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Misery loves company. I for one, am over this slew of pathetic, self-pitying screeds. Pick yourselves up and fucking fight. OK?
The Wandering Harper
(772 posts)I don't come here to get demoralized
that's what facebook is for
but a lot of y'all are giving it some stiff competition
JustAnotherGen
(33,811 posts)Do you have in mind?
The Wandering Harper
(772 posts)that's for sure
The Wandering Harper
(772 posts)I'm not great at summarizing and it's lengthy,
so I'll present the title of each section with my favorite sentence or passage from that section.
1. Trust yourself
If you dont want to read this article now and instead take a good walk, do it.
2. Find others who you trust
I promise Ill head towards practical resistance strategies. But the emotional landscape matters a great deal. Hannah Arendts The Origins of Totalitarianism explored how destructive ideologies like fascism and autocracy grow. She used the word verlassenheit often translated as loneliness as a central ingredient. As she meant it, loneliness isnt a feeling but a kind of social isolation of the mind. Your thinking becomes closed off to the world and a sense of being abandoned to each other.
3. Grieve
After Donald Trump won in 2016, we all saw colleagues who never grieved. They didnt look into their feelings and the future and as a result they remained in shock. For years they kept saying, I cant believe hes doing that
4. Release that which you cannot change
Unaddressed, this desire to act on everything leads to bad strategy. Nine months ago when we gathered activists to scenario plan together, we took note of two knee-jerk tendencies from the left that ended up largely being dead-ends in the face of Trump:
Public angsting posting outrage on social media, talking with friends, sharing awful news
Symbolic actions organizing marches and public statements
The first is where we look around at bad things happening and make sure other people know about them, too. We satisfy the social pressure of our friends who want us to show outrage but the driving moves are only reactive. The end result wasnt the intended action or an informed population. Its demoralizing us. Its hurting our capacity for action. Public angsting as a strategy is akin to pleading with the hole in the boat to stop us from sinking.
5. Find your path
One pathway is called Protecting People.
6. Do not obey in advance, do not self-censor
(a thought not directly from the article,
but I see a lot of "we can't do anything" kind of thinking around here,
and it looks to me like a kind of obeying in advance)
7. Reorient your political map
How we position ourselves matters: Are we interested in engaging with people unhappy with the regime whether because they love the current institutions or are unhappy with Trumps policies on them? Are we able to tell a story that explains how we got here and do political education? Or are we only interested in maintaining ideological purity and preaching to our own choir?
8. Get real about power
Power will need to emerge from folks no longer obeying the current unjust system.
9. Handle fear, make violence rebound
They were young people who took a sarcastic response to regular police beatings. They would joke amongst each other, It only hurts if youre scared.
Their attitude wasnt cavalier it was tactical. They were not going to grow fear.
10. Envision a positive future
I dont feel certain, and Im not predicting we win. But weve all now imagined storylines about how bad it might get. We would do ourselves a service to spend an equal measure of time envisioning how we might advance our cause in these conditions.
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LatteLady
(49 posts)Just because someone is upset and expresses that sense in this supposedly safe space doesnt mean they have not fought, are not fighting, will not fight. Im doing both and imagine others are too.
Bernardo de La Paz
(51,248 posts)At the same time, I get and endorse the OP main point:
Whatever your feelings, Resist!
Buddyzbuddy
(58 posts)There are those here that for some reason want to crap on those that want to energize the fight. Ignore them, don't engage. They will suck the life out of you. They will misdirect, change the subject and try to trap you into a quagmire. They will challenge you. Recognize them early and leave them talking to themselves. They may be opposition or just somebody pushing your buttons because it's fun. The "fight" IMHO can be as little as just exchanging accurate information, sharing strategies, coping mechanisms or just lending an ear to DUers that feel hopeless. There will probably be darker times in the near future but keep hope alive and help each other when possible. Give yourself a break when it becomes to heavy a lift. Listen to music, watch puppy videos, take a walk outside and then get back in the fight.