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MIButterfly

(3,198 posts)
Thu May 21, 2026, 11:42 AM May 21

I certainly didn't think my retirement years would be like this

Every single day, something happens that's more ludicrous, ridiculous, outrageous, unbelievable and stupid than the day before. To paraphrase Jeff Tiedrich, every morning it's "what the fuck am I waking up to now?" When will it end? Who's going to stop it? How is it all going to be fixed in four years or eight years if/when I pray to God we get a Democratic president? It all seems so bewildering and hopeless.

Gas prices soaring. Food prices soaring. Healthcare costs soaring. Roads, schools and bridges crumbling. I worry that they're going to make sure Social Security runs out and privatize Medicare and how will I live after that? Every single dime that DJT and his crooked administration have enriched themselves with during his presidency is gone forever. How will we ever replace it so we can undo all the damage he's done? He concerns himself with things that don't matter to anyone but his demented self. I don't care about the reflecting pool; I don't want my tax dollars to go to building a bunker in the White House; I don't want my money going to putting up statues glorifying his dumb ass; and I damn sure don't want the insurrectionists of January 6 compensated with my money. I mean, WTF? Isn't it bad enough he pardoned them, now they get rewarded for it? For breaking the law, for fighting with police and destroying public property? "Law and order president" my big ass.

I am so embarrassed and disgusted that he's the president of our country. And I'm even more disgusted with the 30% or whatever amount it is of people who still support him, who don't open their stupid eyes and see who and what he really is even though he has shown them day after day after day since he first came down that escalator. I am also disgusted with his spokespeople who come up with the most outlandish excuses for what he says and does. And I'm extremely disgusted with the media that questions nothing, challenges nothing, sanewashes everything and just acts like stenographers taking dictation as he spouts the most stupid gibberish I've ever heard in my life.

So in an effort to stay sane and try to make sense of this crazy timeline we're all living in, I come to DU. I read, I learn, I laugh, I cry, I commiserate, I feel that I'm not alone. I really feel at home here and I'm so glad I have somewhere to go in these trying times. DUers are the best people. Thank you all for being here and (dare I say it?) thank you for your attention to this matter. Jeez, he's even ruined that expression for me.

