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MarineCombatEngineer

(18,153 posts)
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 10:48 PM 17 hrs ago

So a follow up on my new romance,

I did the most corniest thing, but not for mine and her generation, I invited her to a nice restaurant and halfway through dinner, I got down on one knee and proposed to her and she said....YES!!!

A new chapter in my life is starting and I'm giddy with happiness.
Excuse me, I've had a couple of shots of Vodka to celebrate my coming 2nd marriage.

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So a follow up on my new romance, (Original Post) MarineCombatEngineer 17 hrs ago OP
I'm giddy with happiness for you! I love that our generation's romantic gestures are alive and well Deuxcents 17 hrs ago #1
Absolutely. MarineCombatEngineer 17 hrs ago #3
Congrats! montanacowboy 17 hrs ago #2
We haven't set a date yet, but we're looking at late June-early July. MarineCombatEngineer 17 hrs ago #4
Congratulations! LoisB 17 hrs ago #5
Congratulations, that is wonderful wendyb-NC 17 hrs ago #6
So I'm guessing you're over the blues and into the Carpenters! Congrats! marble falls 17 hrs ago #7
Congratulations! chowder66 17 hrs ago #8
Congratulations to you both on your engagement! May joy be yours, forever! CaliforniaPeggy 17 hrs ago #9
Congratulations! Diamond_Dog 17 hrs ago #10
Congratulations, MCE! sheshe2 17 hrs ago #11
Thank you sheshe2. MarineCombatEngineer 17 hrs ago #13
I am so happy for you both. sheshe2 17 hrs ago #17
HOLY SHIT!!!! I've been waiting for this 'update' for a while, Jack Valentino 17 hrs ago #12
Thank you very much. MarineCombatEngineer 17 hrs ago #19
So very happy for the two of you. Wishing you all the best. Thank niyad 17 hrs ago #14
Yes she does, and she knows that my rather large family, including DU, approves of this coming marriage MarineCombatEngineer 17 hrs ago #21
Congrats Lifeafter70 16 hrs ago #26
Consider it done. MarineCombatEngineer 16 hrs ago #29
In uniform? Lifeafter70 16 hrs ago #32
We've discussed that and she wants me to and I'm inclined to do so, although, I'll have to have my MarineCombatEngineer 16 hrs ago #36
Naw just step it up at the gym Lifeafter70 16 hrs ago #46
Congratulations! Best wishes to you both. Srkdqltr 17 hrs ago #15
Swooning here at the old fashioned romantic gesture. Congratulations and wishing you Marie Marie 17 hrs ago #16
Hearty congratulations MCE. kairos12 17 hrs ago #18
So very happy for you both! Grim Chieftain 17 hrs ago #20
WOW! Omaha Steve 17 hrs ago #22
How wonderful MCE! Congratulations! electric_blue68 16 hrs ago #23
Congrats! May you both be blessed! n/t PatrickforB 16 hrs ago #24
Wonderful news - best wishes to you both!!! TBF 16 hrs ago #25
Congratulations Dan 16 hrs ago #27
Congratulations! Thanks so much for sharing your happy news, MCE!! ❤️ littlemissmartypants 16 hrs ago #28
Congratulations Sir! JMCKUSICK 16 hrs ago #30
Congratulations! area51 16 hrs ago #31
Congratulations! yonder 16 hrs ago #33
Wow, how great that is.👩‍❤️‍👨 Figarosmom 16 hrs ago #34
🥂 blm 16 hrs ago #35
Congratulations! 🥂 BlueKota 16 hrs ago #37
Hey MCE popsdenver 16 hrs ago #38
Congratulations! betsuni 16 hrs ago #39
Congratulations to the both of you!!!! FemDemERA 16 hrs ago #40
Terrific news, MCE! summer_in_TX 16 hrs ago #41
Congratulations! PufPuf23 16 hrs ago #42
Congrats! SheltieLover 16 hrs ago #43
Congratulations!! Chellee 16 hrs ago #44
Congratulations! Wah_Guy 16 hrs ago #45
Congrats we all need some good news Tree Lady 16 hrs ago #47
Yeah - it is nice isn't it? jfz9580m 7 hrs ago #83
Hubby and I went to the movies Tuesday Tree Lady 4 hrs ago #90
