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Seeing Obama and trump yucking it up (Original Post) choie Jan 9 OP
In politics you are expected to be civil to people you loathe. Ocelot II Jan 9 #1
Maybe he can, but I can't hawkeye21 Jan 9 #21
Stalin and FDR had a warm relationship EdmondDantes_ Jan 9 #24
Looked like Obama was humoring the clown along while trump initiated most of the engagement tman Jan 9 #2
Maybe Obama drew the short straw Attilatheblond Jan 9 #36
At this point it's probably better to try to soothe the beast than rattle his cage. mobeau69 Jan 9 #3
Probably. Also, Obama is on T's "enemies within" list Mike 03 Jan 9 #16
When has he or his cult ever been soothed or acted with decorum Boomerproud Jan 9 #17
Fascists can be funny. jalan48 Jan 9 #4
That kind of threw me off kilter. Autumn Jan 9 #5
He should have said: rustbeltvoice Jan 9 #6
He might have. 33taw Jan 9 #7
No, thats the wrong place. Obama would never. Callie1979 Jan 9 #8
I looked in briefly and mostly they're gloating Shrek Jan 9 #9
It looked to me like Obama "took one for the team" happybird Jan 9 #31
the Carters would've hated that. thebigidea Jan 9 #13
I didn't see it. The photo I saw shows apparently Pres. O drew the short straw and... brush Jan 9 #10
Yukking it up? I didn't see it that way. wnylib Jan 9 #11
Michele may have said "all due respect to Pres. Carter but since trump... brush Jan 9 #14
There is a photo of Obama smiling a big smile while talking to trump. SamKnause Jan 9 #19
I didn't see that. I was watching on PBS. wnylib Jan 9 #23
here you go choie Jan 9 #32
Bluesky won't open on my phone. wnylib Jan 9 #39
I don't have a doubt in my mind that TSF knows exactly how the Obamas feel about him. Deuxcents Jan 9 #12
Michelle went to Rosalynn's service without President Obama. Hope22 Jan 9 #15
They were seated in the order of when they... 3catwoman3 Jan 9 #26
It is fucking disgusting. SamKnause Jan 9 #18
More normalization MFM008 Jan 9 #35
Pres Obama is a class act Sundance1220 Jan 9 #20
Absolutely. Thank you. elleng Jan 9 #30
Its a mark of political skill. milestogo Jan 9 #22
Possible discussion IzzaNuDay Jan 9 #25
I can understand having to B.See Jan 9 #27
No way I could do that, Beachnutt Jan 9 #28
Bill and Bush 2.0 are pretty close from what I understand HereForTheParty Jan 9 #29
Too much being made of this, I think. yorkster Jan 9 #33
It was disappointing MFM008 Jan 9 #34
Obama was there for Jimmy and his family. Making a Hassler Jan 9 #37
I'd never second guess President Obama... he had his reasons. WarGamer Jan 9 #38
No doubt Obama made a few disguised jabs that dumbo wouldn't get. Clouds Passing Jan 9 #40

Ocelot II

(123,555 posts)
1. In politics you are expected to be civil to people you loathe.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:16 PM
Jan 9

I couldn't do it, but Obama has been in the business for quite awhile, and he's had to put up with Trump many times. He could handle it for another hour or two.

hawkeye21

(313 posts)
21. Maybe he can, but I can't
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 05:54 PM
Jan 9

It's like Chamberlain sharing jokes with Hitler. It's bullshit. Trump shouldn't have been allowed within 100 miles of the funeral. What the hell is a felon doing there, especially one who's a sexual deviant and traitor? Obama acting "normal" in this context is totally abnormal and revolting.

EdmondDantes_

(305 posts)
24. Stalin and FDR had a warm relationship
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 06:45 PM
Jan 9

Stalin was a mass murdering authoritarian dictator. Scalia and RBG, same thing.

tman

(1,161 posts)
2. Looked like Obama was humoring the clown along while trump initiated most of the engagement
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:16 PM
Jan 9

but yeah..

mobeau69

(11,857 posts)
3. At this point it's probably better to try to soothe the beast than rattle his cage.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:18 PM
Jan 9

Obama doing what he can to save our nation.

Mike 03

(18,211 posts)
16. Probably. Also, Obama is on T's "enemies within" list
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:02 PM
Jan 9

I'm sure he doesn't want Trump's last memory of him to be a situation in which he antagonized Orange Dump to his face.

Boomerproud

(8,647 posts)
17. When has he or his cult ever been soothed or acted with decorum
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:08 PM
Jan 9

and class? I'm sure he came out of that service a changed man.

Callie1979

(604 posts)
8. No, thats the wrong place. Obama would never.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:28 PM
Jan 9

Its the funeral of a president & all formers are part of the ceremony whether its irritating or not
Obama wouldve been the one who looked bad
And believe me, I'll bet you can go to twitter & find a LOT of MAGAts going NUTS over trump even speaking with him.

