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It’s the first known dismissal stemming from the conservative campaign to limit schools' recognition of transgender identity.A Florida high school teacher lost her job after calling a student by an alternative name without parental permission, sparking community backlash in the conservative birthplace of Moms for Liberty as school officials sought to comply with state law.
It’s the first known dismissal resulting from the campaign to shut down recognition of alternative gender identities — a policy piloted by Florida that spread to other Republican states and now has been taken up by the Trump administration.
Melissa Calhoun had taught in Brevard County for 11 years when she ran headlong into a state rule that bars school staff from deviating from students’ legal names without written parental permission. The rule applies to students who choose an alternative name because of a change in gender identity, as well as those who might want to use a nickname. In this case, Calhoun was respecting the wishes of a student whose legal name is associated with girls, a person familiar with the situation said.
One of the student’s parents complained to the school district, which investigated the matter. The teacher admitted to knowingly using an alternative name without permission, district spokeswoman Janet Murnaghan said in a statement. This “directly violates state law” and district procedures, she said. The teacher received a letter of reprimand and was told last week that her annual contract, which expires in May, was not renewed, though she will finish out this school year.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2025/04/10/florida-teacher-loses-job-gender-identity/
What a fucked up country Republicans are forcing us all to live in.

sop
(13,712 posts)4catsmom
(633 posts)then it's let 'er rip
NCDem47
(2,756 posts)With authoritativism rising worldwide, billionaires operating with impunity, corrosive social media, envirnomntal catastrophies, and crap like this story out of Florida....well, the future doesn't look so bright.
DiverDave
(5,077 posts)It, but turned it off.
To close to reality for me.
I won't watch the rest.
maveric
(16,832 posts)And eye-opening. It’s what’s happening now.
Xavier Breath
(5,507 posts)Thanks
Frasier Balzov
(4,308 posts)sop
(13,712 posts)Frasier Balzov
(4,308 posts)TommyT139
(1,222 posts)...or if the kid has, proves even more the need for protecting the student over the bigotry of the parent. That also allows the student to learn.
We need quality teachers in other states - hope she can pick up and move.
CrispyQ
(39,459 posts)WTF???
I may have lost a friend over this stupid woke shit. She says she's tired of having to be careful with pronouns. I asked, exactly how many people have asked you to use a different pronoun & if they're someone in your network, why wouldn't you respect that? Turns out no one's asked her she's just tired of all the trans talk. I have no idea who her friends are since she moved, but I told her I thought this whole woke crap was just the whine of the day by a bunch of bigots with nothing going on in their own lives. I haven't heard back from her & that was three months ago. The amazing thing is, she's Canadian. This tariff shit hadn't happened then, but Trump had talked about making Canada the 51st state.
Walleye
(39,614 posts)Because that’s all they’re really asking here. Don’t hurt their feelings on purpose what’s the point of it and don’t pretend it’s too much trouble to use different names or pronouns
CrispyQ
(39,459 posts)I had a similar conversation with a cousin I grew up with & said, "When we were kids we called it being polite."
Walleye
(39,614 posts)CountAllVotes
(21,675 posts)My name was considered to be "childish" I was told by my teacher named "Mrs. Beasley".
I was named after my grandaunt. She died in 1962.
I went by that name (and still do with old acquaintances).
Some know me by my renamed name, others don't.
These days I'm going by my grandaunt's name.
I never like the renamed name.
Walleye
(39,614 posts)I think Lumpy and Lardass like a word. Maybe it’s a nickname, I was never called by my full birth name in school. How do they know it was changed because of gender identity? Such bullshit. It’s hard to believe.
TommyT139
(1,222 posts)In this case, Calhoun was respecting the wishes of a student whose legal name is associated with girls, a person familiar with the situation said.
Reads to me like the student identifies as a boy or nonbinary.
Walleye
(39,614 posts)Johonny
(23,339 posts)To firing people for using names not on the approved list pretty quickly.
TommieMommy
(1,817 posts)DFW
(57,748 posts)I.e. starting January 20th of this year.
Every time Democrats take back the White House, they spend most of the next four years on damage control from the previous four years of republican rule. Next time (if there is one) they will need 6 out of the next 4 years for damage control, and tghat doesn't even begin to deal with sick stories like this one at the state level..