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I certainly didn't think my retirement years would be like this (Original Post) MIButterfly May 21 OP
Agree 100% with every word Grim Chieftain May 21 #1
I knew it would be this bad. I'm surprised we're not all dead by now. Ray Bruns May 21 #5
I too didn't realize HOW bad it could get. I knew it would be bad...but it is SO beyond the pale. yellow dahlia May 21 #12
What freaks me out the most is he gets away with all of it Grim Chieftain May 21 #15
I understand. I haven't exhaled in a year and a half. yellow dahlia May 21 #22
what burns me up is Be The Light May 22 #59
They are attempting a coup, it has a daily agenda with different components, some visible, some shadowy Blues Heron May 21 #2
This MF took a giant shit orangecrush May 21 #3
Know the feeling MIButterfly irisblue May 21 #4
Excellent. I agree with you 100%. LoisB May 21 #6
I couldn't agree more, well said. Buddyzbuddy May 21 #7
Yes Starbeach May 21 #8
Our collective misery brought to you by, the uninformed short-memory voter and sadists. ffr May 21 #9
The billionaires don't want average Americans enjoying a comfortable retirement wolfie001 May 21 #10
They want us to work until we die. n/t mtngirl47 May 21 #32
I'm embarrassed too! young_at_heart May 21 #11
Oh, no! Shingles are horrible! I had my first case in grad school. Stress definitely!! littlemissmartypants May 22 #47
Righteous rant! OMGWTF May 21 #13
I have a theory about tsf's continuing support that stays at about 30-35 percent. alwaysinasnit May 21 #14
I have a theory too. Just like DJ... littlemissmartypants May 22 #48
Bingo DaBronx May 22 #52
What an awesome, well-written post. Thank you. hamsterjill May 21 #16
Well and truly said! cer7711 May 21 #17
All of what you stated and the fact that the well-being of people is denied to many. Not what America is supposed to be. twodogsbarking May 21 #18
The thought has crossed my mind Mme. Defarge May 21 #19
It's that way for many of us. BComplex May 21 #20
Ditto. I never planned on retirement being so sad. Covid, prices, ICE and TSA crushed any travel plans. joanbarnes May 21 #21
What he said! 😎 Joinfortmill May 21 #23
Awesome Blue1Red2 May 21 #24
I compare this time in America FarPoint May 21 #25
Thank you, MIButterfly, for expressing what I and, I'm certain, any sentient person is experiencing. Bumbles May 21 #26
+a zillion nt spooky3 May 21 #27
IMHO. Agreed and nicely done. Prairie_Seagull May 21 #28
Use to love the color orange. PuraVidaDreamin May 21 #31
The OK gesture is also out for me.l 3catwoman3 May 21 #40
What Fresh Hell Is This? PhilG May 21 #29
I Want To Wrap This Post Up, Tie It With A Bow 🎁, And Give It To Myself! ..... ColoringFool May 21 #30
This sign lives... SirReal69 May 21 #33
Welcome to the club ms.pamela May 21 #34
I'm retiring in August marcopolo63 May 21 #35
Remember to use the phrase "BOUNTIES ON CAPITOL POLICE OFFICERS" whenever you can. eppur_se_muova May 21 #36
My major worries are... oldsoldierfadingfast May 21 #37
Retirement is looking less and less likely for this DU'er debsy May 21 #38
I hear that duckworth969 May 21 #39
"How will we ever replace it so we can undo..." pat_k May 21 #41
anyone who can and has not done so yet, TIP DU!! Skittles May 21 #42
Now sixteen years into my retirement BeneteauBum May 21 #43
LOVE this post, MIButterfly! calimary May 21 #44
I didn't think my retirement years would be like anything in particular GenThePerservering May 21 #45
I took up a part-time job pfitz59 May 22 #46
Yes indeed, well said. steventh May 22 #49
Awesome post, you described exactly how I feel! CaptainTruth May 22 #50
You said it! Liberal In Texas May 22 #51
I feel seen Ruby the Liberal May 22 #53
I am with you there. OldBaldy1701E May 22 #54
I'm right there with you on bench w. yardwork May 22 #55
Me neither DownriverDem May 22 #56
Every time I have to put gas in my car I get more pissed off infullview May 22 #57
Capitalism and our monetary system has always been a house of cards IbogaProject May 22 #58
Wow! You said exactly what i've been thinking and KPN May 23 #60

Grim Chieftain

(2,126 posts)
1. Agree 100% with every word
Thu May 21, 2026, 11:58 AM
May 21

That's the hell I am living, too. I cried for a week after the "election". I knew it would be bad, but I didn't know it would be this bad. Stupid me, I thought there would be checks and balances, that people would stand up and demand he be removed from office if he eviscerated the rule of law. Every damn day is a new horror. As a senior citizen, I thought these would indeed be "the golden years", instead they are a living hell. He is the personification of evil.



yellow dahlia

(6,605 posts)
12. I too didn't realize HOW bad it could get. I knew it would be bad...but it is SO beyond the pale.
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:33 PM
May 21

Grim Chieftain

(2,126 posts)
15. What freaks me out the most is he gets away with all of it
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:44 PM
May 21

His approval ratings are in the toilet, yet no one stops him. He has destroyed so many, many lives and eviscerated the Constitution. It's hard to face another day of the hell he's created.



Be The Light

(163 posts)
59. what burns me up is
Fri May 22, 2026, 11:45 AM
May 22

that the media mostly spits out the narrative that , oh well he'll be gone in 3 years, so we just need to wait and persevere a few years.

He has no intention of leaving office, unless it's by force. And that certainly looks bleak right now.

Blues Heron

(9,074 posts)
2. They are attempting a coup, it has a daily agenda with different components, some visible, some shadowy
Thu May 21, 2026, 12:08 PM
May 21

One of the daily agenda items is to seize the headlines with whatever annoying scary thing they can cook up. Destroy this or that, build weird Cinderella ballrooms and arches etc. all to cover for seizing money, power, keeping the Epstein files under control

orangecrush

(31,299 posts)
3. This MF took a giant shit
Thu May 21, 2026, 12:41 PM
May 21

On my senior years.