I watch sitcoms or romcoms just before falling asleep jfz9580m 3 hrs ago #95
So happy for you both! HeartsCanHope 16 hrs ago #48
Congrats! DET 16 hrs ago #49
It was a whirlwind romance and we just......clicked and knew we belonged together. MarineCombatEngineer 16 hrs ago #50
That's nice RussBLib 4 hrs ago #92
Good for you....nothing like shared love!! walkingman 16 hrs ago #51
Congratulations, good sir! Jedi Guy 16 hrs ago #52
Congrats GrapesOfWrath 16 hrs ago #53
Congrats mr715 16 hrs ago #54
.. BlueWaveNeverEnd 15 hrs ago #55
Wow!!! Did you plan that or were you swept away in the moment? 3catwoman3 15 hrs ago #56
Congratulations! UpInArms 15 hrs ago #57
Congratulations! Hey Joe 15 hrs ago #58
Well this is delightful news! Wishing you both every happiness!!🩷🩷 KitFox 15 hrs ago #59
So amazing!!! hamsterjill 15 hrs ago #60
You can't keep a hard charging Marine down Submariner 15 hrs ago #61
CONGRATS MCE! BaronChocula 15 hrs ago #62
Happy engagement/incoming nuptials MCE! Celerity 15 hrs ago #63
How sweet! Best wishes to you both! Nt spooky3 15 hrs ago #64
Congratulations, man! AZJonnie 13 hrs ago #65
Congratulations! democrank 13 hrs ago #66
It's so great to hear good news! redwitch 11 hrs ago #67
Congratulations to both of you! So happy for livetohike 10 hrs ago #68
Congratulations Emile 10 hrs ago #69
Congratulations. live love laugh 9 hrs ago #70
I can feel the joy in your post, and it makes my day. May you both always be as happy as you are today. Scrivener7 9 hrs ago #71
Congratulations!! PCIntern 9 hrs ago #72
Sweet malaise 9 hrs ago #73
Congratulations! Solomon 8 hrs ago #74
Congrats to you both. BoomaofBandM 7 hrs ago #75
Congratulations! orangecrush 7 hrs ago #76
Awesome!!!! gay texan 7 hrs ago #77
THAT is bravery. /nt bucolic_frolic 7 hrs ago #78
Love is wonderful! Congratulations and all best wishes. Passages 7 hrs ago #79
Holy shit - that was fast jfz9580m 7 hrs ago #80
Congratulations 👏🎉 MustLoveBeagles 7 hrs ago #81
How wonderful for both of you! CozyMystery 7 hrs ago #82
Well shit, there goes the neighborhood. Prairie_Seagull 6 hrs ago #84
Congrats, and wishing you and your fiance long and happy lives together! 70sEraVet 6 hrs ago #85
Mazeltov! barbtries 5 hrs ago #86
Praise the Lord 🙌 I am happy for you both? 1WorldHope 5 hrs ago #87
WOW, that is great. You have me all smiles. Best MCE, to you and your betrothed. c-rational 5 hrs ago #88
Mazel tov! Grumpy Old Guy 4 hrs ago #89
WOW !!! Congratulations! It seems you have a happy future ahead of you! liberalla 4 hrs ago #91
Awwwwwwww... and even on bended knee! Sigh! calimary 4 hrs ago #93
Congratulations, old jarhead!!!!!!!!!!!! AverageOldGuy 3 hrs ago #94
As dark as the world is these days Bettie 3 hrs ago #96
Well I am pissed off!!!!! tavernier 3 hrs ago #97
Stockings with seams? 3catwoman3 3 hrs ago #101
Congrats To Both Of You ProfessorGAC 3 hrs ago #98
Very cool Joinfortmill 3 hrs ago #99
Congratulations MCE! bluestarone 3 hrs ago #100
Very Best Wishes MarineCombatEngineer to you and your Lucky Lady!! Way to go!! George McGovern 2 hrs ago #102
That's Awesome News! kooth 2 hrs ago #103
Wow! That's wonderful! Congratulations Ilsa 1 hr ago #104
Congrats! senseandsensibility 1 hr ago #105
Best news I've read all day! Congratulations, and forever long may you two be happy. Efilroft Sul 1 hr ago #106
Congratulations, and if it matters....... DFW 47 min ago #107

Deuxcents

(27,345 posts)
1. I'm giddy with happiness for you! I love that our generation's romantic gestures are alive and well
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 10:55 PM
17 hrs ago

With this news, you know we’re gonna want to follow you thru your engagement, right?!

