I came to Korea 10 years ago to teach and it was suppose to be for a year. One year rolled into two, then I met my wife and married a Korean. She is much closer to her family than I am so I've been sympathetic toward staying here.

I had stuff in storage in the US for several years and finally just chucked all of it (kept a few things). It's an interesting way to purge your life. That stuff is sitting at my mom's and I'll have to box it up nice and ship it over the next time I'm there.

I have mostly taught at the university level (the first couple of years I taught kids). Right now I'm finishing my doctorate and will start teaching again next month.

Health care here is universal and we pay a percentage of our income. If we are unemployed then we can pay for an individual policy. I agree it is nice living in a place where you don't have to worry about whether you can go to the doctor.

That most of us are long term expats due to similar situations, usually family reasons.

It's certainly been hard to read all the "overseas tax cheats" type of articles lately especially coming from what I consider to be MY side of the aisle! Shocking really since I had not realized the depth some of these myths hold back home for the majority.

This article using data from Canada's census is interesting.
http://globalnews.ca/news/1109404/the-stereotype-of-the-wealthy-u-s-expatriate/

I do have to laugh. I wish I were one of these lucky ones on an island sipping champagne to justify some of the labels put upon us. Facts though are funny things and when you look at it, it really just doesn't make logical sense that most expats are rich anymore than saying the majority of people living in the U.S. are "rich"

However, that is all relative isn't it? Because I've done volunteer work in rural Jamaican schools and yes, to them who believe the gift of a pencil is like winning the lottery, I am "rich"

Being an expat has given me such a different world view it's sometimes hard to discuss issues with those who have always lived in the U.S. For instance the 1 percent. If you go to a third world nation then we must own up that WE are the 1 percent. That we have benefited from their misery through the actions of our governments, the world bank and the IMF and continue to do so. What do we give back? Not much. I find it very hard to feel sorry for myself but, at the same time am appalled by the destruction of the middle class and poor in North America. Many people around the world though have lived this type of destruction and have never known anything else.

I am of modest income and do not have the same standard of living I would have had if I had stayed living in the U.S. Taxes on lower income people are much higher here. In return for giving more into the social democracy pot I get great schools, social programs and health care. I'm happy with that. In fact I'm overwhelmed at my good fortune in life though some would consider my family rather poor materially.

Lately, I'm concerned about the more and more protectionist attitudes in the U.S. and how myopic Americans seem. A lot of fear has replaced critical thinking and honest discussion. One thing that bothers me about FATCA is that it's going to discourage even more those Americans who might chance living abroad and in doing so will lead to even less understanding of other nations and the world outside their borders as a whole. This is not a good thing.

I thought to open a discussion about who expats are, what leads them abroad, what value do they bring to the U.S? Other nations see their expats in a very, very different way to the way the U.S. sees us.

Even from those who have only traveled abroad briefly. I have seen some very close mindedness here in DU toward expats portraying us as something we are not. All of us have different reasons for living abroad. Frankly if you'd asked me a year or two before I came over that I would live abroad for the rest of my life I would have looked at you like you were nuts. Things have a way of changing and while this adventure has never been perfect, it sure has been interesting.

We were just able to afford to buy a small apartment (very small) three years ago as I had saved up a lot in the few years before and worked my butt off.

I've been to a few poorer nations (in terms of GDP per capita) including China, the Philippines, and Thailand. I'm not sure anything can prepare you for what you see. In China the students at the university I taught at were 4 to a room and there were communal bathrooms and showers. I never went in the dorms, but the students did describe them to me. Where I lived in during college was a castle compared to that (even with the roaches).

I agree with you on the protectionist attitude and am going to leave it at that. People have a funny way of doing drive bye insults on DU and I am not going to give them the ammunition.

The expats on here don't really frequent this forum so it's difficult to get discussions going. I know there are quite a few of us (Suji being the one I usually see on a regular basis). Usually I use either Dave's ESL Cafe (which is a cesspool) or AFEK for communication. ESL cafe has forums specifically for Korea and AFEK is for long-term residents of Korea (most, but not all married). It would be nice to talk to expats in other countries as well.

I'm wondering why you consider it a "cesspool"..You may be right, I've never

actually applied to a job advertised there, but I just wondered why you view

it so negatively.

I'm referring to the Korean Discussion forum. So much of it is trolling and negativity I don't bother visiting much anymore. I log on enough to be able to keep my user account from being deactivated and may occasionally answer someone's question since I've been here a long time.

Thanks for clearing that up.