I hope to live to see him held accountable, but I'm not counting on it.

ffr

(23,450 posts)
9. Our collective misery brought to you by, the uninformed short-memory voter and sadists.
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:23 PM
May 21

Today's letters are Pb. Because nothing spells low IQ, like lead in aerosol form. Be sure to start your children early, like you and your parents were.





wolfie001

(8,055 posts)
10. The billionaires don't want average Americans enjoying a comfortable retirement
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:25 PM
May 21

Jeff Bozos wants all of his employees to be deathly scared everyday they go to work for him. Elon Musk is pure evil. So many are foul mother fuckers. Kevin O'Leary?

young_at_heart

(4,066 posts)
11. I'm embarrassed too!
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:30 PM
May 21

I'm so stressed now that I only go on DU once or twice a week. All this stress reactivates my nasty case of Shingles!

OMGWTF

(5,234 posts)
13. Righteous rant!
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:38 PM
May 21

I start my day with Jeff Tiedrich's Substack column followed by DU and then I watch Thom Hartmann on YouTube to stay informed.

alwaysinasnit

(5,656 posts)
14. I have a theory about tsf's continuing support that stays at about 30-35 percent.
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:39 PM
May 21

Tsf's personality traits appeal to a lot of people because it reflects and enhances their own. Tsf provides a validation of their own racism, misogyny, greed, and cruelty. Tsf provides a permission structure that validates the worst aspects of their own personalities and so they feel free to give voice to their own inner ugliness. I think this is why they will never abandon him no matter how badly their lives are impacted by tsf's policies.

littlemissmartypants

(34,664 posts)
48. I have a theory too. Just like DJ...
Fri May 22, 2026, 05:20 AM
May 22

They're psychopaths.

Psychopathy affects all
ethnic, cultural, racial,
and socioeconomic groups.

...psychopathy
is a spectrum disorder,

Prevalence in the United States
Approximately 70% of the
population is estimated to
have no psychopathic traits
whatsoever.

Key Point
👇👇👇👇👇👇
The remaining
30% have low, medium, or
high levels of psychopathy.


Source:
https://psychopathyis.org/stats/


Characteristics of Psychopaths

1. Aggressive, callous, and cunning
2. Complete absence of conscience and empathy
3. Very adept at manipulating others
4. Willingness to engage in immoral, criminal conduct
5. Willingness to take what they want and do as they please, regardless of who is hurt or wronged
6. Deceptive ability to appear outwardly benevolent
7. Deceptive ability to behave in superficially charming ways to hide purely selfish motives
8. Willingness to use intimidation and violence to control others in order to satisfy their own needs
9. Willingness to intentionally violate the basic inherent human rights of others
10. Complete absence of any sense of guilt or remorse for the harm their actions have caused to others
11. Rationalization of their own immoral behavior
12. Will attempt to lay blame upon someone else for their own conduct
13. Denial, will deny their own wrongdoing outright
14. Utter contemptuousness toward the feelings and desires of their fellow beings
15. Pathological lying, will say anything without any concern for truth to advance their own hidden agendas
16. Ablity to feign [fake] normal human emotions and empathy
17. Distorted sense of the consequences of their actions
18. Total failure to accept any responsibility for their own socially irresponsible ways
19. Strong bellef that they will never be brought to justice for their criminal behavior

hamsterjill

(17,808 posts)
16. What an awesome, well-written post. Thank you.
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:46 PM
May 21

Boy, I can agree with every word. I'm about a year into retirement myself and every single day it's like waking up to the Ground Hog Day movie with the same shit happening and nobody doing anything about it. The stress is certainly NOT what I was hoping for in my golden years, and you know what - it's not what I deserve either. It's not what ANY of us deserve.

I am sick of the minority - yes they ARE the minority - running this country. I'm sick of the bubba rednecks in my areas that don't understand ANYTHING and merely regurgitate what they've been told or have heard because it looks tough in these parts to support Trump. Ahuck...ahuck...ahuck.

DU is definitely my sanity place, and I appreciate knowing I'm not alone.

twodogsbarking

(19,478 posts)
18. All of what you stated and the fact that the well-being of people is denied to many. Not what America is supposed to be.
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:53 PM
May 21

Growing up when I questioned capitalism I was called a Communist; and going to hell and all that.To find out who rules you just find who you are not allowed to critisize.

