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aggiesal

(10,940 posts)
Wed May 27, 2026, 06:47 PM Wednesday

A rant about online shopping ...

I know everyone shops online, including myself.
But I will preface this with, I shop when I've already touched & inspected the actual product.

This week, I had to fix my bed, which is a Cal-King bed. The mattress is extremely heavy and bends.
So when I took it apart, I decided I have to change the bed skirt.
If you don't know what a bed skirt is, here is an example.


Now that the mattress is off the bed frame, I might as well change the ripped up, ratty bed skirt with a newer version.

So, I started first at a bed store, which shockingly, they don't sell them.
Next stop Target. Online they have a large selection but the store doesn't sell them.
On to Kohl's, again no bed skirts.
From Kohl's I went to Home Goods, still no bed skirts
Ross was in the same plaza so I walled to Ross. They had bed skirts, but only in Queen & Full sizes. I did find a Cal King Mattress cover, which was needed so I purchased it.
I then went to Walmart. Now, I never shopped at Walmart, but I gave it a try. This place was a Super Walmart. It had everything, literally, except a Cal-King Bed Skirt.

Why am I mentioning this?
This was just a bed skirt. Not an emergency item at all.
But there will be a day where something will be an emergency and no local store is stocking it.
I've already seen this happen, when my daughter was in dance. A girl tore her dance tights a couple of hours before their recital, and couldn't find a local store that sold them.

When you need something, let's hope it's not some life threatening emergency item needed, because it's only sold online.
Thank you for letting me rant.

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A rant about online shopping ... (Original Post) aggiesal Wednesday OP
I agree with you Raven123 Wednesday #1
Well... druidity33 Wednesday #2
Here is what I actually found. ... aggiesal Wednesday #4
I remember the Sears catalogue mountain grammy Yesterday #17
Wouldn't that be Passover dresses? n/t aggiesal Yesterday #19
Of course, but in the Sears catalogue mountain grammy Yesterday #20
Bed skirts are out of style now. Irish_Dem Wednesday #3
Right Sanity Claws Wednesday #9
Yes everyone has gone to the platform look. Irish_Dem Thursday #13
Couldn't agree more canetoad Wednesday #5
It might be worth a bespoke approach delisen Wednesday #6
I can't compete with ready-made and make anything close to a reasonable hourly rate. Ms. Toad Wednesday #11
Ah, this is sad. delisen Yesterday #14
Wouldn't that cost a fortune? LeftInTX Yesterday #15
I do a lot of online shopping because that's where the good stuff is. Can't find jack shit local to me. RedWhiteBlueIsRacist Wednesday #7
I find it easier to "shop" online before heading to the store. flvegan Wednesday #8
I did exactly that before I went to Target ... aggiesal Wednesday #12
Target's website is super annoying!!! LeftInTX Yesterday #16
An AI search for an item BidenRocks Wednesday #10
I stopped using one because its such a PIA to take off the mattress and box spring and fit it under there. milestogo Yesterday #18

Raven123

(7,929 posts)
1. I agree with you
Wed May 27, 2026, 06:53 PM
Wednesday

Many of my online purchases are made simply because I cannot find the items in local stores. Very frustrating.

druidity33

(6,939 posts)
2. Well...
Wed May 27, 2026, 07:22 PM
Wednesday

it sounds like you were able to find bed skirts at a couple of stores. What was the color selection like? You know of course that a California King size bed is pretty freaking rare. It's not uncommon for retail establishments to abjure "never sell" items. Did you ask at Customer Service to see about ordering your item? That's what we did in the olden days. Even places like Sears never had everything in stock.



aggiesal

(10,940 posts)
4. Here is what I actually found. ...
Wed May 27, 2026, 08:08 PM
Wednesday

I was looking for a light brown bed skirt to complement the bed frame.
Ross bed skirts were all gray, regardless of size, & they had about 6.
Walmart actually had bed skirts as well in Black, White & Gray, but none in Cal-King, each color had about 4-6 units.
Cal-King actually are not rare. The salesperson at Kohl's told me that whenever Cal-King anything arrives, they are gone in a day.
I did go to the Customer Service at Target & Kohl's but nothing overnight. Everything 3-5 days delivery.
I didn't want to keep the bed unmade for. 3-5 days, so I put the ripped, ratty bed skirt back on, probably for about another 6 months when I flip the mattress.

We used to have a Sears Catalog Store only, when I was in college, until an actual store moved into town.

mountain grammy

(29,260 posts)
17. I remember the Sears catalogue
Fri May 29, 2026, 10:17 AM
Yesterday

a real " wish book" but It was so much fun! My mom always bought us Easter dresses that, as Jews, we didn't celebrate but it was the only new dresses we got every year..we wore hand me downs from friends and relatives.

Never saw a Sears store until many years later.