Loved it. Learned something new every day. Taught ESL and had former students all over the place. Twas wonderful. Had to come back for my parents and by the time I was free again, I ended up staying. The expat life is wonderful for learning and growing. You meet new people, have new relationships, enjoy new experiences. Good to have a broader world view. Hugs to all of you. Enjoy. Not easy to come back!

I wake up some days and realize that I am in a wholly different place than what I have known - different smells, sounds, customs, rituals. I feel that I am being educated daily.

It's wonderful.

Hope you get to do it again.

my wife and I left St. Petersburg, FL in 2001 and cruised the western Caribbean. We sort of made it back to the USA - a couple of years in the US Virgin Islands a while back and a few months on the south coast of Puerto Rico. But we just could not face returning to "the real world" as we sometimes know it, or "the land of plenty" or even the "land of NO" if we feel snarky. It is nice to go visit once in a while, but it is too expensive to actually live there - we retired at age 40, and in the USA we would be broke but by choosing our lifestyle from a broader palette we can live quite fine. Learning new cultures and languages keeps the brain young!

I'm back in the US for some specific things, but leaving again in a week.

Living on the boat in Mexico has proved to be ridiculously cheap and much more wonderful than we had imagined.

And I agree about learning new cultures and languages. It's the best youth serum in the world.

Thanks for the feedback!

I'm considering becoming an expat too, at least for a time, and doing it by the same means as you, by teaching ESL,

For what it's worth I DO have "right of return" in one European country, although it's not automatic, based on my maternal grandparents.

I was in Thailand for five years and still have friends and a Thai family. Went to Korea for one contract, and then went running back to Thailand but in a different city. Tis a great experience. I recommend it!!

I have no particular desire to go to Asia, but I'm sure there are many

beautiful places there. My husband lived in Malaysia for two years in

the Peace Corp back in the 70's and enjoyed it very much.

It has jobs posted and has lots of teaching helps and ideas. If you browse thru the posted jobs, you will get an idea of places with jobs available that might be interesting for you.

http://www.eslcafe.com/joblist/

Have fun!!

After Mom And Dad immigrated from England to St Pete Fla when i was 10 it quickly became evident i didnt tolerate heat and humidity very well, became an American citizen in my mid 20's and thought i was doomed to a life of sweating in Fla. then an uncle i had living in Canada offered me a good job, i ended up immigrating to Canada and spent the next 30 years on that job, i'm now happily retired,and think Florida is a great place to visit friends and family for a few weeks mid winter.

but I have to tell you, the way you were treated was pretty shitty,

especially considering how many Canadians come here to live

and work.

My right leg was so badly broken, the doctor considered amputating it. He didn't. While I was laid up unable to do much more than think, I asked myself what I would have done if I'd lost the leg. Then I realized that something like that can happen anytime, so I'd better get cracking on my bucket list. Only I hadn't made one. Here's roughly what I put on it:
1. Travel around the world.
2. Live in Asia in order to absorb an exotic language and culture.
3. Learn a martial art from a native master (the "Hapkido" I was being taught in the US was taught by a Taekwondoist. He didn't really know anything about Hapkido.)
4. Get out of debt.

And then one day an ad appeared in the Sunday classifieds. "Teach English in Korea. No experience required." Well, I had passed the National Teacher's Exam and the TESL specialty area, though I wasn't teaching English as a second or foreign language at the time.

Hapkido is a Korean martial art. Korean language and culture seemed about as exotic as I could imagine. So less than a year later, I was on a plane over the Pacific, wondering if I was screwing up. Nope. That was in 1996, and I'm still here.

I didn't make it to Korea until 2004.

I'm guessing you're comfortable enough over here, then?

Finishing my doctorate and looking for a tenure position so I don't have to worry about the year to year contract bullshit. At least to start with the contracts are 2 years. Once I do that I should have a more stable job.

I'm looking to start work on a Ph.D next year for much the same reason. Although the powers that be in our dept. have repeatedly assured me that I could stay here until I retire, I'd still like to shoot for tenure, as well as simply continue to better myself.

I joined my outfit at age 23, and was taken on because I knew several European languages. I brashly asked for extra vacation time from day one so I could visit my German (then-)girlfriend (now wife). I was told, I could spend extra time here, but under the proviso I did work while I was here. Fair enough.

A few years ago, the constant commuting got to be too much, and my (now-)wife retired, so I moved here permanently. I'm still pretty much in a different country every day anyhow.

But when someone like this tells me "I'm not moving to America, come stay with me on the banks of the Rhein River," the first answer that came to mind was NOT "let me think about it:"

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