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PeaceWave

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Tue Jan 13, 2026, 01:40 PM Tuesday

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I watched 'Thirty Something' when it aired. BlueWaveNeverEnd Tuesday #1
I'm gonna say something here: PCIntern Tuesday #2
Couldn't stand him on "The West Wing" 31st Street Bridge Tuesday #3
Agreed... PCIntern Tuesday #4
CJ could have done a lot better. greatauntoftriplets Tuesday #20
He always creeped me out too Danmel Tuesday #11
I always tell my female friends to trust their gut. Ilsa Tuesday #21
(and yes, men do equally horrendous things) MorbidButterflyTat Tuesday #22
Interesting. H2O Man Yesterday #33
The guy who played Poindexter? flvegan Tuesday #5
I couldn't remember his character 's name MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #8
I watched it recently and enjoyed it BannonsLiver Tuesday #14
Hiding out at the Omega Mu sorority maybe. miyazaki Tuesday #15
Rape as comedy clevergrrrl Tuesday #16
coming soon... "Thirtysomething to Life" shelshaw Tuesday #6
I remember him from Revenge of the Nerds MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #7
I've watched his appearances and work for many years and did not know he was married to hlthe2b Tuesday #9
Running and hiding from arrest certainly doesn't say "I'm innocent". LudwigPastorius Tuesday #10
I recognized the name, but, in looking at his imdb list, don't think I ever niyad Tuesday #12
I remember liking him and his reddish hair and beard and being kind of funny Beringia Tuesday #13
He was in two of my favorite baseball movies Tommy Carcetti Tuesday #17
I Just Watched Little Big League... ProfessorGAC Tuesday #24
It came out around the same time as Rookie of the Year... Tommy Carcetti Tuesday #25
Agreed ProfessorGAC Tuesday #28
I didn't like his character on Thirtysomething, but that just means he did a good job. hamsterjill Tuesday #18
Exactly, its best to get the facts Raine Tuesday #29
He has turned himself in. North Shore Chicago Tuesday #19
Good MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #23
Timothy Busfield has broken his silence and turned himself in to New Mexico authorities LetMyPeopleVote Tuesday #26
Love it. Tried and convicted on social media. h2ebits Tuesday #27
Yes. I would think the left would want some facts Raine Tuesday #30
thank you Skittles Tuesday #31
Yes, it sure got ugly here. MorbidButterflyTat Yesterday #32

BlueWaveNeverEnd

(12,983 posts)
1. I watched 'Thirty Something' when it aired.
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 01:48 PM
Tuesday

PCIntern

(27,988 posts)
2. I'm gonna say something here:
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 01:50 PM
Tuesday

I NEVER LIKED HIM. I first saw him on thirtysomething and although all of those characters were insipid in their own ways, and caricatures of real humans, he gave me the creeps somehow. My then-girlfriend had the hots for him and for the lead character, and I told her that that’s why some women get themselves into trouble and ignore normal guys (and yes, men do equally horrendous things) and then wonder what all went wrong.

3. Couldn't stand him on "The West Wing"
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 01:51 PM
Tuesday

O anything else, for that matter.

PCIntern

(27,988 posts)
4. Agreed...
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 01:53 PM
Tuesday

I thought that he was one of West Wing’s lesser characters. And again, creepy.

greatauntoftriplets

(178,643 posts)
20. CJ could have done a lot better.
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 03:51 PM
Tuesday

There's no accounting for some people's taste.

Danmel

(5,692 posts)
11. He always creeped me out too
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:15 PM
Tuesday

My husband and I were talking about the West Wing last week (precipitated by a visit from one of my summer interns whose last name is Cregg) and i told him I couldn't stand the actor who played Danny, in anything he performed in. Just gave me a bad feeling. Guess I was right (even though I know and accusation is just that.)
But going missing isn't a good look

Ilsa

(63,871 posts)
21. I always tell my female friends to trust their gut.
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 04:10 PM
Tuesday

Learn to discern between imagination and reality with the gut feeling. It takes practice. Personally, I believe this type of intuition is a gift from God for women.

I went with a friend to his house for lunch one day. We were both about 20 years old. His father showed up for lunch as well and we met for the first time. I greeted him with a handshake and smile, and then I got the creepiest feeling, like he was seeing me naked. Maybe he looked at me a tenth of a second too long. Or he didn't release the handshake soon enough. Anyway, I avoided being alone with him. Thirty-five years later I heard gross stories about him making passes at his wife's married friends. And another story that he molested his toddler grandchild while they were in the pool. I believe he died in prison, transferred to another state, after another molestation felony.

Busfield never made an impression on me, except to say I never sought him out in other shows and movies. I simply felt nothing for him. Zero attraction, which for that time in my life, was unusual.

MorbidButterflyTat

(4,222 posts)
22. (and yes, men do equally horrendous things)
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 04:11 PM
Tuesday

"...equally horrendous..." to what?