Irish_Dem

(82,617 posts)
13. Yes everyone has gone to the platform look.
Thu May 28, 2026, 06:42 AM
Thursday

It is a clean modern look.

I stopped using bedskirts some time ago.

canetoad

(21,084 posts)
5. Couldn't agree more
Wed May 27, 2026, 08:37 PM
Wednesday

Our largest hardware chain in Oz is removing items that, shall we say, don't march out the door.

Instead the ever-obliging staff whip out their phones and announce that it can still be bought online. I want it NOW! Their competitor is only a kilometre away and I'd rather drive there.

delisen

(7,440 posts)
6. It might be worth a bespoke approach
Wed May 27, 2026, 08:41 PM
Wednesday

Buy the material you want and take that and the old bed skirt to a seamstress.

I have had cushions and clothing made and been surprised to get affordable estimates in my town.

Ms. Toad

(38,857 posts)
11. I can't compete with ready-made and make anything close to a reasonable hourly rate.
Wed May 27, 2026, 09:56 PM
Wednesday

It used to be different, but the cost of patterns and the cost of fabric, alone, puts custom made stuff out of the range of most people. I haven't done any custom sewing for hire for years.

LeftInTX

(34,872 posts)
15. Wouldn't that cost a fortune?
Fri May 29, 2026, 09:59 AM
Yesterday

You can buy a Cal-King bed skirt online for about $20.

RedWhiteBlueIsRacist

(2,318 posts)
7. I do a lot of online shopping because that's where the good stuff is. Can't find jack shit local to me.
Wed May 27, 2026, 08:54 PM
Wednesday

It's like I live in Mayberry or Hooterville, lol.

flvegan

(66,576 posts)
8. I find it easier to "shop" online before heading to the store.
Wed May 27, 2026, 09:06 PM
Wednesday

Example: Target. Item: Bed skirt.

I can see each item, price available sizes, more if I click on the link. I can see if it's available at "my store" which I've preselected, or at another nearby store. It tells me not only if they have it in store, but how many they have and in which aisle it can be found.

Running to 6 stores, that's a lot of time and gas I don't want to spend if I don't have to.

aggiesal

(10,940 posts)
12. I did exactly that before I went to Target ...
Wed May 27, 2026, 10:16 PM
Wednesday

I showed the Salesperson & the Customer Service person the online bed skirts,
and none of them said they were online only.
Both were surprised.

Kohl's is across the street from Target.
Home Goods & Ross was about 1 mile away from Target.
And I back tracked to Walmart across the street from Home Goods, before heading home.

LeftInTX

(34,872 posts)
16. Target's website is super annoying!!!
Fri May 29, 2026, 10:06 AM
Yesterday

They don't indicate whether it is in-store or not. It also loads very slow and is buggy.

Wal-Mart's site is better, but they don't carry many items in-store anymore. At least they have an aisle number if they have it in-stock. But they love to advertise clothes that you need to order and that's even from their in-house brand "Time and True". One time they stated that they didn't have these pair of shorts in any local store in my size. So, I ordered them. They arrived the same day, at my door in a freak'n shopping bag. Obviously they had them in a store...they weren't shipped...they were basically door-dashed...And I paid $7 for shipping. (I bet they had them in the returns at a one of the four Wal-Marts that are close to my house)

Another time, I ordered some real cheap dresses from Wal-Mart. They were from one of their "partners". The dresses were literally shipped from China...literally. One took a month to get to my house. Shipping was not cheap for these $10 dresses. When I got them, they didn't fit. Returning them was a nightmare. Wal-Mart didn't want to refund shipping, which was about as much as the dresses itself.

I did have good luck buying swimsuits from their partners. The two piece tankini* swim suits with "boy shorts" (to cover up down there) were only $8 each, so I ordered three sizes of them, (S-M-L) knowing I would need to make alterations. That worked out, but alterating tankini swim tops, so stuff doesn't hang out, isn't the same as altering a dress.

I figured for $24, I would get a swimsuit of out my purchase and I did.

Later on, I spyed some $10 exercise skorts at Wal-mart (in the store) that will also work as swimsuit bottoms. They cover up more than the boy shorts. So, I bought them. So now, my "custom" swim suit costs $34, but that isn't bad.

Note: * A tankini is tank top type swim suit.

Yeah, shopping just isn't fun anymore.

If I need tincture of benzoin, I need to order it. Walgreens no longer carries it in their stores. 10 years ago, all of the pharmacies carried it. Maybe a local compounding pharmacy still carries it. (But who wants to chase down compounding pharmacies?) It's a "sticky" product that I can't live without. It makes band aids stick. (We used it in the hospital) If you ever need to put a band-aid on your finger or toes, tincture of benzoin is a life saver! You put it under those hydrocolloid dressings and you never have to change them.

milestogo

(23,228 posts)
18. I stopped using one because its such a PIA to take off the mattress and box spring and fit it under there.
Fri May 29, 2026, 10:38 AM
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