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— TizzyWoman (@tizzywoman.bsky.social) 2026-06-18T11:33:36.421Z
Lesson of the day: How to be a good neighbor.
NoMoreRepugs
(12,291 posts)dem4decades
(14,602 posts)ZDU
(1,558 posts)❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
YodaMom2
(238 posts)My spouse and I are progressive and live in a centrist-leaning city in CA. We have a little library in front of our house, and we make a point of keeping explicitly political and/or religious material out of it. If a neighbor puts anything in there that might be construed as political/religious, we remove it immediately, even if we agree with beliefs being expressed. We want our library to be for the whole community, not just those who are on our side.
Dont get me wrong - I truly hate what the MAGA mindset is doing to our country. But if were ever going to recover a sense of broader community, we need to preserve some neutral spaces where we can find common ground.
littlemissmartypants
(35,332 posts)1. Aggressive, callous, and cunning
2. Completely void of conscience and empathy
3. Adept at manipulating others
4. Willing to engage in immoral, criminal conduct
5. Willing to take what they want and do as they please, regardless of who is hurt or wronged
6. Deceptive ability to appear outwardly benevolent
7. Deceptive ability to behave in superficially charming ways to hide purely selfish motives
8. Willing to use force, intimidation, and violence to control others in order to satisfy their own needs
9. Willing to intentionally violate the basic inherent human rights of others
10. Completely lacking any sense of guilt or remorse for the harm their actions cause
11. Rationalize their own immoral behavior
12. Attempt to lay blame upon someone else for their own bad conduct
13. Will deny their own wrongdoing outright
14. Display utter contemptuousness toward the feelings and desires of others
15. Exhibit pathological lying, will compulsively say anything without any concern for the truth to advance their own agendas
16. Able to fake normal human emotions and empathy with the exception of joy, laughter
17. Have a distorted sense of the consequences of their actions
18. Totally fail to accept any responsibility for their own socially irresponsible ways
19. Strongly believe that they will never be brought to justice for their criminal behavior
I truly hope that find what you're looking for. ❤️
YodaMom2
(238 posts)I feel its still worth the effort to try and find some common ground with the remaining sane-but-mislead folks.
But if youre a full on racist, misogynistic, xenophobic, homophobic MAGA True Believer, well
sorry, but theres no common ground to find.
littlemissmartypants
(35,332 posts)It's amazing that psychopaths didn't make the cut in your list of undesirables.
We can't pick and choose another person's path to enlightenment.
We can, however, educate ourselves on who and what to expose ourselves and our children to if we hope to prevent evil influences from invading their peace.
ShazzieB
(23,050 posts)It's great that you're running your little library that way, but from what the video said, she was just adding things to make the neighbor's library better reflect her community's already liberal values. That seems pretty reasonable to me.
YodaMom2
(238 posts)But nowhere in the video does she suggest that the library held any books that ran counter to the prevailing values of the community. Only that the home owner flew a tRump flag. So, by adding items that reflect her beliefs is she not encouraging the home owner to do the same?
ShazzieB
(23,050 posts)I thought it was implied, but you're right that she did not actually say that.
I still think what she did was okay, if all she did was add liberal leaning titles. If she was deliberately removing and replacing conservative materials, that would be more questionable, imo. But all she talked about was adding books.
YodaMom2
(238 posts)She could have ensured there was a library that reflected her communitys values without having to hijack someone elses. And it looks like she put inserts into ALL the books in his library, even those she hadnt personally added.
I dont know, this just felt unnecessary and performative to me. And counter to the whole point of Little Libraries. Thats all Im saying. At the same time though, I DO understand the impulse - I get the why.
yardwork
(69,870 posts)My confusion might hinge on your definition of "explicitly political or religious" material.
If somebody donates a book about comparative religion, will you remove it? Why? Isn't education the key to understanding?
What about Michelle Obama's autobiography? Removed for being political? Your neighbors will miss out on learning the facts about this remarkable woman's life.
Raftergirl
(1,892 posts)Progressive.
YodaMom2
(238 posts)Just as the home owner in this story flies his flag, we express our values and identity proudly. The Little Library is its own thing.
BeneteauBum
(911 posts)Hope the neighbor comes to its senses.
Peace ☮️