Mme. Defarge

(9,067 posts)
19. The thought has crossed my mind
Thu May 21, 2026, 01:57 PM
May 21

to write a check for $1.00 for each of my quarterly estimated tax payments to the IRS the rest of the year.

joanbarnes

(2,140 posts)
21. Ditto. I never planned on retirement being so sad. Covid, prices, ICE and TSA crushed any travel plans.
Thu May 21, 2026, 02:03 PM
May 21

FarPoint

(14,950 posts)
25. I compare this time in America
Thu May 21, 2026, 02:50 PM
May 21

to what happens in the TV series, "The Walking Dead".....

Today, the virus / zombies are the ignorant MAGAS....

We Democrats and those who live by the Constitution, and Democracy , we are the survivors who want to live and return to some formal lifestyle.... like Alexandria and Hilltop...

tRump and the evil corporate dictator types are represented by the Wolverines, Negan, the Governor, Alpha....etc....

Both stories, the USA and The Walking Dead remain to be concluded....

Bumbles

(524 posts)
26. Thank you, MIButterfly, for expressing what I and, I'm certain, any sentient person is experiencing.
Thu May 21, 2026, 02:59 PM
May 21

I have a constant brain itch. It's unscratchable, always present, never relieved or diminished. On occasion when I think it has disappeared, there it is again. It's relentless and persistent. At 83, my main goal is to outlive the itch, the source, and revel in itch-free freedom.

PhilG

(64 posts)
29. What Fresh Hell Is This?
Thu May 21, 2026, 04:09 PM
May 21

When I wake up in the morning the first thing I do every day is check the weather. I need to know what projects can be done today and what has to be put off until it stops raining or snowing. Then I have to decide if I am brave enough to check DU and/or Huffington Post. Some days I just can't do either. On weekends, my rule is NOT to do either and not to listen to the radio. It's just too hard.

ColoringFool

(1,183 posts)
30. I Want To Wrap This Post Up, Tie It With A Bow 🎁, And Give It To Myself! .....
Thu May 21, 2026, 04:18 PM
May 21

👍👏👍👏👍👏👍

marcopolo63

(99 posts)
35. I'm retiring in August
Thu May 21, 2026, 05:26 PM
May 21

I’ve second-guessed retiring long enough and have announced to my boss and notified HR.

I didn’t think it would be this difficult a decision to make, but with all the risk to the market that the dumbest Administration ever to run this country is causing and the speculation around the future of Social Security - I am uncertain about the coming few years and decade! We need a new New Deal!

eppur_se_muova

(42,623 posts)
36. Remember to use the phrase "BOUNTIES ON CAPITOL POLICE OFFICERS" whenever you can.
Thu May 21, 2026, 05:57 PM
May 21

It's Trmps excuse to procure money for his

Praetorian Guard (Latin: cohortes praetoriae) was the imperial guard of the Imperial Roman army that served various roles for the Roman emperor including being a bodyguard unit, counterintelligence, crowd control and gathering military intelligence.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Praetorian_Guard
37. My major worries are...
Thu May 21, 2026, 06:00 PM
May 21

not for myself (I've aged out and am a DNR); but, for my mid-aged son and friends who have children just starting their college and/or working years and their grandkids. They will not inherit the life we had planned and worked so hard to give them!
Our children and the coming generations are amongst my greatest worries.

debsy

(1,060 posts)
38. Retirement is looking less and less likely for this DU'er
Thu May 21, 2026, 06:34 PM
May 21

Thanks Donnie dumpster fire and all your minions for Your assistance in making that a reality!

pat_k

(14,002 posts)
41. "How will we ever replace it so we can undo..."
Thu May 21, 2026, 08:51 PM
May 21

A start: One time graduated levy on assets with these targets

20% on assets in excess of 500 million.

From 15% to 20% on assets from 200 - 500 million

From 10% and 15% on assets from 50 million to 200 million

From 5% to 10% on assets from 10 million to 50 million

I've pulled these numbers out of my ass, but I have no doubt such a one time levy would make a decent start.

Since 1981 the corrupt Republican project has transferred more than 50 trillion from the bottom 90% to the top 1 %.

Time to for the beneficiaries to start contributing their fair share. Without a strong public sector they would never have earned what they have earned. They have hoarded a lion's share of our collective resources long enough.

