG Nov 3 #46
Left foot PJMcK Nov 3 #30
Thank you PJMck debm55 Nov 3 #39
As a kid, I used my left hand more Clash City Rocker Nov 3 #31
That's good that your parents let you be debm55 Nov 3 #38
Left handed Opbrg Nov 3 #32
Thank you Opbrg, debm55 Nov 3 #37
right ZDU Nov 3 #33
Thank you ZDU debm55 Nov 3 #36
A little of both Charlie Chapulin Nov 3 #40
Thank you Charlie Chapulin, You are not a crazy mixed up kid. You are a unique person, debm55 Nov 3 #42
I recall being steered into right-handedness in grade school... buzzycrumbhunger Nov 3 #43
buzzycrumbhunger, I am so sorry that happened to you, I am glad things worked out for you. debm55 Nov 3 #45
I am generally True Dough Nov 3 #48
I'm sorry I don;t, debm55 Nov 3 #52
See this post True Dough Nov 3 #59
Right handed, BUT, I just had the second surgery on my right wrist in 11 years... Enter stage left Nov 3 #49
Sorry, Enter stage left debm55 Nov 3 #53
Like I said, don't be sorry for me. Enter stage left Nov 3 #58
Both The Blue Flower Nov 3 #50
I am sorry, But you do what you have to for you debm55 Nov 3 #54
I'm left handed.... 49jim Nov 3 #51
Wow You are unique and blessed, So sorry about you wife debm55 Nov 3 #55
Right handed naturally Clouds Passing Nov 3 #56
Thank you Clouds Passing debm55 Nov 4 #69
Mostly lefty, throw right /nt aka-chmeee Nov 3 #62
Thank you, aka-chmese debm55 Nov 4 #70
Right Emile Nov 4 #64
Thank you Emile debm55 Nov 4 #71
Born left-handed. no_hypocrisy Nov 4 #65
Sorry that happened to you, no-hypocrisy debm55 Nov 4 #72
Right 🖐️ TommieMommy Nov 4 #66
Thank you TommieMommy debm55 Nov 4 #73
R handed justaprogressive Nov 4 #68
Thank you justaprogressive debm55 Nov 4 #74
mostly right. mom wanted me to be left, so , will say ambi here . AllaN01Bear Nov 4 #75
Thank you AllaN01Bear debm55 Nov 4 #76
Reminds of an old saying Sanity Claws Nov 4 #77
Hahah. Thank you Sanity Claws debm55 Nov 4 #79
I'm naturally right-handed, but I learned to write with my left after I broke my left wrist catbyte Nov 4 #78
Thank you very much, catbyte debm55 Nov 4 #80
Im right handed. Husband and both kids are left handed. Srkdqltr Nov 4 #81
I'm ambisinistrous. Ocelot II Nov 4 #82
Thank you Ocelot II debm55 Nov 4 #87
Technically, I am ambidextrous (the medical term for both) Rocknation Nov 4 #83
Thank you very much, Rocknation debm55 Nov 4 #88
Just plain handy. marble falls Nov 4 #84
Thank you marble falls debm55 Nov 4 #89
Right handed OLDMDDEM Nov 4 #85
Thank you OLDMDDEM debm55 Nov 4 #90
Rightie Gaytano70 Nov 4 #86
Thank you Gaytano70 debm55 Nov 4 #91
Everyone is born right handed, coprolite Nov 4 #92
Hahaha Thank you coprolite debm55 Nov 4 #93
Both...nt. NEOH Nov 4 #94
Thank you NEOH debm55 Nov 4 #95
You're so welcome debm55!! NEOH Nov 5 #110
Right-handed, area51 Nov 4 #96
Thank you area51 debm55 Nov 4 #97
I am right-handed. nt City Lights Nov 4 #99
Thank you City Lights debm55 Nov 4 #100
A fun exercise! Aussie105 Nov 4 #101
Thank you Aussie105 Will give it a try debm55 Nov 4 #103
Right-handed for writing, throwing, doing cartwheels Farmgirl1961 Nov 4 #102
That's great Farmgirl1961. Congratulations. debm55 Nov 4 #105
Left handed, only one in my immediate family hauckeye Nov 4 #104
Thank you haucheye. That is different. debm55 Nov 4 #106
Right handed, left footed! Elessar Zappa Nov 4 #108
Thank you Elesar Zappa. debm55 Nov 5 #112
I'm a proud Lefty! Mad_Dem_X Nov 4 #109
Thank you Mad_Dem_X debm55 Nov 5 #111

unblock

(54,242 posts)
28. The word is ambidextrous, which basically means both right hands, which is exactly the wrong word for it
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:25 PM
Nov 3