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,153 posts)
4. We haven't set a date yet, but we're looking at late June-early July.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:02 PM
17 hrs ago

I'll let DU know when we've set a definite date.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,153 posts)
13. Thank you sheshe2.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:25 PM
17 hrs ago

I know it was a fast romance and proposal, but when the heart speaks, one listens and we both listened.

Jack Valentino

(5,156 posts)
12. HOLY SHIT!!!! I've been waiting for this 'update' for a while,
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:21 PM
17 hrs ago

since the post about your upcoming 'first date'---
but seems you've been busy in the meantime!

My sincere congratulations !!!!



niyad

(133,240 posts)
14. So very happy for the two of you. Wishing you all the best. Thank
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:26 PM
17 hrs ago

you for sharing your joyous news with us!

Does your lady know that you come with a whole group of EXTREMELY nosy friends, who will want alll sorts of details?

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,153 posts)
21. Yes she does, and she knows that my rather large family, including DU, approves of this coming marriage
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:35 PM
17 hrs ago

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,153 posts)
36. We've discussed that and she wants me to and I'm inclined to do so, although, I'll have to have my
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:02 AM
16 hrs ago

Dress Blues altered to compensate for the extra pounds I've put on since retiring from the Corps.

Lifeafter70

(1,139 posts)
46. Naw just step it up at the gym
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:15 AM
16 hrs ago

Or evening walks with your fiancee.

Your a Marine, if you can get through boot camp you can do it. I have faith in you.

Just in case get those dress blues altered.
My favorite pics of my son are from when he was in the corps.

Thanks for chatting with me. It broke up my evening caring for my son.

Du has the best people. Wishing you and your lovely lady many years of joy and happiness.

Marie Marie

(11,398 posts)
16. Swooning here at the old fashioned romantic gesture. Congratulations and wishing you
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:30 PM
17 hrs ago

both a long and happy marriage.

Grim Chieftain

(1,894 posts)
20. So very happy for you both!
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:31 PM
17 hrs ago

May the days ahead be filled with love, laughter and joy.

Congratulations!

Figarosmom

(12,570 posts)
34. Wow, how great that is.👩‍❤️‍👨
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:00 AM
16 hrs ago

That's also a big step. There's a lot to think about. Who's house etc. type stuff. Big wedding or small? Pulling out all the stops? How life can change in one month. Wow, wow. Wow.

popsdenver

(2,417 posts)
38. Hey MCE
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:07 AM
16 hrs ago

I am very happy to hear that news!!!!!!!!! Second marriages are the best!!!!!!! In many cases the first marriage, I call
a Practice Marriage.....LOL
Have a joyous life together, full of fun and endearing times!

PufPuf23

(9,900 posts)
42. Congratulations!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:10 AM
16 hrs ago

Nice for your bride that you will not be on the road so much too.

Wish you years of peace and happiness.

jfz9580m

(17,452 posts)
83. Yeah - it is nice isn't it?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:36 AM
7 hrs ago

The last time I smiled was at GreatAuntofTriplets’ thread about one of the triplets getting into med school.

Happy for MCE.

Tree Lady

(13,337 posts)
90. Hubby and I went to the movies Tuesday
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:02 PM
4 hrs ago

First time in a long time and saw Hail Mary with Ryan Gosling cute feel good movie. Those are the kind of things we need to do.

I feel like every day we are washed in dirty mucky chemical filled stinky water, need to rinse off!

jfz9580m

(17,452 posts)
95. I watch sitcoms or romcoms just before falling asleep
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:14 PM
3 hrs ago

I get this, but admit to enjoying some circuses as the bread is stale and mouldy:

https://www.currentaffairs.org/news/the-banal-horror-of-jimmy-fallon

Jedi Guy

(3,489 posts)
52. Congratulations, good sir!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:33 AM
16 hrs ago

I wish you many years with your beloved and as much joy as your heart can stand!

mr715

(3,768 posts)
54. Congrats
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:42 AM
16 hrs ago

I'm very, very, very, very happy for you.