H2O Man

(78,679 posts)
33. Interesting.
Wed Jan 14, 2026, 01:18 AM
Yesterday

I had no idea who he was. But I figured your opinion would be on target. So I looked him up. I never have watched any of the types of things he is famous for acting in. It sounds like he has been known to be a dangerous creep for over thirty years.

What the fuck is wrong with people?

flvegan

(65,823 posts)
5. The guy who played Poindexter?
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 01:56 PM
Tuesday

Granted, Revenge of the Nerds has aged very, very, very badly.

MustLoveBeagles

(14,861 posts)
8. I couldn't remember his character 's name
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:06 PM
Tuesday

A lot of 80's films have aged poorly.

BannonsLiver

(20,293 posts)
14. I watched it recently and enjoyed it
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:37 PM
Tuesday

miyazaki

(2,597 posts)
15. Hiding out at the Omega Mu sorority maybe.
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:43 PM
Tuesday

High on wonder joints.

clevergrrrl

(142 posts)
16. Rape as comedy
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:56 PM
Tuesday

It seemed to happen a lot in 80s movies. Busfield was in Stripes too.

shelshaw

(674 posts)
6. coming soon... "Thirtysomething to Life"
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 01:57 PM
Tuesday

MustLoveBeagles

(14,861 posts)
7. I remember him from Revenge of the Nerds
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:01 PM
Tuesday

Didn't make much of an impression. Mostly played side characters. He needs to turn himself in. He's only making it worse.

hlthe2b

(112,907 posts)
9. I've watched his appearances and work for many years and did not know he was married to
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:09 PM
Tuesday

Melissa Gilbert (Little House on the Prairie). Admittedly, I tended to ignore him as I was not a fan.

I would love to believe he is innocent of these charges (mainly for Gilbert's sake) but... Damn.

LudwigPastorius

(14,237 posts)
10. Running and hiding from arrest certainly doesn't say "I'm innocent".
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:14 PM
Tuesday

niyad

(129,780 posts)
12. I recognized the name, but, in looking at his imdb list, don't think I ever
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:16 PM
Tuesday

saw him in anything.

Beringia

(5,365 posts)
13. I remember liking him and his reddish hair and beard and being kind of funny
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 02:33 PM
Tuesday

I wondered if anyone would post this on DU, I saw it yesterday on The Guardian.

Tommy Carcetti

(44,422 posts)
17. He was in two of my favorite baseball movies
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 03:19 PM
Tuesday

Little Big League, and of course, Field of Dreams.

If the allegations are true, that's definitely upsetting.

ProfessorGAC

(75,884 posts)
24. I Just Watched Little Big League...
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 04:30 PM
Tuesday

...this past weekend.
It's been a while since I watched it.
The kid & his mom are both great.

Tommy Carcetti

(44,422 posts)
25. It came out around the same time as Rookie of the Year...
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 05:29 PM
Tuesday

...and both played into the whole "kid's professional baseball fantasy" subgenre, and while I believe Rookie of the Year was more successful at the box office, I found Little Big League to be the much better movie.

ProfessorGAC

(75,884 posts)
28. Agreed
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 06:12 PM
Tuesday

Rookie Of The Year is a little sillier, and that lack of taking itself seriously makes it a bit more fun.

hamsterjill

(17,090 posts)
18. I didn't like his character on Thirtysomething, but that just means he did a good job.
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 03:19 PM
Tuesday

I'm withholding judgment on this one until I learn more of the facts. I saw a story about a week ago and the explanation of the alleged incidents just didn't add up to me. I felt it might be a case of someone trying to get a payout.

By no means do I minimize these charges. If they are true, then to hell with the asshole. But I still believe in innocent until proven guilty. So, I'm anxious to see how the story unfolds.

Raine

(31,102 posts)
29. Exactly, its best to get the facts
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 06:24 PM
Tuesday

and not jump to conclusions.

North Shore Chicago

(4,222 posts)
19. He has turned himself in.
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 03:22 PM
Tuesday

He is vowing to fight the charges. Let's wait and see.

MustLoveBeagles

(14,861 posts)
23. Good
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 04:27 PM
Tuesday

I'm trying to withhold judgement but evading police isn't a good look.

LetMyPeopleVote

(175,341 posts)
26. Timothy Busfield has broken his silence and turned himself in to New Mexico authorities
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 05:39 PM
Tuesday

h2ebits

(980 posts)
27. Love it. Tried and convicted on social media.
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 06:12 PM
Tuesday

One's impressions of an actor whether physical attraction or mental are based on their acting skills in any given role that they play. Who they are in real life is another story.

Please let's stop. . . .

Raine

(31,102 posts)
30. Yes. I would think the left would want some facts
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 06:30 PM
Tuesday

before convicting someone right off the bat. At least wait a little bit!

Skittles

(169,735 posts)
31. thank you
Tue Jan 13, 2026, 06:34 PM
Tuesday

WTF happened to due process

MorbidButterflyTat

(4,222 posts)
32. Yes, it sure got ugly here.
Wed Jan 14, 2026, 12:56 AM
Yesterday
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