Probatim

(3,040 posts)
57. I was amused. Would have been my response if you hadn't beaten me to it.
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:47 PM
Nov 3

I'm a Catholic school lefty - the nuns in grades 2-6 tried to beat it out of me.

To this day, fine motor skills (e.g., eating, writing, brushing my gum holes, etc.) are done left-handed. Gross motor skills (e.g., throwing, batting, swinging a golf club, etc.) are done right-handed.

What's even weirder, is that I shoot a rifle left-handed but I shoot a bow right-handed. It's like my dominant eye switches for the bow.

On Edit - my grandmother could put a pen in each hand and write the same sentence with both hands at the same time. Only one of the hands was doing a mirror image of the other. So basically, she'd right the same word forward and backward at the same time.

rsdsharp

(10,287 posts)
60. Thanks. Brooks Robinson was like you. He was totally left handed except throwing and batting.
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:54 PM
Nov 3

I can shoot a hand gun right handed because I can move it to use my dominant left eye. That doesn’t work with a rifle. Oddly, I never had a problem shooting a bow right handed.

Probatim

(3,040 posts)
61. He was quite a few years older than me but the nuns I had were all in their 200s - so maybe they taught him too...
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:02 PM
Nov 3

I've tried off and on to shoot a bow with my left hand and it's even more difficult than trying to throw with my left hand. None of the muscles know what to do. It's quite comical.

DiamondShark

(1,115 posts)
63. Curious on computer mouse and gamepad sticks.
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 03:55 AM
Nov 4

I can use a mouse left or right handed, most times it's right handed. But gamepad analog sticks I can't control at all with my right hand.

Probatim

(3,040 posts)
98. Mouse and game controllers are both right handed.
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 11:19 AM
Nov 4

You'd think that would fall into the "fine motor skills" cohort, but nope.

lapfog_1

(30,232 posts)
7. Right handed, except for sports
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 03:35 PM
Nov 3

my dad was left handed... so baseball, tennis, golf ( especially golf ), I learned and played left handed.

I'm afraid I was never very good at sports ( except for track ).

OldBaldy1701E

(6,616 posts)
67. Same.
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 07:48 AM
Nov 4

I batted with either hand. I could play tennis with either hand. In any other way, I am very right handed.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(26,842 posts)
9. It is actually quite rare for someone to be absolutely, totally,
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 03:38 PM
Nov 3

100% either right or left handed. Most of us do at least some things with the other hand.

Here's something intriguing about handedness: Everyone has noticed that some lefties write "normally", and others hook when they write. It turns out that the hooking or not hooking has to do with which side of the brain is running which side of the body, and no, it's not always the left brain running the right side or the opposite. Those who hook (if I'm recalling this correctly) have the left side of the brain running the left side of the body.

It's also the case, although extremely rare, that a rightie will have the right side of the brain running the right side of the body, and that person will hook when they write. After I read that book I took a closer look at my son (otherwise known here as My Son The Astronomer) is a strong rightie who hooks when he writes.

11. Right handed but
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 03:40 PM
Nov 3

when I was a teen I spent an entire summer using only my left hand (preparing for old age when I might lose my ability to use my right hand) and so there are many things I can do quite easily with my left hand even though I am not ambidextrous.
To this day I eat with my left hand. I can play ping-pong either way. And so on...

Additionally, I can do lots of things with only one hand, very useful.

CanonRay

(14,928 posts)
14. Definitely left handed
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 03:49 PM
Nov 3

But I can do many things righty, such as mouse. I used to switch hit in baseball too.

