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Zorro

(18,318 posts)
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 10:33 AM Apr 2025

Florida teacher loses job for calling student by preferred name

It’s the first known dismissal stemming from the conservative campaign to limit schools' recognition of transgender identity.

A Florida high school teacher lost her job after calling a student by an alternative name without parental permission, sparking community backlash in the conservative birthplace of Moms for Liberty as school officials sought to comply with state law.

It’s the first known dismissal resulting from the campaign to shut down recognition of alternative gender identities — a policy piloted by Florida that spread to other Republican states and now has been taken up by the Trump administration.

Melissa Calhoun had taught in Brevard County for 11 years when she ran headlong into a state rule that bars school staff from deviating from students’ legal names without written parental permission. The rule applies to students who choose an alternative name because of a change in gender identity, as well as those who might want to use a nickname. In this case, Calhoun was respecting the wishes of a student whose legal name is associated with girls, a person familiar with the situation said.

One of the student’s parents complained to the school district, which investigated the matter. The teacher admitted to knowingly using an alternative name without permission, district spokeswoman Janet Murnaghan said in a statement. This “directly violates state law” and district procedures, she said. The teacher received a letter of reprimand and was told last week that her annual contract, which expires in May, was not renewed, though she will finish out this school year.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2025/04/10/florida-teacher-loses-job-gender-identity/

What a fucked up country Republicans are forcing us all to live in.
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Florida teacher loses job for calling student by preferred name (Original Post) Zorro Apr 2025 OP
The Rule of Law is sacred for Republicans. sop Apr 2025 #1
Hilarious Easterncedar Apr 2025 #20
unless it involves stock manipulation 4catsmom Apr 2025 #22
I watched a quasi documentary/fictional film last night called 2073 NCDem47 Apr 2025 #2
I started watching DiverDave Apr 2025 #5
I watched it. Frightening. maveric Apr 2025 #11
Somehow that had slipped by my movie radar, but it's currently on HBO so I will check it out. Xavier Breath Apr 2025 #12
Does this student's parents have an opinion? Frasier Balzov Apr 2025 #3
"One of the student's parents complained to the school district..." sop Apr 2025 #4
Thank you! Frasier Balzov Apr 2025 #10
Which is exactly why the kid hasn't come out at home .. TommyT139 Apr 2025 #17
Okay, then no more Bob or Rob for Robert, or Kim for Kimberley, AJ for Alex James. CrispyQ Apr 2025 #6
And JD? Ask her if she's just plain tired of being considerate of other people's feelings Walleye Apr 2025 #9
JD - ha ha. How could I have forgotten that sorry loser? CrispyQ Apr 2025 #15
Exactly and that's all it is plain and simple. Apparently being polite is out of fashion. I say civilization is breaking Walleye Apr 2025 #16
I was renamed in the 5th grade CountAllVotes Apr 2025 #7
This is strange they didn't like what the student was doing so they disciplined the teacher, not the student? Walleye Apr 2025 #8
Here's the pertinent part TommyT139 Apr 2025 #18
Either way, but I don't get the outrage. Walleye Apr 2025 #19
So we went from, we can call people retards again Johonny Apr 2025 #13
OMG this is insane 😡 TommieMommy Apr 2025 #14
We are allowing and doing some very sick things in our country since the dark times DFW Apr 2025 #21

NCDem47

(3,315 posts)
2. I watched a quasi documentary/fictional film last night called 2073
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 10:38 AM
Apr 2025

With authoritativism rising worldwide, billionaires operating with impunity, corrosive social media, envirnomntal catastrophies, and crap like this story out of Florida....well, the future doesn't look so bright.

DiverDave

(5,210 posts)
5. I started watching
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 10:45 AM
Apr 2025

It, but turned it off.
To close to reality for me.
I won't watch the rest.

Xavier Breath

(6,413 posts)
12. Somehow that had slipped by my movie radar, but it's currently on HBO so I will check it out.
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 11:09 AM
Apr 2025

Thanks

TommyT139

(2,134 posts)
17. Which is exactly why the kid hasn't come out at home ..
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 12:02 PM
Apr 2025

...or if the kid has, proves even more the need for protecting the student over the bigotry of the parent. That also allows the student to learn.

We need quality teachers in other states - hope she can pick up and move.

CrispyQ

(40,612 posts)
6. Okay, then no more Bob or Rob for Robert, or Kim for Kimberley, AJ for Alex James.
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 10:47 AM
Apr 2025

WTF???

I may have lost a friend over this stupid woke shit. She says she's tired of having to be careful with pronouns. I asked, exactly how many people have asked you to use a different pronoun & if they're someone in your network, why wouldn't you respect that? Turns out no one's asked her she's just tired of all the trans talk. I have no idea who her friends are since she moved, but I told her I thought this whole woke crap was just the whine of the day by a bunch of bigots with nothing going on in their own lives. I haven't heard back from her & that was three months ago. The amazing thing is, she's Canadian. This tariff shit hadn't happened then, but Trump had talked about making Canada the 51st state.

Walleye

(43,691 posts)
9. And JD? Ask her if she's just plain tired of being considerate of other people's feelings
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 10:51 AM
Apr 2025

Because that’s all they’re really asking here. Don’t hurt their feelings on purpose what’s the point of it and don’t pretend it’s too much trouble to use different names or pronouns

CrispyQ

(40,612 posts)
15. JD - ha ha. How could I have forgotten that sorry loser?
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 11:23 AM
Apr 2025

I had a similar conversation with a cousin I grew up with & said, "When we were kids we called it being polite."

Walleye

(43,691 posts)
16. Exactly and that's all it is plain and simple. Apparently being polite is out of fashion. I say civilization is breaking
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 11:37 AM
Apr 2025

CountAllVotes

(22,055 posts)
7. I was renamed in the 5th grade
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 10:48 AM
Apr 2025

My name was considered to be "childish" I was told by my teacher named "Mrs. Beasley".

I was named after my grandaunt. She died in 1962.

I went by that name (and still do with old acquaintances).

Some know me by my renamed name, others don't.

These days I'm going by my grandaunt's name.

I never like the renamed name.




Walleye

(43,691 posts)
8. This is strange they didn't like what the student was doing so they disciplined the teacher, not the student?
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 10:49 AM
Apr 2025

I think Lumpy and Lardass like a word. Maybe it’s a nickname, I was never called by my full birth name in school. How do they know it was changed because of gender identity? Such bullshit. It’s hard to believe.

TommyT139

(2,134 posts)
18. Here's the pertinent part
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 12:05 PM
Apr 2025
In this case, Calhoun was respecting the wishes of a student whose legal name is associated with girls, a person familiar with the situation said.


Reads to me like the student identifies as a boy or nonbinary.

Johonny

(25,291 posts)
13. So we went from, we can call people retards again
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 11:10 AM
Apr 2025

To firing people for using names not on the approved list pretty quickly.

DFW

(59,685 posts)
21. We are allowing and doing some very sick things in our country since the dark times
Thu Apr 10, 2025, 01:01 PM
Apr 2025

I.e. starting January 20th of this year.

Every time Democrats take back the White House, they spend most of the next four years on damage control from the previous four years of republican rule. Next time (if there is one) they will need 6 out of the next 4 years for damage control, and tghat doesn't even begin to deal with sick stories like this one at the state level..

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