Not even running through what the lower rates would generate,

A one-time 20% levy on net assets exceeding $500 million would generate an estimated $500 billion to $1 trillion in federal revenue.

A one-time levy of 15% on the assets of individuals in the $200 million to $500 million range is estimated to raise roughly $150 billion to $200 billion nationally, depending on the exact number of households and assuming a 15% tax avoidance rate.

BeneteauBum

(840 posts)
43. Now sixteen years into my retirement
Thu May 21, 2026, 09:14 PM
May 21

I know how you feel. Each day seems to bring a new WTF. To help offset my frustrations, I meet with a group of like minded people who demonstrate weekly. In addition, most of these people are active in voter recruitment. I feel like we’re moving ahead slowly….but surely. The unwavering energy of this group keeps me going.

Peace ☮️

calimary

(91,001 posts)
44. LOVE this post, MIButterfly!
Thu May 21, 2026, 09:21 PM
May 21

You sure do speak for me! Especially that fourth paragraph you wrote.

And if I may humbly offer a slight correction… he HAS NOT ruined ANY of your favorite expressions (or mine)! And every time you assert your right to utter them, just think of your action(s) as THWARTING his “authority”! EVERY time!!!

EVERY DAMN TIME!!!!!!

GenThePerservering

(3,806 posts)
45. I didn't think my retirement years would be like anything in particular
Thu May 21, 2026, 10:20 PM
May 21

I would just keep going, whatever happens. Expectations are a trap - try to stick to being true to yourself and don't let the Circus rob you of your essence. YOU are the same, no matter what craziness is happening in the world.

pfitz59

(13,000 posts)
46. I took up a part-time job
Fri May 22, 2026, 01:21 AM
May 22

to pad the pension and keep me engaged with a broad spectrum of folks. Keeps me sane.

steventh

(2,194 posts)
49. Yes indeed, well said.
Fri May 22, 2026, 06:55 AM
May 22

I want to live long enough to see better times, and karma all the way around.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,714 posts)
53. I feel seen
Fri May 22, 2026, 07:40 AM
May 22

Really glad you brought up the scope of the grift. Its one thing to run on undoing all of the carnage - but we all know the reality is that once the money is gone, we won't have the funds to cover a fraction of the damage. And what will be the priorities?

I share your concerns. Thank you for sharing this.

OldBaldy1701E

(11,651 posts)
54. I am with you there.
Fri May 22, 2026, 07:53 AM
May 22

Of course, my embarrassment and disgust are more for the fact that this regime is still here.

(250 years didn't seem like that much before our current situation. Now, it seems like a long ago fantasy.)

DownriverDem

(7,029 posts)
56. Me neither
Fri May 22, 2026, 10:09 AM
May 22

I had no idea what it would be like, but it certainly wasn't what we are going through now. Will we live to see it changed for the better?

infullview

(1,150 posts)
57. Every time I have to put gas in my car I get more pissed off
Fri May 22, 2026, 10:41 AM
May 22

I’m retired on a fixed income like a lot of people. If this were a normal world I would have enough to live on without renting a room or taking a part time job. But, here’s what really sux: I had to pay taxes on the marginal income I had! AND THEN, to see how much asshole tRump is stealing and lining his pockets and those of his children- it just makes me want to never pay taxes. If I weren’t collecting SS that’s what I would do as protest for my taxes being illegally used to jail innocent people and build frivolous monuments to king Donald.

IbogaProject

(6,099 posts)
58. Capitalism and our monetary system has always been a house of cards
Fri May 22, 2026, 11:22 AM
May 22

It demands and expects endless growth on a finite planet. Then our currency is created "at interest" without the interest being created. This all started with modern banking in the 15th & 16th centuries. First came colonialism then overusing environmental resources along with using war to export the crisis of capital accumulation.

KPN

(17,539 posts)
60. Wow! You said exactly what i've been thinking and
Sat May 23, 2026, 12:44 AM
May 23

feeling to an ever increasing extent daily for longer than I can even put my finger on. And you expressed it all so perfectly, especially the “stenographers taking dictation as he spouts the most stupid gibberish”.

So … thank you for your attention to this matter. You nailed it!

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