Foolacious

(517 posts)
18. I'm strongly right-handed, but both my kids are lefties....
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 04:28 PM
Nov 3

while their mother is strongly right-handed.

chowmama

(538 posts)
19. Ambi-nondextrous
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 05:08 PM
Nov 3

I'm what happens when a left-handed person is forced to be right-handed as a child. Even had the 'we'll tie your left hand behind your back if we have to' threat, although they never did.

What can I say, it was the fifties. Left-handed was seen as a disability and nobody, including my parents, my teachers, and every other authority, was going to let a kid grow up disabled if it could be avoided. My handwriting is illegible unless I print, and even then it's problematic.

Now I sometimes do things LH on purpose, just because I can. Only writing, knitting and things with machines that are designed to be only for right-handers are exempt. And using both hands can really be convenient in a rushed lab.

debm55

(38,425 posts)
25. I am so glad that parents and teachers, just let let it be and not force it. otherwise, Thank you and much love, debbie
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:21 PM
Nov 3

Upthevibe

(9,249 posts)
21. debm55 ..............
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 05:39 PM
Nov 3

I'm another one of those folks whose parents wanted her to write with her right hand even though I'm probably a lefty. My parents even had me go to school early while in elementary school and a teacher came in early to help me with my penmanship. To this day my handwriting is AWFUL! I truly think my parents thought things would be easier for me if I was right-handed so no hard feelings....

Now, I eat with my left hand and do some other things as well (I can't control my mouse with my right hand). Occasionally I'll write with my left hand.

debm55

(38,425 posts)
34. Upthevibe, i am sorry that happened to you.I guess at the time that was what it was, But it wasn't anything wrong with
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:30 PM
Nov 3

you, Love Debm

ProfessorGAC

(70,599 posts)
22. Right Handed
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 06:11 PM
Nov 3

But because of piano & guitar, I'm reasonably deft with my left hand.
I still doubt I could write well with my left hand & it would be really awkward to throw left handed except for a short underhand toss.
I could dribble well with either hand when I played basketball, though.

sanatanadharma

(4,074 posts)
23. I have a dominant hand and a smart hand
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 06:13 PM
Nov 3

I have a dominant hand and a smart hand. The dominant hand is never right and the smart hand doesn't reach out to grab hot handles or punch people.

BOSSHOG

(40,274 posts)
27. Left Handed, BUT
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:24 PM
Nov 3

I do crossword puzzles with my right hand. Medical folks say it is a good way to exercise part of the brain which is seldom used. Good for old folks.

BOSSHOG

(40,274 posts)
46. It can be aggravating
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:51 PM
Nov 3

And borderline illegible. I’ve been doing it for several months. My writing is getting better. And it does take concentration, I guess that’s a good thing.

PJMcK

(23,008 posts)
30. Left foot
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:26 PM
Nov 3

Can’t dance.

Used to be right-handed but with computers, what difference does it make?

(wink)

Clash City Rocker

(3,543 posts)
31. As a kid, I used my left hand more
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:26 PM
Nov 3

That was the sixties, when parents actually worried about that sort of thing. But my parents left me alone, and I gradually switched to my right hand. I still do a lot with my left hand, though.

Opbrg

(97 posts)
32. Left handed
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:27 PM
Nov 3

Both my parents were left handed and only 2 of us out of 5 kids ended up left handed.

Charlie Chapulin

(323 posts)
40. A little of both
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:41 PM
Nov 3

I shoot a long gun and draw a bow lefty. I shoot a pistol and write righty. I swung a bat and threw righty (shoulders are trashed now). I rode a skateboard and a snowboard goofy - another lefty thing. And I could throw darts with either hand.
Just a crazy, mixed up kid.

buzzycrumbhunger

(910 posts)
43. I recall being steered into right-handedness in grade school...
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 07:46 PM
Nov 3

My brothers and son are all lefties and I guess I didn’t fight it because everything they wrote was smeared, which would have made calligraphy really difficult for me, but there are things that are just too awkward and I have to do them left-handed, like work a keypad, dial a phone, and I used to study by taking notes with my right hand and highlighting my textbooks with my left, which was pretty handy.

True Dough

(20,839 posts)
48. I am generally
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:00 PM
Nov 3

left-hand dominant, but everyone who knows me calls me underhanded. Any idea why that would be, deb?