There is a lot of beauty in this world. There is a lot worth fighting for.

Had I some vodka, I'd do one with you. Just accept this one in spirit. Spirit spirits.

Congratulations.

May you have many years of happiness, and may each year be better than the last.

I'm so happy for you.


MR

3catwoman3

(29,610 posts)
56. Wow!!! Did you plan that or were you swept away in the moment?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:50 AM
15 hrs ago

I’m somewhat envious of the lightning speed of your love story. My husband and I were a couple for 4 years before he was ready to take a second chance on marriage. Understandable, as it was a nasty divorce, but it was a long wait. First time around for me.

All the best to both of you!

hamsterjill

(17,668 posts)
60. So amazing!!!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:07 AM
15 hrs ago

Congratulations. Wishing you and the soon-to-be bride all the happiness in the world.

Submariner

(13,394 posts)
61. You can't keep a hard charging Marine down
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:09 AM
15 hrs ago

Congratulations and the best of luck to the both of you.

AZJonnie

(3,838 posts)
65. Congratulations, man!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 02:57 AM
13 hrs ago

My partner and I were engaged end of August last year in Honolulu.

2nd's for both of us as well.

democrank

(12,641 posts)
66. Congratulations!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 03:04 AM
13 hrs ago

A new day, a new life. What a heartwarming thing love is. My best to both of you.

livetohike

(24,346 posts)
68. Congratulations to both of you! So happy for
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 06:01 AM
10 hrs ago

you MCE. Wishing you many years of love and laughter .

Scrivener7

(59,846 posts)
71. I can feel the joy in your post, and it makes my day. May you both always be as happy as you are today.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:03 AM
9 hrs ago

jfz9580m

(17,452 posts)
80. Holy shit - that was fast
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:29 AM
7 hrs ago

Congratulations . I just thought of you today MCE. Well your granddaughter to be more precise. Hope her job is going well.

I am really happy for you .

Prairie_Seagull

(4,756 posts)
84. Well shit, there goes the neighborhood.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:43 AM
6 hrs ago

One knee, oh that's a corny marine move.

Really though,

CONGRATS MCE,

liberalla

(11,156 posts)
91. WOW !!! Congratulations! It seems you have a happy future ahead of you!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:17 PM
4 hrs ago

My best and warmest wishes are heading your way!


calimary

(90,393 posts)
93. Awwwwwwww... and even on bended knee! Sigh!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:27 PM
4 hrs ago

That’s NOT “corny”, my friend.

That’s gallant, impressive, breathtaking, and a whole lotta fabulous!!!

WELL DONE, sir. WELL DONE!!!

AverageOldGuy

(4,016 posts)
94. Congratulations, old jarhead!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:49 PM
3 hrs ago

And lots of congratulations to the nice lady.

Sometimes it just the right thing to do . . . good on both of you for recognizing this is one of those times!!!

Bettie

(19,789 posts)
96. As dark as the world is these days
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:17 PM
3 hrs ago

You've managed to show that a little light can shine through.

Congratulations!

tavernier

(14,470 posts)
97. Well I am pissed off!!!!!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:26 PM
3 hrs ago

I thought you might consider an older lady, someone with roots going back to World War Two, Swing Music, chocolates and stockings on a date.

Oh well… guess I’m still single and looking.



Congratulations and save me a dance on your special day.

3catwoman3

(29,610 posts)
101. Stockings with seams?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:36 PM
3 hrs ago

I remember my mother, born in 1922, telling me that if young ladies didn’t have stockings with seams they would use eyebrow pencils to draw faux seams on their legs.

Getting those lines straight must have been tricky, or maybe they helped each other out.

bluestarone

(22,334 posts)
100. Congratulations MCE!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:31 PM
3 hrs ago

WOW! happy for you both!! If you need another reason to hug her, there are thousands here saying GIVE HER A HUG from us!!! LOL Best of luck to BOTH of you!!

kooth

(239 posts)
103. That's Awesome News!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:50 PM
2 hrs ago

Congratulations and much happiness to both of you! And, of course, thanks for your service!

DFW

(60,321 posts)
107. Congratulations, and if it matters.......
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 03:56 PM
47 min ago

It sounds like you got a far more enthusiastic response to your proposal than I did to mine, which was the German equivalent to "works for me."

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