Shrek

(4,243 posts)
9. I looked in briefly and mostly they're gloating
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:31 PM
Jan 9

Posting memes like "Remember when you said I'd never be President?" and such.

happybird

(5,358 posts)
31. It looked to me like Obama "took one for the team"
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 07:12 PM
Jan 9

He was the only person the menace was interacting with, graciously allowing the others to ignore (one might even say snub) the idiot. Barack is charming and sharp as a tack, more than capable of handling it.

brush

(59,170 posts)
10. I didn't see it. The photo I saw shows apparently Pres. O drew the short straw and...
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:32 PM
Jan 9

had to sit next to the stinky one. Sometimes you have to take one for the team.

It's obvious to me that the orange turd insists on being included and present in the former presidents/first Ladies club whenever they convene on these solemn, national events.

wnylib

(25,190 posts)
11. Yukking it up? I didn't see it that way.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:33 PM
Jan 9

They did not look chummy to me.

I wondered what they were talking about. Could have been anything, but Obama looked civil and serious to me, not buddy-buddy.

Where was Michele? I wonder if that's what Obama and Trump were talking about.


brush

(59,170 posts)
14. Michele may have said "all due respect to Pres. Carter but since trump...
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:50 PM
Jan 9

insists on showing up, I'm not."

SamKnause

(14,091 posts)
19. There is a photo of Obama smiling a big smile while talking to trump.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:41 PM
Jan 9

Republicans (maga) have already commented on it.

wnylib

(25,190 posts)
23. I didn't see that. I was watching on PBS.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 06:31 PM
Jan 9

I just saw them talking. Trump kept leaning back to say something to Obama. Obama leaned forward a little to listen. A couple times it looked like Obama leaned forward farther to say something else or ask a question maybe. Didn't see any smiles.

But, who knows. Maybe Obama was smiling on the surface and laughing inside at something stupid. Maybe Trump complained about Obama's innuendo at the Dem Convention about Trump's "crowd" size and Obama was smiling to know that he succeeded in getting under Trump's skin.





Deuxcents

(21,261 posts)
12. I don't have a doubt in my mind that TSF knows exactly how the Obamas feel about him.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:35 PM
Jan 9

I think Obama got the short straw because Michelle is not with him today. Being gracious is what adults do, putting your wife on the end seat, not so much.

Hope22

(3,673 posts)
15. Michelle went to Rosalynn's service without President Obama.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 01:56 PM
Jan 9

Maybe they decided early on how they would handle this.

3catwoman3

(26,331 posts)
26. They were seated in the order of when they...
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 06:52 PM
Jan 9

…held office. At least, that’s what it looked like to me.

SamKnause

(14,091 posts)
18. It is fucking disgusting.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:39 PM
Jan 9

He should be shunned and ignored.

I'm sick of all the bullshit.


It's just politics.

Their being civil.

Their taking the high road.



If trump was as dangerous as Hitler before he was elected what has changed ???

Fucking nothing except now he is even more dangerous.

It is as if no one in power has a clue about the damage trump has done and will do to this country, it's people, and the world.

 

Sundance1220

(285 posts)
20. Pres Obama is a class act
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 02:43 PM
Jan 9

and wouldn't think of defiling Pres Carter's funeral by making it about himself and donnie. That's ALL that was.

B.See

(4,815 posts)
27. I can understand having to
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 06:54 PM
Jan 9

demonstrate a certain degree of civility and decorum in a setting to honour a man such as Jimmy Carter,

but still I'd file it under one of those unimaginable loathsome sights that, once seen, cannot be UNSEEN. So (imo) best you not look if you haven't.

Trump is the ANTITHESIS of all that men like Carter and Obama hold dear. So sitting next to this cretin must have been unbearable.

I personally wouldn't want to be in the same vicinity as TSF.

HereForTheParty

(697 posts)
29. Bill and Bush 2.0 are pretty close from what I understand
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 07:00 PM
Jan 9

Obama is probably just putting up with him.

yorkster

(2,843 posts)
33. Too much being made of this, I think.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 07:24 PM
Jan 9

Nationally televised state funerals not really the place for moments of truth, other than the glaring truth of the flag-draped coffin of the beloved President.
Pres. Obama appeared to deal gracefully with Trump, who at some point finally cooled it with the chatter. The literal juxtaposition of those 2 men speaks volumes.
I certainly did feel for Barack Obama, though.

Hassler

(4,123 posts)
37. Obama was there for Jimmy and his family. Making a
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 08:50 PM
Jan 9

Scene would have made us feel better, but not sure about the Carters.

WarGamer

(16,579 posts)
38. I'd never second guess President Obama... he had his reasons.
Thu Jan 9, 2025, 08:56 PM
Jan 9

Maybe he wants to keep the door open if he needs to pick up the phone if ever necessary.

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