Enter stage left

(3,850 posts)
49. Right handed, BUT, I just had the second surgery on my right wrist in 11 years...
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:07 PM
Nov 3

So I'm rapidly learning to be left handed.

I have zero motion in my right wrist, it is solid from my elbow to my fingers.

My fault, decades of abuse doing the things I loved. I wouldn't change what I did, I enjoyed it too much.

Tennis, karate, volleyball and racquetball. You have to use the wrist for all of them.

Enter stage left

(3,850 posts)
58. Like I said, don't be sorry for me.
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:50 PM
Nov 3

If I could do it again, I would. I'm 79 now and enjoyed it those sports for about 70+ years.

I'll take that over not doing them in any life I can live.

The Blue Flower

(5,645 posts)
50. Both
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:24 PM
Nov 3

I write with my left hand; play guitar and sports with my right. I paint in oils and can use either hand when my arm gets tired. In high school, I tried doing my homework with my right hand for a week. By the end of the week, I was stammering, which made sense when I learned that the part of the brain controlling handwriting is the language center. The stammering stopped when I went back to writing lefthanded. My writing was pretty poor using my right hand.

49jim

(573 posts)
51. I'm left handed....
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:30 PM
Nov 3

My late wife was left handed, our oldest son is left handed and two of four grandchildren are left handed.

no_hypocrisy

(49,194 posts)
65. Born left-handed.
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 04:55 AM
Nov 4

Kindergarten. My teacher freaked because I used BOTH hands to write my name on the chalkboard.

With her Psychology 101 textbook on her lap, she convinced my mother I had to be converted to use my right hand.

I found writing and using scissors to be unwieldy with the hand attached to the red ribbon on my wrist.

I got used to it incrementally.

About 25 years ago, my mother confessed to the conspiracy. Of course, I was dismayed and angry. But not helpless. I chose to "take back" my left hand.

Well, not entirely. I'm now ambidextrous. I open doors with my left hand. I go up and down stairs using the left railing. I eat with my left hand. And yeah, I still write with my right hand, BUT, I *can* write with my left hand (backwards like DaVinci and forward).

catbyte

(35,985 posts)
78. I'm naturally right-handed, but I learned to write with my left after I broke my left wrist
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 09:35 AM
Nov 4

in an unfortunate ice skating mishap when I was 8. The doctor said it would help with the strength in my left hand. I can still do it, but I almost always use my right hand. Except I'm a better bowler if I use my left hand and I play guitar like I'm left-handed. Go figure, lol.

Srkdqltr

(7,775 posts)
81. Im right handed. Husband and both kids are left handed.
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 09:51 AM
Nov 4

As with a lot of left handers they can use their right for a lot of things.

Rocknation

(44,885 posts)
83. Technically, I am ambidextrous (the medical term for both)
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 09:54 AM
Nov 4

But I consider myself to be "naturally" left-handed because that is the hand with which I perform my most vital activities: eating, drinking, writing. Everything else I do right-handedly, including throwing and playing guitar.


Rocknation

area51

(12,187 posts)
96. Right-handed,
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 11:11 AM
Nov 4

but my optometrist noted that my left eye is dominant, and believes I was originally left-handed.

Aussie105

(6,467 posts)
101. A fun exercise!
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 04:53 PM
Nov 4

Grab a pen in each hand.

Write something with your dominant hand, do it slowly while looking at what that hand is writing.
Tell your brain that the non-dominant hand should copy and follow every movement.

Practice that a lot.

It does funny things to the inside of your head (non technical explanation)

I call it . . . transferring fine movement motor skills from one hemisphere of the brain to the other.

I'm left handed, but slowly learning to be a right hand writer. (For no particular need)


Farmgirl1961

(1,643 posts)
102. Right-handed for writing, throwing, doing cartwheels
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 04:58 PM
Nov 4

Left-handed for using scissors and cutting my nails. When I was younger, for some reason I fantasized about being ambidextrous and spent time practicing writing with my left-hand. So, I can manage writing, throwing and evening doing cartwheels with my left side, but it's definitely my weaker side.

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